Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

The most important thing that many of you have to learn is to be comfortable being alone.

But there's a difference between being alone out of choice and because nobody wants you. Once you're comfortable being alone, it will become easier for you to get rid of females and move on with your life when they bring the bullshyt your way. The only people who tolerate the nonsense are those who are afraid to be alone.

Consider being chick free a blessing. Somebody said this earlier: Be about your business and make that the center of your world, not no chick. Women are complimentary to the life you're trying to live, not the nucleus. I guarantee that once you're comfortable with being alone, you will make better selections on the chicks you decide to deal with because you're not dating women just for the sake of not being alone.

And also, women are highly attracted to men who chose them, not those who beg to be chosen.

This is even in the Bible Genesis 2:18 "a Helper" "a complement"

This is in the First book 2nd chapter. God must've known men would've gotten this wrong that's why he mentioned it early... and you didn't have to read the entire bible to find it either.

 

[Schmoove]

 

[kevm3]

Keep on dropping that knowledge sharp

we going to keep it rolling. one of the MAIN reasons that it is important to have rules is so that you have a guideline to know who is in the wrong. If you did everything right and the woman still left you, you should hold your head up high and keep it pushing and not let that woman change you. Sometimes it IS possible that you are in an environment where there isn't a lot of quality and you went for something lower than your standard.

Your principles should be rooted in righteousness and fairness. In other words, the sum accumulation of your actions should be beneficial to you and to the lady you are leading. There are certain women out there who do like to deal with men who treat them bad, but these are simply women you do not deal with. Do not lower your level of manhood to follow behind a self-destructive breed of woman. Learn to look past looks and even her 'conversation game.' If shes not attracted to positivity and building with you and looking out for you just as much as you are looking out for her, she's not to be dealt with.

Why do I say your principles should be rooted in righteousness and fairness? If your principles are not fair and only benefit you, you are not a leader, you are a manipulator. Manipulators get their just due eventually. Righteousness is obvious. You always want to do the right thing. You simply will not have anything that you really want over the long term if you are always engaged in dirty actions, and one thing a woman will do is pick up on your behavior and she'll eventually return the favor with dirty actions of her own.

Now this is a quality test and you have to be as honest with yourself as possible. List the things you enjoy to do, list the things you bring to a table in a relationship and list the values you really uphold. Also, list your flaws. Make sure you are as hard on yourself as possible since it will only be you reading this. "I like to come home from work and watch television. I like to go out to different places to eat. I value family. I bring honesty and integrity to a relationship. I'm impatient. I'm laid back when it comes to problem solving. I expect to talk to my woman every day. I don't get out and enjoy myself as much as I could. I'm not as social as I could be."

After you've done all of that, change all of those I's in your statement into a 'she'. she likes to come home to work and watch television. she likes to go out to different places to eat, etc. When you reread it all, honestly think and assess if you would date that person that had all the characteristics you listed. That is a test for fairness. If you wouldn't deal with that kind of individual, it shows what you need to improve. Now, imagine all of those characteristics you listed on another man... If you pictured another man that had all those characteristics you listed, would he be a man you'd imagine to pull and hold a woman? This is the manliness and flyness test. THIS is how you determine some of the characteristics you need to change. Do you match up to the principles you hold dear? Are your principles even worth holding dear or do you need to improve the quality of those? Am I really the man I am supposed to be?" These questions will tell you what you need to change and not because of what a woman or anyone else says.

 

[Atlrocafella]

It has been confirmed by 95% of the women that I have spoken to that they all know within 15 minutes of meeting you whether or not they will give you some. They all have admitted that it is a guy's swag or aura (as us grown folks like to call it), which makes women want to give up the booty. Women want men that other women want. You have to make yourself high demand with limited quality. I know you've been taught that the more women you fukk, the higher your stats go, but that's not true. The quality of women that you mess with is way more important the quantity.

Also, reputation is everything. Your friends know your character, but people who aren't familiar with you only know your reputation. Your perception of yourself should be the impression that you give to others. If you think you're a boss, then present yourself as a boss. Be humble, but confident in who you are and what you are capable of.

Make yourself exclusive, keep your circle limited, and keep these women on their toes. What I personally do a lot, is when I see random women on the street I would walk up to them and say "You have such a beautiful smile" or "You look so pretty in that dress". Of course some women would get defensive because they think you're trying to issue a pick up line. I say nothing else more than "Have a nice day" and walk off. These broads be stuck because they expected you to try to rap to them. And if you ever see her again, believe me, she will remember you. And she'll give you some play.

You have no idea how many random women have walked up to me on some "I remember you".

 

[kevm3]

here go a quick one

stop getting mad if a woman ain't trying to mess with you. just look at it as a whole lot of time saved and an opportunity opened up for a woman who really wants that spot.

