Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Kilgore Trout]

if she's apologizing the way u say she is, why not turn that to your advantage? i'm all for seizing opportunities when they show up.

keep ur answers to her short. tell her she crossed the line and she's going to have to make it up to u.

since u said ur willing to dead her, might as well do it with a bang. when she ask u what she can do to make it up to u. tell her she's gonna have to come to crib to cook u something and shes' gone have to do it wearing sexy launderie. (no lols or smilies). she'll think ur joking. ignore any texts she sends after that until she says something to the effect of "alright, when can i come through". then its on u.

u goto slay that puccy man. and let this reaffirm in ur mind that u shouldn't be putting women on a pedestal. if shes willing to do what she did in front of u, i bet u there's more to her that if u find out, u'lll be disgusted at ever knowing her to begin with.

Yo so we ended up going out last week. Havent seen her since that time and I ended up smashing. Now shes like kinda avoiding me lol.

I still feel like a boss though.

Until now I didnt realize the true power you have being a man.

 

[kevm3]

Almost all the women on her friends list look good and none of them are exposing themselves. This girl has about 230 pics and half are with her family. Look at her friend yeah she has braces but does that look like a likely American couple?

Spoiler

She's real cute too. If you seen her in the US, she'd be standing by herself or with her homegirls with some, "look at how fine I think I am" smirk on her face.

 

[Liquid]

Yeah man, that's the problem with these women here in America. They think they are so fly that they can disqualify you based on one joke they found unfunny or one statement they didn't like... as if they were some kind of queens. Those are the situations where it's not even fun... like you are walking on eggshells. But nowadays, I'm like if she doesn't like it, she can get on. I don't have a second of time or an iota of desire to pander to a woman, especially a majority these western females who offer virtually nothing besides their looks. If you watched that documentary about them black men going to brazil "Frustrated", you saw the first thing out of those womens' mouths were along the lines of, "What can he do for me." What did they bring to the table? Their degrees. Obviously they are going to get mad when they aren't getting all of that attention cheaply anymore and men done opened up the market globally.

To be fair many women do change once they mature, but that can vary depending on several factors that I just don't feel like diving all the way deep into. It can either be a past experience, not getting as much attention anymore, looks fading away, maturity, or a combination of it all.

Yeah there will always be that type that will NEVER get it and always expect a guy to be on his toes just to talk to them. Unfortunately that is most likely the very fine ones who never experienced the lack of attention that sometimes comes with age on certain women. The ones I know have made big changes once they have a kid...they become desperate and fall for ANY guy that gives them even a BIT of attention. My friend a couple of months ago was telling me a girl was all over him simply because he "liked" a picture on facebook

I am sure we all deal with it till this day and know a couple personally. I put them in line at all times though. Its a must to make sure you don't become "That Guy" she comes back to after she has been around with all the others ones and finds you a suitable match just simply due to the fact that you treated her nice - on some 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or 5th option shyt

I actually had to remind one earlier in the year what was up, she was all upset and tried to flip it ON ME.

 

[kevm3]

A lot of these females don't change until their attention levels fall off due to them getting older, having kids, etc. Don't try to see what's up and act cool now that you fell off.

Yeah she'll be the one that is in the wind and will pop up and when you ain't acting all impressed she'll try to flip the script on some why you so distant ordeal.

I'mma flip that quote that women love to repeat on them. "If you can't mess with me when you're at your best, don't try to holla at me when you're at your worst."

 

[kevm3]

Katerina Graham

Crystal Kay

Man there's too many fine women out there in the world.

 

[Oye]

She's real cute too. If you seen her in the US, she'd be standing by herself or with her homegirls with some, "look at how fine I think I am" smirk on her face.

Lol! Too true that kid wouldn't get the time of day here. You can talk to Brazilian girls if you join some groups on Facebook they are really friendly.

 

[kevm3]

Lol! Too true that kid wouldn't get the time of day here. You can talk to Brazilian girls if you join some groups on Facebook they are really friendly.

Anyone can see that kool-aid smile on that kid's face. If he was here in America he'd be looking mad or depressed lol

the one thing I love about America though is that it made me really step my game up. If you get a lot of women smiling and eyeing you here, you're going to look like a diamond to the rest of the world, not even counting the fact that you are an americano. If your style shines here, you will be fresh elsewhere.

preciate the heads up. if you got time, pm me a name of one of those groups so i can check into it.

 

[philmonroe]

The woman that I dealt with that had the best personality was brazillian. I bet if you ask her if she would cook for her man she'd probably say yes. It isn't this trash American culture where the first thing she would say is, "What does he do for me?"

Sad thing is that all most guys want is a girl thats there for them like they are from them but its so hard to find that nowadays with the way alot of people are so selfish.

 

[kevm3]

Sad thing is that all most guys want is a girl thats there for them like they are from them but its so hard to find that nowadays with the way alot of people are so selfish.

you ever notice when they make those single and over 30 videos, it's usually 'career women' who find cooking and cleaning beneath them? Who always feel like they need to 'voice their opinion?' You notice how they never make a single that cooks, cleans and holds her husband down documentary? That's because men ain't stupid and will wife that woman real quick.

I just have no desire to wife women up these days the more and more I see the utter lack of loyalty... knowing that while she might be acting loyal when you're up, we'll see how loyal she is when you lose your job.

