Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Scustin Trillberlake]

So this is really the first stretch in where I visited this section of the forum at length and I have to say that many of you seem extremely bitter when it comes to women.

Listen facts are facts and there is an obvious problem when it comes to feminism, women abusing their rights, and a whole bunch of issues that have been outlined by several members on here. Nothing new here, the problem is how you handle the situation and move forward to get a quality woman that I am SURE all of you guys want. Being bitter and defensive is not the answer. Playing your cards right, being respectful, and just let the truth leak out slowly is the best and actually easiest way to getting what you want. I am assuming that most of the posters on here are in their late teens/early to mid 20's and have had a couple of serious girlfriends.

Some of you guys have opportunities that you are not even taking full advantage of. Do you realize what opportunity to meet women a 19 year old male has these days? When I was 19 is when Facebook was JUST launched and the early signs were already there of what was about to happen. MySpace was already around, but there was nothing as organized as this. You can literally request a girl as a friend if you go to the same college and find out a whole bunch of information without asking her a damn thing. Then if you like what you see (read her timeline as well) you can quickly send her a message and say you saw her on campus and thought it would be a good idea to meet at the library. The problem is that as males we act quickly and if the girl is fine we still try to figure things out on the fly (like we have for thousands of years). That's not necessarily a requirement anymore with all the technology we have around us, so take advantage of it and start putting the ones with potential in a circle if you will (take a look at the commercial)

Google+ Commercial: 'Google Circles Love Story' Video [HD] - YouTube

Seriously, the ability to keep track of all the females you can potentially be talking to these days is mind boggling. Why wouldn't you have 100+ potential "maybes" on your mind? A quick google+ or facebook profile glance and there is a good chance the female will drop the beans on what is going on with her life for the past several months...giving you plenty of ammunition to fire at her to make her think you are actually keeping tabs with her on a regular basis. The commercial above illustrates a big problem when it comes to certain archetypes of men, but I am not going to dive into this...this shyt aint a marketing or history class

The key to all of this is to keep it steady, don't fall too quickly and don't become one of those damn morons on that show that are easily "rinsed" especially with all the options AND information out there. You know how many females know they actually hurt me to the core? 1, the first one because I did not know any better and grew up without my dad to teach me the ropes. I sucked it up after a while, got back on my feet with the help of my younger uncles at an early age and kept it moving. You guys have NO idea how good it is to be in your mid to late 20's with no problems, little to no baggage, and a good number of women who come back to look for you because you did not drive them up the wall trying to get a date with them, you did not show any jealousy/bitterness, you kept it cool and always said something that left the future acquaintance come up. These are not ex girlfriends, these are just regular ass females you met along the way and obviously could not date them all at the same time.

EX Girlfriends? I have already touched on that, but I will elaborate more. The number of females who martyr themselves to guys our age (25-30) is absolutely insane. Women love to play games, but at the end of the day that instinct of not wanting to be alone inevitably kicks in and thats where they have no defense as many guys already know this fact. The problem is that many of us don't take advantage of the golden opportunity we have. I am done with EX Girlfriend talk, this is all general women talk in which the same rules apply.

Any sign of jealousy or bitterness is ugly, do you guys EVER contact females who were jealous or were bitter of you when you were dating a girl they knew? Probably never, so why would a girl/woman contact you in the future if you show any of these traits? It makes no sense and before you guys start quoting me and misinterpreting what I just said. Remember what I said about circles, this is about keeping your options completely open. It makes no sense to close off bridges (unless the ex or female from the past cheated or did some extremely foul to warrant the cut off)

Malta, Kev, and the few others who apparently appear to get the game right now. Can you imagine if we had the google+ circles tool when we were 16-17? I might have slipped and had 3-4 kids by now

I am ALMOST jealous of you young kids these days with all these tools. USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE and PLAY the game better than they do. ALL the information is out there for you to look at, you are in a unique position in which can trickle down to your kids in the future...make us proud

That commercial is misandric and contributes to a lot of the male bashing we have been discussing in this thread.

I kindly suggest reading more blogs/websites that deal with men's rights issues to see what most of us are talking about in here. No one is bitter. Start here.

A Voice for Men | Masculine Counter-Theory in the Age of Misandry

 

[Liquid]

That commercial is misandric and contributes to a lot of the male bashing we have been discussing in this thread.

I kindly suggest reading more blogs/websites that deal with men's rights issues to see what most of us are talking about in here. No one is bitter. Start here.

