Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sharp]

People in long term relationships will be quick to tell you that all relationships have problems and drama and that you have to keep fighting for it in order for it to work.

All relationships do have problems, but responsible and sensible adults address these problems and look for solutions to ensure that they don't arise anymore.

A woman that continuously argues with you about the same issues, yet makes no effort to come to a solution and doesn't take the solution that you provide is a drama queen.

A relationship does take asserted effort, but it shouldn't be a struggle. There should always be a level of respect between the man and woman. As soon as a woman feels she can disrespect you in a relationship, you need to check her. If she continues, then you leave.

One thing about being in a relationship is that there is a lot of emotional attachment. You have to maintain your composure. As hard as it is, don't argue, scream, or get combative with her. Stick to your principles, discipline her if she disrespects the principles, and leave her if she brings more stress than pleasure.

All relationships do not have to be a stressful struggle. Don't believe the hype. Your relationship will be based on how well the personalities and ideologies of you and her mesh. In other words, find a woman who will compliment you.

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[Born2BKing]

It is wonderful to see the vagina worship ceasing here and people coming to the realization that what is in a woman's heart and mind is much more important than a shot at what is between her legs. Her behavior-- how she treats you and others-- is much more of a distinguishing characteristic than the hunt for carnal pleasures.

Yep, getting inside the head is 100 times more important then getting in the bed. It's crazy how much easier it is to find sex than a good woman.

 

[Wild self]

It is wonderful to see the vagina worship ceasing here and people coming to the realization that what is in a woman's heart and mind is much more important than a shot at what is between her legs. Her behavior-- how she treats you and others-- is much more of a distinguishing characteristic than the hunt for carnal pleasures.

carnal pleasures

I agree with this whole post. I always tell chicks that I have zero tolerance on flaky behavior and disrespect.

 

[sixsixtwo]

No Man Reached Up a Woman’s Skirt Searching for a Library Card | Staked in the Heart

 

[Kenny West]

Yeah, I really feel sorry for you 90s babies. Ya'll have the generation of countless social networking and whore media blasting on television. At least during our era, we had a couple of decades of 'wholesome' shows. Whoredom wasn't nowhere near celebrated as it is now with shows like Bad Girls Club, Jersey Shore and the 50,000 other reality shows. Couple that with the idolization of women like Kim Kardashian and the such, it's really tough for ya'lls generation to find a wholesome women. Ya'll are the ones who need the knowledge the most, especially with the laws so tilted against ya'll.

Our only option is to not give a fukk.

My daily FGPD (fukks given per day) is hitting negative numbers.

And we have music from Chief Keef Sosa and Juicy J to show us the righteous path.

 

[Wild self]

Yeah, I really feel sorry for you 90s babies. Ya'll have the generation of countless social networking and whore media blasting on television. At least during our era, we had a couple of decades of 'wholesome' shows. Whoredom wasn't nowhere near celebrated as it is now with shows like Bad Girls Club, Jersey Shore and the 50,000 other reality shows. Couple that with the idolization of women like Kim Kardashian and the such, it's really tough for ya'lls generation to find a wholesome women. Ya'll are the ones who need the knowledge the most, especially with the laws so tilted against ya'll.

Some cats believe that wholesome women don't exist.

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Our only option is to not give a fukk.

My daily FGPD (fukks given per day) is hitting negative numbers.

And we have music from Curren$y and Max B to show us the righteous path.

Changed for me.

 

[Atlrocafella]

this girl is driving me crazy, only thing I can do is think about this thread and see how truthful everything is..

 

[Ohene]

these women are lunatics brehs


I'[m not built for this overly-sensitive shyt. Lord help me
These women will catch emotions over the smallest comments. shyt so stupid that you cant even get another opinion on the matter because of how childish and trivial it sounds.

 

[Ohene]

damn I just remembered shes on her period. this must be the explanation for this buffoonery

My ex never got hers so i didnt experience this shyt...thought it was a myth too.

 

[kevm3]

Man that's the thing. The more you deal with women, when you heard your dad and them say, "Women are crazy," they weren't lying. But for some reason, we were naive and thought that we would handle situations in a different manner-- as if we had superior game that would circumvent the emotions of a woman. Couple that with all of them commercials that made men look like monsters and we thought that past generation was just brutish... but nah, you just sit back and say man these women are literally crazy.

Sometimes I think they were just built to complain and ruin a dude's day. It could be sunny, beautiful, and cheerful but she'll complain about the bees buzzing too loud. All the bills could be paid for, there's no trouble brewing, but she'll come and pick a fight about nothing. Joint is crazy.

 

[Sharp]

Consider this thread a safe haven for you to vent your fears, frustrations and concerns.

However, in the real world, understand that the way of thinking promoted in this thread is frowned upon by women and some of our fellow men.

So when faced with these situations in real life, don't talk about it be about it.

Trying to explain to a woman what she did wrong is like trying to convince a serial killer that murdering innocent people is wrong.

It is sad that we can't have this type of dialogue with the opposite sex because of their unwillingness to see things from a different perspective.

Then on top of that, you will encounter other dudes who call you every name in the book from "insecure" to "homo" simply because you refuse to accept this matrix that they call relationships and got comfortable with.

What most of these guys won't tell you is that these are the same dudes who would kill their girlfriends and the other dude if they came home and caught them cheating. These dudes would spend the rest of their lives in prison over a chick who did them wrong. Why? Because they can't accept reality. They think that we're bitter, when in fact we are more in tune with the realistic nature of relationships than they will ever be.

In a society which is geared towards giving women as much of an advantage as possible, this type of ideology presented in this thread is frowned upon. Women will attack it, even though their arguments have no merit. But they will say the magic words to make most dudes fall in line

"Well, if you keep thinking like that, you'll never get no p*ssy" or "Yep, sounds like the recipe for being alone" (Yes, I've had girls say that to me)

These movements are defeated because most men value p*ssy over their own self respect and integrity. We'll forever have dudes fighting against us because they figure they'll get more pu$$y this way. Even in the Coli, dudes do it outside of this thread. Why? Because they're looking for some female to say "Hey, he's different" when it's really "He'll do whatever we want him to do like a lost puppy"

Keep your integrity at all costs. And when dealing with women, always remember, what's understood doesn't need to be spoken. You don't have to explain a damn thing to her, especially if she's hard headed or belligerent. If a woman really wants to be in your circle, she will come to you wanting to hear what you have to say. She values your opinion and your perception of relationships. Most women will never understand our logic, but if she's a good woman and really cares about you, she will make the effort to make you happy once she understands what you expect from her and your relationship as a whole.

 

[Illuminatos]

SMH @ the "men" in my generation.

this nikka gonna marry this hoe at 19 years old.

Dumb nikkas nowadays tryna get to the Finals and put that ring on with no experince gonna end up looking like Durant gettin they ass whooped in 5.

You can't just jump into the postseason with no experience dumb nikka. You gon get ya ass swept the fukk out.

fukk it. The regular season might be long and boring and yeah you gonna have your blowouts and heartbreakers but that shyt gets you experience. Get you a top seed so you can cruise through the post season.

These Adam Morrison ass hoes think they special cause these Bill Russell ass nikkas keep giving em rings.

bytch PLEASE

Every one on the team gets a ring from the 15th scrub to the video coordinator but only the best can get that Finals MVP.

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[EddieMurfee]

I saw this shyt earlier and I just had to share with my brehs....see fellas this the type of online simping that's making guys look bad, and blowin these girls heads up... This type of simp behavior is totally unacceptable