 

[MikelArteta]

here go a quick one

stop getting mad if a woman ain't trying to mess with you. just look at it as a whole lot of time saved and an opportunity opened up for a woman who really wants that spot.

I always say look at ur like a blessing. She could be a cheater, carrying a std, emotional baggage.

 

[Two Stacks]

here go a quick one

stop getting mad if a woman ain't trying to mess with you. just look at it as a whole lot of time saved and an opportunity opened up for a woman who really wants that spot.

listen to this man. 1000% truth

 

[dangerranger]

so much good information here from everyone. Most importantly, I want to thank Sharp, Reincar, and Kevm. I wish i knew a lot of this stuff in my earlier years

 

[winb83]

The most important thing that many of you have to learn is to be comfortable being alone.

But there's a difference between being alone out of choice and because nobody wants you. Once you're comfortable being alone, it will become easier for you to get rid of females and move on with your life when they bring the bullshyt your way. The only people who tolerate the nonsense are those who are afraid to be alone.

Consider being chick free a blessing. Somebody said this earlier: Be about your business and make that the center of your world, not no chick. Women are complimentary to the life you're trying to live, not the nucleus. I guarantee that once you're comfortable with being alone, you will make better selections on the chicks you decide to deal with because you're not dating women just for the sake of not being alone.

And also, women are highly attracted to men who chose them, not those who beg to be chosen.

I've reached a point in my life now where I'd rather be alone than deal with the kind of women I've dealt with in my past.

I'm gonna take some time off of the dating scene and rebuild my life as at the present moment I'm not where I wanna be. I spent a lot of my life sacrificing for women that were never worth the investment.

Deep down I know now that if I invest in myself and become a better man that the female issues will take care of themselves and if they don't that's ok. The higher quality man one becomes the better women he's gonna attract. Most of the men that constantly bash and complain about women aren't worthy of the type of females they want and their frustration is really just a reflection of self.

 

[MikelArteta]

I disagree, women and some men shame men that speaking out against women you are labeled a misogynist, bitter, angry.

I think men are waking up and now have a outlet to cent their frustration at the lack of morals in today modern women.


Te bible states who can find a virtuous woman for her price is above rubies.

8, 9s and 10s, will mess up just like the 4s and 5s, you can get a "good woman", and all it takes is one blemish and boom.

Like I've stated I've been engaged my ex fiancé was beautiful, righteous, virtuous, educated and had morals for 99.9 percent of the time we were together all it took was one blip and boom.

Just like a man who is married for 20 years faithful loving, and his wife strays she was faithful dime for 20 years is it the mans fault for not knowing he picked a woman who would stray after 20 years?



It doesn't matter how "higher quality" you are yes you attract better lookin females look wise but trait wise?

You can be a poor ass man yet still get a high quality woman she may not look like Esther Baxter she may be average but with a heart of gold.

 

[MikelArteta]

Young women look at nice decent men and say "I know he would be good to me, but he will be available in ten to 15 years, If I become desperate. For now I want to impress my girlfriends and have something to gossip about.

Incidentally, they are usually wrong. Guys wise up and remove themselves from the meat matket. It's why on average men have steadily become happier than women over the past 50 years.

Being alone terrifies women, so they cobble together a Frankenstein monster of a boyfriend out of a half dozen to a dozen male friends that they hit up for their various needs on demand.

 

[MikelArteta]

A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands.
When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance:

You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are 6 floors and the value of
the products increase as you ascend the flights. You may choose any item
from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you
CANNOT go back down except to exit the building.

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband.
The 1st floor sign on the door reads:
Floor 1: These men have jobs.
The 2nd floor sign reads:
Floor 2: These men have Jobs and Love Kids.
The 3rd floor sign reads:
Floor 3: These men have Jobs, Love Kids and are extremely good looking.
"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.
She goes to the 4th floor and the sign reads:
Floor 4: These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and help with Housework.
"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!"
Still, she goes to the 5th floor and sign reads:
Floor 5: These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, help with Housework and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.

She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the 6th floor and the sign reads:
Floor 6: You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor.
There are no men on this floor.
This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please.
Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.

To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opens a New Wives store just across the street.
The 1st first floor has wives that love sex.
The 2nd floor has wives that love sex and have money.
The 3rd,4th, 5th and 6th floors have never been visited.

 

[kevm3]

I'm going to have to say that you will attract more women the more together you have it, but it'll ultimately be up to you to sort through them to determine their moral make-up. "Having it together" really isn't about having a ton of money and material possessions as much as it is about just feeling confident about who you are and knowing what you are about.

It IS a minefield in this day and age, but this is the sort of environment that a man will really have his wits challenged in. This is the environment that will allow a man to truly appreciate a quality woman. THIS is the environment that will expose a man's weaknesses so that they can be rooted out.

