Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

Women be playing all kinds of dumb games man. If you don't call the next day in some instances, she might get insecure on some what did I do wrong. If you do in other instances, she thinks you are clingy.

It's just really stupid stuff man. To me, the key with women is to never get too attached and call her whenever you feel like. Screw the rules and trying to imagine what would look best in your eyes. If she starts to play those little games, move on to the next woman.

 

[LandryFieldsDad]

^yeah. Just like to contribute whenever I get a glimpse into the warped
Female mind

 

[1thouwow]

Can we close this thread? If u aint pick up a lil advice in 4000 posts commit that.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I thought this was pretty interesting..
I left an old job about 3 years ago..I met up with my old co-workers lastnight for drinks

They hired 3 girls since I left and...well these girls are BAD
they all look incredible..

Anyways..we're drinking we get to talking..and they start to open up

Listen to this..they have a system on determining whether a new guy
Is "worthy" to move forward with them..

What they do is when they give a new guy their number..
After a few convos they send the guys good morning and
Good night texts..basically they get the guys used to talking to them..
Get them in a routine so to speak..and then?
They almost completely withdraw.

Their rationale? If the guy starts getting clingy only after a week of talking they
Don't have much going on...

You should have seen some of the texts these guys were sending
"hey I notice something is different when we talk now..are you ok?"
"Is everything ok?"
"What happened? We ain't cool anymore?"
"u ok?"

So on and so forth.
Wow.
Not saying all girls do this but I know for a fact at least 3 do.

yup i learned the hard way

the less you text her..the more you are winning

one word text>>>>>

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

I thought this was pretty interesting..
I left an old job about 3 years ago..I met up with my old co-workers lastnight for drinks

They hired 3 girls since I left and...well these girls are BAD
they all look incredible..

Anyways..we're drinking we get to talking..and they start to open up

Listen to this..they have a system on determining whether a new guy
Is "worthy" to move forward with them..

What they do is when they give a new guy their number..
After a few convos they send the guys good morning and
Good night texts..basically they get the guys used to talking to them..
Get them in a routine so to speak..and then?
They almost completely withdraw.

Their rationale? If the guy starts getting clingy only after a week of talking they
Don't have much going on...

You should have seen some of the texts these guys were sending
"hey I notice something is different when we talk now..are you ok?"
"Is everything ok?"
"What happened? We ain't cool anymore?"
"u ok?"

So on and so forth.
Wow.
Not saying all girls do this but I know for a fact at least 3 do.

You should asked why they are still single?

 

[Rich Spirit]

I thought this was pretty interesting..
I left an old job about 3 years ago..I met up with my old co-workers lastnight for drinks

They hired 3 girls since I left and...well these girls are BAD
they all look incredible..

Anyways..we're drinking we get to talking..and they start to open up

Listen to this..they have a system on determining whether a new guy
Is "worthy" to move forward with them..

What they do is when they give a new guy their number..
After a few convos they send the guys good morning and
Good night texts..basically they get the guys used to talking to them..
Get them in a routine so to speak..and then?
They almost completely withdraw.

Their rationale? If the guy starts getting clingy only after a week of talking they
Don't have much going on...

You should have seen some of the texts these guys were sending
"hey I notice something is different when we talk now..are you ok?"
"Is everything ok?"
"What happened? We ain't cool anymore?"
"u ok?"

So on and so forth.
Wow.
Not saying all girls do this but I know for a fact at least 3 do.

we've al been down that road before, just ridiculous how some people have no remorse for their actions. One of these days they'll fukk with the wrong dude and it won't end well

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

You should asked why they are still single?

That would have been perfect.

 

[Kenny West]

I wanna step away from the mother topic because it's a sensitive issue, but let me just add one thing.

If you ever date a woman with kids, you will need to accept this concept. You will be placed in situations where you know that the woman is ratchet in regards to how she conducts her love life, but she will be the greatest mom in the world to her kids.

Even if she has teenage kids, she will still be the greatest mom in the world to them, for the reason being she raised them, and if she raised them alone, then she is the holiest thing next to GOD.

I guarantee this woman will be teaching her children to respect woman and how to meet a good woman, all the while she isn't a good woman herself and contradicts her messages to her children with the life she lives.

It's like your dad telling you "don't commit crimes", yet he goes away all the time and little do you know it's because he keeps getting locked up.

It will annoy you that you and the guys that she dated are the only ones who know she's ratchet, yet to the rest of the world she's known as an independent single mom who is the epitome of a strong woman.

And try to argue with her or reprimand her for her actions and her kids see you. In their eyes, their mom can do no wrong and will defend her, even if it has to get physical. Ask yourself, if you saw somebody arguing with your moms, you wouldn't even wait to see whether she was right or wrong. In your eyes she is your moms and if you think she feels threatened you will defend her right?

Almost everybody is like that with their moms, even if the moms is a ratchet cum guzzling whore who uses, robs, and manipulates men.

Just something to think about.

whatever nikka

 

[sixsixtwo]

"Married for 5 years, 6 kids. Still quite young (mid 30's)

Always been a bit of a nerd, not great looking but not a complete John Merrick. Met a girl had sex got pregnant. 9 years or so later we have 6 kids. Recently there has been a event that has pushed my other half over the edge. Something personal to her that has made her act out of character (or even back in character after all these years)

First wierd thing is she changes her Facebook password. I never normally check but I thought it strange when I logged in accidenttiley via a cookie and it gave me the error. Wierd.