 

[philmonroe]

you ever notice when they make those single and over 30 videos, it's usually 'career women' who find cooking and cleaning beneath them? Who always feel like they need to 'voice their opinion?' You notice how they never make a single that cooks, cleans and holds her husband down documentary? That's because men ain't stupid and will wife that woman real quick.

I just have no desire to wife women up these days the more and more I see the utter lack of loyalty... knowing that while she might be acting loyal when you're up, we'll see how loyal she is when you lose your job.

Man you already know its too many women that aren't loyal when its down times. Unfortunately some women think they can circumvent the system with their degrees and the like but it doesn't really work that way. Most guys don't care about status in that sense. Its moreso like sexual(hope she not a hoe/low numbers/etc)/loyalty status that dudes care about not financial status from women. Even though you still want and don't mind a chick that can take care of herself that isn't the first thing most care about esp when alot of chicks seem to be stingy with their money anyway.

As far as what you said earlier about some females acting like fake friends I tell my friends this all the time. Why do you let chicks get away with stuff you wouldn't let guys you've known for years even decades get away with? All for some sex dang shame but I know some of us dont want to control our sexual urges. I wish we would try harder cause that would help stop some of the problems by itself.

 

[Ohene]

My favourite roommate back at school messages me saying "So hows the date with ____ going?"

I wake up at 6:30 am like

Either my dude lurks the coli or my other roommates girlfriend or girlfriends roommates became aware and told the whole crib

I tell him to gimme a call and it turns out #3 is correct.

Remember the friend she visited at my school, she was telling my roommate how I'm going out with her friend (the italian chick in the pic). These chicks can never keep they mouth shut. It's on like popcorn though.

 

[MikelArteta]

Alot of dudes, not all, but alot when they're trying to come up or follow a dream, you can't really have a woman around. So many women arent supportive b/c they're so shortsighted or materialistic and many of them nowadays don't have vision in terms of realizing things take time to happen.

Many other women are just a distraction in general. YOU have know if it's right for YOU. For example, when ur in college and you meet a girl you really like, you might blow off studying one night to be w/ her....or you might not be fully focused on your homework/reading because you're thinking about ur next date or something. ext thing you know, ur falling behind in ur grades. Some dudes dont have this issue at all tho, some do....so again its just up to you to know what's right for you.

And think about how many dudes have had their life derailed b/c they got a chick pregnant in college or grad school and they had to drop out...now it's 10 years later and they're not even with the chick anymore.












hilarious. How did you avoid the convo going that way?

Did you just approach her as being friends?

"Women are dreamkillers".

"Visualize this... you're building your own business. You're also dreaming of becoming a great business success. In the process of building your own business, you're also putting in long hours and working very hard. You're also saving every nickel and dime, and sacrificing a lot. Then you meet a woman, you fall in "love", and suddenly your judgment is clouded. There are exceptions to every definition, of course, but, more often than not, if you let the typical woman enter your life, sooner or later she will pressure you to spend more time with her, and put an end to those long hours at work. She will also pressure you to get things for her, and drain your cash reserves to the point that your business will suffer greatly and fail. She is a dreamkiller because she drains the life from your business, and kills your dream of becoming a great business success."

 

[sixsixtwo]

Slores gonna slore « The Soloist 2.0

 

[Shameonyou]

yall remember my "im about to fall in love thread a while ago?"

let me tell yall something about women....


They will save you from yourself, and show you who they are when you arent looking

caught shorty grinding on some dude at a party yesterday...but I didnt let her see me, and she hit me up on some when we gon chill....and im like

"I think you should lose my number".....and never responded to her again....



these women love being disloyal...its almost like a drug to them. shyt is so relieving knowing that us men that are down on women nowadays arent the ones that are A. Bitter B. Incorrect

because these women are giving us every reason to be down on them.....





rule for you dudes out here: If a woman thats SINGLE acts like a woman thats in relationship with a dude, even if she isnt in one (I mean keeps herself away from getting attention from other guys like a committed woman (real woman) would do for her man)

u scoop that girl up quick.....

sadly you will never find a woman like that because she is either already in a relationship....or married.

any bytch thats still single, and/or attractive these days there is a reason she is not with a man. Women are stupid, men arent...if we see something thats worth it, we scoop it up.


hope this helps.

 

[kevm3]

yeah exactly man. That's what I'm telling cat.s They need to see how a woman is when they think you are NOT around. A lot of these cats talking about they trust their girl and how secure they are because they aren't checking into what their girl does when they are not around will be in for a surprise of just how different she acts when she doesn't know he is looking.


Me, what put my mind at ease is knowing that I DON'T have to wife these women I'm dealing with. I've seen too much that they are only entertainment in my eyes unless she really proves differently... and she has to go hard to prove that to me. I used to want to rush and make a woman my wifey, but nowadays? No way. No how. I'm going to be real with you. A lot of women are TURNED ON by being disloyal. Doing sneaky stuff really gives them a rush.

I don't expect loyalty from these females and thus I'm in no rush to wife them up. Women are merely entertainment until proven otherwise, and that ain't anything that's easy to prove. I remember back in the day when I used to be like man that dude is lucky because he is in a relationship with that beautiful woman. Now, I'm like, "Well God bless him... I hope he can deal with that nonsense she's going to bring around, because I sure can't."