Things are bad right now, but men have always been stuck in bad situations. What a REAL man does is he decides to look at the situation and to CHANGE it for the better. The fact that it is trash is evident, but what is the underlying problem? The problem is that a lot of modern women simply do not have values conducive towards building in the long-term. Some of it has to do with the way they were raised, especially in this heavily female-based society. A lot of it also has to do with the message we as men send out.

Females ultimately follow what the man does. So my friends, it falls on our leadership. We simply must assume responsibility to even begin fixing the mess. First and foremost, we must simply have a concept of what we desire from a woman. Women cannot live up to a standard they do not know. Secondly, as men, we must encourage women who strive to reach that standard and reject those who do not. One of the greatest errors we make in this day and age is how much attention we pay to loose-moraled women and then we wonder why great women do not exist. As much as we like to get on the woman about having her fun and then settling, how many men do the same thing? How many men want to smash all the hoes when they are young and then settle down with a quality woman later? With our actions, we influence the reactions of many women. We award hoes with the most attention, so how can we expect quality women to wait for us? Second, we must be teachers. What IS a quality woman? Once we've determined that, we must effectively communicate that to women and deal with the women who actually live up to that standard. One of the critical components of leadership is the ability to communicate objectives and to teach. How does she actually become that woman you desire? Next, we simply must live up to what we preach. If we want loyalty, we must be loyal. Obviously there will be those women who reward loyalty and positivity with disloyalty, but that does not mean we should lower ourselves to that level.

You will always have your women who choose to live according to low standards, but it is up to you as a man to simply not deal with them. This is paralleled in every day life by students who have little desire to learn, in which case a high quality institution will simply not let them attend. It is up to you as a man to carefully screen the kind of women you choose to deal with. Your quantity may not be high, but quality is typically on the opposite end of the spectrum as quantity. This is why learning to be single is crucial. You may go through spells where you aren't dealing with many women, but that's simply because you are in a time where women aren't passing your screen, and this is fine. Never deal with women just to deal with them. Only deal with women who provide a purpose in your life. This will save you many problems. Your screens must be through and well developed to weed for certain traits. Ultimately, even if you do not find the quality of women here in your local environment, as a man it is up to your job to think of solutions, so if you REALLY want a woman, you may even have to go to an environment you are completely unaccustomed to where the women were raised on a different set of values.

 

[Sharp]

Never, ever allow a female to make you believe that she knows you better than you know yourself. When women think they have you figured out, they make these bold declarations about "Well you're not who you think you are. I should know, I been with you for 2 years."

You discipline disrespect by making her priority in your life lower than what it already was. You put in less time and less effort.

Fact is, if a woman wants to be with you, she's gonna notice the change and do whatever she can to make things right.

If a woman says fukk that, two can play this game, cut her off. She would have ended up being a disloyal snake.

But these principles can only be applied if you are not afraid to be alone. Don't believe that you always have to have a chick. Certain transition periods call for you to be single, and sometimes it is better that way. Jumping from relationship to relationship makes you look needy and bytch dependent. Take time for yourself in between relationships to re-evaluate your moves.

When just dating, my formula is as follows:

Date as many women as you want, by law... if you like a woman better than the rest, you will spend more time with her, limiting the amount of time you spend with the others. So in essence, these women are competing for your time. But even if you only are dating one woman, don't spend all of your time with her. She is still competing... but instead of other women she is competing with all the other things going on in your life with the goal of integrating herself in your life. Remember, you are the prize.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I cant front....I was dumped similar to Reincar. I loved a woman for about a year.The thing was...she was a churchgirl.Attended Sun,Wed,Thurs. I honestly didnt see the signs.As time went on things change big time... The naggin,complaining.The big mistake I made was being nice and not wanting to break her heart,I didnt know HOW to break up with her.Its like being on a job and not wanting to QUIT wth your pride and look for another job. One day I get a text with a happy face and im like cool. 3-4 hours later im watching the game (this is an important fact). She sends me the text...."we are growing apart and my feelings arent there anymore" etc.... Notice I put watching the game. My ex knew I love sports.It was to the point where I wanted to watch Super Bowl with no interuptions from her. Thats why if a woman knows you love something and is your passion and she isnt involved,. She will use it against you as a weapon.So Immedately when I got the text...I was on some angry steeze.Couldnt sleep for a night,upset at work...but I quickly regained my composure.I prayed it off,it was like a cool calmness over me.The first day or so I was upset.The next day I took down the pics,all other stuff.Fast forward to 2 weeks later. She comes to my school.... and this was when women were flocking to me for some reason. Maybe they sense my freedom So she comes to my school on some "Baby I miss you,I hope you ok". She tries to woo her way back in.I immediately said "Its a wrap" and then she texts me on some "You've changed".I ignored the text and changed my # now im winning as a single man. 3 main keys

1.Always listen to a female family member when it comes to women

2.Never tell a woman your 100% passion and love.

3.Never be too available..... be inconsistent when it comes to communication