Confronted her, made some crazy excuse. From then on she never I mean never logged into Facebook from any one of the 3 computers in the house. Only ever used her phone. More doubt.

She starts buying clothes. Never done that for years, worried about her weight, starts exercising. I guess all the usual signs.

So I install a keylogger. Not proud of it, but I did. I did try to scan the network traffic using wireshark but could never quite get it right.

Anyway took a few weeks, she was very careful, but finally got the P/W. Here is the kicker, the P/W is Ilove[mansname], wow. Ok.

I get on the account and search around and think that [mansname] is her cousin. Cool maybe thats cool. phew. Logged on tonight and find personal messages from another person with [mansname]

Some really personal shyt, talking about kissing each other and stuff like that. I don't know at this point if they / she has actually been cheating but the language used certainly implies this.

My plan is to lurk on the account untill I have concrete evidence present her with it and leave."

More: Possible cheating wife. Advise [35] [10 years together] : relationships

 

[Ohene]

I mean, think of this scenario, some dude out there right now has been with his chick for years. She just got twitter recently and she's bad, so bad that now Trey Songz is following her. We never had to deal with a scenario like that, and there's probably some poor nikka out there right now going through it.

thank you for understanding the struggle. As a 91 baby i dont think most of you old heads get how it is for a regular nikka.

 

[Jesus]

Wish alot of guys would read this thread but seem like there more concern with there fantasy football lineup and when the next J's are coming out....feel sorry for this generation

 

[gameover82]

 

[kevm3]

Yeah, I really feel sorry for you 90s babies. Ya'll have the generation of countless social networking and whore media blasting on television. At least during our era, we had a couple of decades of 'wholesome' shows. Whoredom wasn't nowhere near celebrated as it is now with shows like Bad Girls Club, Jersey Shore and the 50,000 other reality shows. Couple that with the idolization of women like Kim Kardashian and the such, it's really tough for ya'lls generation to find a wholesome women. Ya'll are the ones who need the knowledge the most, especially with the laws so tilted against ya'll.

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Yo guys, I got to tell you this shyt that I just seen tonight at the bar (Long Read).

A couple of days ago, I went to a speed dating event in my area just to meet some new women and try to see if I can have some luck. One of my "dates" who seem cool was a former "model" who has two kids (30-ish white girl). So when I came to my picks at the end of the event, I wasn't going to pick her because of the kids but at the same time, I not looking for anything serious because I'm planning to move to Cali, so I said fukk it and pick her as one of my dates that i would like to know. The following day, I get an email from the event that she choose me too and gave me her email address. The next day I email her to see if she would be interested in meeting sometime. I don't get a response from her so I just chalk it up as a L and keep it moving.

Tonight when I go to the bar just to chill, guess who I see at the bar? Yup, the "model" chic with her girl and a simp ass guy ( 40-ish white guy). Now, I not chasing any bytches so i keep doing my thing at the bar and want to see if she recognize me. But at the same time I was watching this chic and let me say that I was a blessing in disguised that I was being ignored from her and seeing this shyt from her.

This chic was having this simp buy her and her girl drinks while she is dancing and grinding on the dance floor with 2 or 3 nikkaz while he is just chilling at the bar with NO fukkS TO GIVE!!!! Literally, this chic was having these 3 nikkaz grind on her ass, feel on her ass, popping her ass and pull her skirt up to see her panties and was enjoying that shyt. I had the and look on my face watching this chic. What makes it more sad is that this simp just chill there with the and look and didn't do shyt. She even stop by every now and just to kiss the simp on the cheeks, give a pity dance and get another drink before going back to the 3 guys to get again. When I went outside later on to get a breather, there she is talking to the 3 dudes telling them the the simp is NOT her man and that she got to do her.

Brehs, how can a man let a women be so disrespectful in public and just eat it? I woulda left that bytch at the bar for that shyt but this simp was still trying to be the good dude for this scandalous ass hoe at the end of the night. We need to see these gems to the general public so that they can know how some of these females are and protect themselves from heartbreak and disrespect. Ol boy even had the and look on his face at the end of the night dealing with the chic. After seeing this, all I got to said is "Glad that is not my bytch!"

 

[kevm3]

Yeah man, that's exactly what I'm talking about. The problem is that so many men these days are slaves to the vagina. They will allow any amount of disrespect go on as long as the woman is halfway beautiful because they place her sexuality above his own self-respect. The woman just has to be half-way pretty and the guy is going to allow just about anything to go on.

The real deal is that when dealing with a woman, you should not have to gameplan for her and come with all these rules and behavior on your part to 'win her over.' That type of woman you were talking about, you cut off any hopes of her even making the roster and keep it moving. A lot of guys get this misconception that their own behavior will be key to procuring a woman's loyalty. "Maybe I can do something the last guy didn't to get her to remain faithful." That is the wrong answer. A cheater is a cheater. And if a woman has behavior that needs to be 'handled', you simply don't deal with her. Let these animal behaving broads roam in the wild. Taking them into your household will only incur disaster.