Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I feel like white women are easier in the front end but don't have as big a payoff in the back end. They'll test you like all the rest, but it's easier to check them etc.
This is all from observations of my peers however.
 

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I agree as men we are the prize, never view yourself as less.

I've been there putting women above me thinking oh she's hot she has all these guys after her I hve no chance like a Dino but hope not anymore.

I'm not judging or putting down my fellow brehs, but good decent quality men and women are a rare commodity and I know I am one.
 
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Only give her one way to communicate with you.
She doesn't need your twitter, facebook, and your phone number.
This is how you get caught up; tell her to pick one and keep it movin

See I'm feeling this right here. Unless the woman is your wife, you shouldn't have to give her all of you. A chick shouldn't know your hours and how you operate daily. Whatever time you designate as "her" time, she should adapt to and not try to hassle you with spending every single second of a day with her. You gotta set the tone and let a chick know that you need your space to do you and move in the manner you want to.Chicks want you to text all day, call and talk to them on the phone all night, tweet shyt to you and read shyt on your facebook. Theres no point in talking to a girl all day on the phone thru any means because when you two finally hang out in person yall dont have shyt to talk about and shes gonna complaining about it.

You gotta be able to still be your own man and let the girl know that YOUR time is your time. She should be able to be independent from you and not cling and be able to function without hearing from you every hour. The type of chick that needs every type of median to stay in constant contact with you is either crazy or crazy. Theres no in between! Nothing worse than a chick getting mad at you and deciding to take her frustrates out on your home or car :snoop:
 

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See I'm feeling this right here. Unless the woman is your wife, you shouldn't have to give her all of you. A chick shouldn't know your hours and how you operate daily. Whatever time you designate as "her" time, she should adapt to and not try to hassle you with spending every single second of a day with her. You gotta set the tone and let a chick know that you need your space to do you and move in the manner you want to.Chicks want you to text all day, call and talk to them on the phone all night, tweet shyt to you and read shyt on your facebook. Theres no point in talking to a girl all day on the phone thru any means because when you two finally hang out in person yall dont have shyt to talk about and shes gonna complaining about it.

You gotta be able to still be your own man and let the girl know that YOUR time is your time. She should be able to be independent from you and not cling and be able to function without hearing from you every hour. The type of chick that needs every type of median to stay in constant contact with you is either crazy or crazy. Theres no in between! Nothing worse than a chick getting mad at you and deciding to take her frustrates out on your home or car :snoop:

Co-sign to the fullest. When I was younger I used to make this mistake. One thing you don't want to be is predictable to a woman. She doesn't need to know your routine. All she needs to know is what time you guys are spending together and the caveats of that. You'll have women that will randomly call you throughout the day to check on you. Answer your phone every so often. Don't be afraid to send her to voicemail at times. You're not obligated to talk to her everytime she calls. Also, if you're doing something important or just plain busy, if she calls, then let her know. Never stop what you're doing for her. Tell her that you're busy and that you'll call her back.

Your time is valuable. If she doesn't acknowledge this, she won't respect you. Remember, in a relationship respect is more important than love. This might be a hard concept to grasp, but anybody here who has been in a long-term relationship understands what I'm saying wholeheartedly.
 

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It has been confirmed by 95% of the women that I have spoken to that they all know within 15 minutes of meeting you whether or not they will give you some. They all have admitted that it is a guy's swag or aura (as us grown folks like to call it), which makes women want to give up the booty. Women want men that other women want. You have to make yourself high demand with limited quality. I know you've been taught that the more women you fukk, the higher your stats go, but that's not true. The quality of women that you mess with is way more important the quantity.

Also, reputation is everything. Your friends know your character, but people who aren't familiar with you only know your reputation. Your perception of yourself should be the impression that you give to others. If you think you're a boss, then present yourself as a boss. Be humble, but confident in who you are and what you are capable of.

Make yourself exclusive, keep your circle limited, and keep these women on their toes. What I personally do a lot, is when I see random women on the street I would walk up to them and say "You have such a beautiful smile" or "You look so pretty in that dress". Of course some women would get defensive because they think you're trying to issue a pick up line. I say nothing else more than "Have a nice day" and walk off. These broads be stuck because they expected you to try to rap to them. And if you ever see her again, believe me, she will remember you. And she'll give you some play.

You have no idea how many random women have walked up to me on some "I remember you".
 

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Sharp is killing it


Even by just saying to a chick nice shoes and that's it she'll ponder was there something in my teeth was y hair not done right , you have removed the power from them.





And remember brehs any time a women says she has options just laugh she may like every chick has 100 guys who want to smash her but few who want to commit
 

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Also, your friends reflect who you are. Some of you may believe if you're the fly one in a crew full of bums that you're going to get the most play. Most chicks will overlook you and your crew. Stay surrounded with cats that are on your level. A team full of all stars gets more wins, than a team with one all star. Cause in reality if you're the only fly dude on your squad, you're better off rolling for dolo.
 

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Also, your friends reflect who you are. Some of you may believe if you're the fly one in a crew full of bums that you're going to get the most play. Most chicks will overlook you and your crew. Stay surrounded with cats that are on your level. A team full of all stars gets more wins, than a team with one all star. Cause in reality if you're the only fly dude on your squad, you're better off rolling for dolo.

Great advice
 
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