Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[jadillac]

Alot of dudes, not all, but alot when they're trying to come up or follow a dream, you can't really have a woman around. So many women arent supportive b/c they're so shortsighted or materialistic and many of them nowadays don't have vision in terms of realizing things take time to happen.

Many other women are just a distraction in general. YOU have know if it's right for YOU. For example, when ur in college and you meet a girl you really like, you might blow off studying one night to be w/ her....or you might not be fully focused on your homework/reading because you're thinking about ur next date or something. ext thing you know, ur falling behind in ur grades. Some dudes dont have this issue at all tho, some do....so again its just up to you to know what's right for you.

And think about how many dudes have had their life derailed b/c they got a chick pregnant in college or grad school and they had to drop out...now it's 10 years later and they're not even with the chick anymore.

Ive been smashing this chick for the last 3 months and I just let her talk and zone out. bytch called me one day and said i was telling my homegirl about u, and she asked some questions and I dont even know what you do or where youre from :foh:

hilarious. How did you avoid the convo going that way?

Did you just approach her as being friends?

 

[kevm3]

That's what it is mane. You don't realize how funnystyle these american women are until you talk to one out of the states. Plus, she is finer than a lot of what you see here... face not all caked up in make-up, no tattoos, no cherry dyed hair color.

man you might have to put me on where to meet these English speaking Brazillians.

 

[Scotch Hall]

i was reading this thread and i wasnt about to post it here but it got to the point that i had to.

guys will literally kill themselves over a woman, and in fact it's pretty common

thread about men killing themselves over women. everybody needs to read this thread its required reading

reading that through that thread some of it is

but dam truth tho

I read something like ~70% of retuning servicemen come home to divorce situations. The epidemic of military suicide is universally blamed on PTSS. Well, I call bullshyt!

ONEITIS is what's killing a lot of these guys.

 

[killacal]

Alot of dudes, not all, but alot when they're trying to come up or follow a dream, you can't really have a woman around. So many women arent supportive b/c they're so shortsighted or materialistic and many of them nowadays don't have vision in terms of realizing things take time to happen.

Many other women are just a distraction in general. YOU have know if it's right for YOU. For example, when ur in college and you meet a girl you really like, you might blow off studying one night to be w/ her....or you might not be fully focused on your homework/reading because you're thinking about ur next date or something. Some dudes dont have this issue at all tho, some do....so again its just up to you to know what's right for you.

And think about how many dudes have had their life derailed b/c they got a chick pregnant in college or grad school and they had to drop out...now it's 10 years later and they're not even with the chick anymore.












hilarious. How did you avoid the convo going that way?

Did you just approach her as being friends?

Pretty much, and she was sweating me after a few times hanging out that I didnt make a move on her. Anyway im a middle child of 6 so im great at zoning people out or paying a 1/10 of attention. Shed ramble and when she would stop id ask her a question to get her going again. then zone out and continue watching tv.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Alot of dudes, not all, but alot when they're trying to come up or follow a dream, you can't really have a woman around. So many women arent supportive b/c they're so shortsighted or materialistic and many of them nowadays don't have vision in terms of realizing things take time to happen.

Many other women are just a distraction in general. YOU have know if it's right for YOU. For example, when ur in college and you meet a girl you really like, you might blow off studying one night to be w/ her....or you might not be fully focused on your homework/reading because you're thinking about ur next date or something. ext thing you know, ur falling behind in ur grades. Some dudes dont have this issue at all tho, some do....so again its just up to you to know what's right for you.

And think about how many dudes have had their life derailed b/c they got a chick pregnant in college or grad school and they had to drop out...now it's 10 years later and they're not even with the chick anymore.












hilarious. How did you avoid the convo going that way?

Did you just approach her as being friends?

Thats the thing....women dont wanna stick around thru the dollar and dream stage but when things get good they come around.

 

[Malta]

And think about how many dudes have had their life derailed b/c they got a chick pregnant in college or grad school and they had to drop out...now it's 10 years later and they're not even with the chick anymore.

I remember my ex got angry at me, admittedly I was wrong cause I got a new cell phone and didn't tell her right away cause I didn't want to talk on it all the time I used it for work only, but she found out about it during a time I wasn't really talking to her. But before that happened we had sex without a condom maybe a month before that, I thought I pulled out in time so I wasn't sweating it. But, she ended up calling up the phone on some Walter White shyt telling me she was pregnant, the kid was mine and I'd NEVER see it.

I was wrong no doubt, but she showed me the type of person she was when she got angry there. Telling me I'd never see a kid that was mine? She didn't come right out and say I'd pay for it, but she kept saying I'd never get to be the father. Fast forward a week, we worked things out and she wasn't pregnant, just stressed out and had 1 false positive test :Rico:

 

[jadillac]

Pretty much, and she was sweating me after a few times hanging out that I didnt make a move on her. Anyway im a middle child of 6 so im great at zoning people out or paying a 1/10 of attention. Shed ramble and when she would stop id ask her a question to get her going again. then zone out and continue watching tv.

 

[killacal]

If you just sit on your couch with a chick and fake pay attention its like they have an automated timer in their brains. Ding! he actually listens panties get thrown in the bushes. Alcohol makes this timer go off quicker. If i can count how many times women have said wow you actually listen to what i have to say.

Inside im like bytch I know nothing beyond your first name :foh:

 

[jadillac]

I remember my ex got angry at me, admittedly I was wrong cause I got a new cell phone and didn't tell her right away cause I didn't want to talk on it all the time I used it for work only, but she found out about it during a time I wasn't really talking to her. But before that happened we had sex without a condom maybe a month before that, I thought I pulled out in time so I wasn't sweating it. But, she ended up calling up the phone on some Walter White shyt telling me she was pregnant, the kid was mine and I'd NEVER see it.

I was wrong no doubt, but she showed me the type of person she was when she got angry there. Telling me I'd never see a kid that was mine? She didn't come right out and say I'd pay for it, but she kept saying I'd never get to be the father. Fast forward a week, we worked things out and she wasn't pregnant, just stressed out and had 1 false positive test :Rico:

I was about to get mad at you breh for this part.....but then I remembered it was ur EX.

If you just sit on your couch with a chick and fake pay attention its like they have an automated timer in their brains. Ding! he actually listens panties get thrown in the bushes. Alcohol makes this timer go off quicker. If i can count how many times women have said wow you actually listen to what i have to say.

Inside im like bytch I know nothing beyond your first name :foh:

Unfortunately, I once told that to a girl I was talking to

I learned my lesson tho...

 

[Malta]

I was about to get mad at you breh for this part.....but then I remembered it was ur EX.

Oh hell yeah, she resented me so much after that, no way it would ever work.

 

[killacal]

I was about to get mad at you breh for this part.....but then I remembered it was ur EX.



Unfortunately, I once told that to a girl I was talking to

I learned my lesson tho...

You live and you learn

 

[kevm3]

to be real, the relationship most men have with their women is like allowing some fake dude into your crew. Someone who:
- only sticks around when it is smooth sailing
- who will talk down on you to someone else
- expects you to come out of pocket
- constantly comes up with some criticism
- is never really there when you need them

you know what we call that when it comes to friendship? We call that a snake... it's unacceptable to have friends that act like that, but many men allow women into their lives that have that exact same set of characteristics, if not way worse. It's really eye opening when you get to the stage where you don't feel you NEED to be in a relationship, but actually look at it for what it is.

 

[Oye]

That's what it is mane. You don't realize how funnystyle these american women are until you talk to one out of the states. Plus, she is finer than a lot of what you see here... face not all caked up in make-up, no tattoos, no cherry dyed hair color.

man you might have to put me on where to meet these English speaking Brazillians.

It was just 100% real she was appreciative of me saying happy birthday to her. Something as simple as that got her interested in me. She's really attractive and her mom looks pretty good to. She was telling me she dressed as goofy at a hospital to entertain children what pretty females do that here?

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One of her friends looks really good too and her friend dating some fat kid.

 

[kevm3]

that's a gorgeous girl... natural hair color, thick, actually shaves her legs, actually wears a dress, not too much make-up. In some of these other cultures, women actually retain their femininity. If she was in America, she'd be 30 lbs heavier, have a tramp stamp, have blonde streaks running through her hair, dressed in some college sweater and jeans thinking she fly... or maybe some j's and one of those neon spandex club dresses that look like they came out some cheap strip club.

I really need to get out of this country and see what these other countries are talking about

 

[Oye]

that's a gorgeous girl... natural hair color, thick, actually shaves her legs, actually wears a dress, not too much make-up. In some of these other cultures, women actually retain their femininity. If she was in America, she'd be 30 lbs heavier, have a tramp stamp, have blonde streaks running through her hair, dressed in some college sweater and jeans thinking she fly... or maybe some j's and one of those neon spandex club dresses that look like they came out some cheap strip club.

I really need to get out of this country and see what these other countries are talking about

Almost all the women on her friends list look good and none of them are exposing themselves. This girl has about 230 pics and half are with her family. Look at her friend yeah she has braces but does that look like a likely American couple?

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