A Voice for Men | Masculine Counter-Theory in the Age of Misandry

It was an example that we should be doing the same thing the woman is doing

I know the problems that commercial has (I even mentioned it in the very post you quoted). I actually broke down that commercial for a project I had to do in class before. I posted it to mainly highlight the tools we have available and many are not using them.

As far as your bitterness comment...I disagree. Most of you seem bitter and only a handful appear to be cool and collected in here when it comes to talking about women at length.

 

[jadillac]

We would all like to believe that our mom is some type of anomaly and we make excuses for her behavior.

It's one of the toughest concepts to accept, and I think I brought it to this thread too early. It's like the matrix. I expect it to be rejected. It can alter your reality

No one is saying that anyone's mom is a slore. What is being suggested is that do not believe without accurate proof that your mom is a different breed of woman than you are currently dealing with.

Karrine Steffans is a whore, but I guarantee her son thinks the world of her and will defend her honor. It's because we are programmed to believe that our mothers are perfect.

sorry bruh, but your logic is flawed and you've missed the boat.

If all women were as such, there'd be ZERO need for this thread. Why? B/c then there'd be no trickery on their parts....there'd be no need to believe any of them are what tehy say they are b/c they'd all be lying and we'd know they're all full of crap from the get go. It'd be like a dog telling you he can fly. You know it's false and there's no need to entertain it.

BUT the reality is, SOME women are great women, good people, worthy of praise. These women do exist. Not saying they are perfect ppl(nobody is), but some are marriage material.

However....

The trick of the game is that the ratchet, trifilin women will often make themselves APPEAR to be the same way, but in reality they are not. They appear for the first month or two to be ideal woman you want, they know what appeals to men....but ultimately they are not what you want. But they wanna get their hooks in you just deep enough early on where they can slowly let out who they really are and you'll just accept it and be happy to be w/ them.

Your mother will cook, clean your dirty diaper, iron ur clothes, keep a roof over your head, bathe you, sit up all night with you if ur sick, do EVERYTHING
necessary for you to survive. And an old school grandmother would do much of the same. My momma never went to the club & drinkin for "girls night out" or any of this other new sh*t. My parents pretty much gave up their life for me.

You CANNOT throw her into the same net as these silly women you meet on POF or in the club, etc. That's disrespectful.

 

[Malta]

So this is really the first stretch in where I visited this section of the forum at length and I have to say that many of you seem extremely bitter when it comes to women.

Listen, facts are facts and there is an obvious problem when it comes to feminism, women abusing their rights, and a whole bunch of issues that have been outlined by several members on here. Nothing new here, the problem is how you handle the situation and move forward to get a quality woman that I am SURE all of you guys want. Being bitter and defensive is not the answer. Playing your cards right, being respectful, and just let the truth leak out slowly is the best and actually easiest way to getting what you want. I am assuming that most of the posters on here are in their late teens/early to mid 20's and have had a couple of serious girlfriends.

Some of you guys have opportunities that you are not even taking full advantage of. Do you realize what opportunity to meet women a 19 year old male has these days? When I was 19 is when Facebook was JUST launched and the early signs were already there of what was about to happen. MySpace was already around, but there was nothing as organized as this. You can literally request a girl as a friend if you go to the same college and find out a whole bunch of information without asking her a damn thing. Then if you like what you see (read her timeline as well) you can quickly send her a message and say you saw her on campus and thought it would be a good idea to meet at the library. The problem is that as males we act quickly and if the girl is fine we still try to figure things out on the fly (like we have for thousands of years). That's not necessarily a requirement anymore with all the technology we have around us, so take advantage of it and start putting the ones with potential in a circle if you will (take a look at the commercial)

Google+ Commercial: 'Google Circles Love Story' Video [HD] - YouTube

Seriously, the ability to keep track of all the females you can potentially be talking to these days is mind boggling. Why wouldn't you have 100+ potential "maybes" on your mind? A quick google+ or facebook profile glance and there is a good chance the female will drop the beans on what is going on with her life for the past several months...giving you plenty of ammunition to fire at her to make her think you are actually keeping tabs with her on a regular basis. The commercial above illustrates a big problem when it comes to certain archetypes of men, but I am not going to dive into this...this shyt aint a marketing or history class

The key to all of this is to keep it steady, don't fall too quickly and don't become one of those damn morons on that show that are easily "rinsed" especially with all the options AND information out there. You know how many females know they actually hurt me to the core? 1, the first one because I did not know any better and grew up without my dad to teach me the ropes. I sucked it up after a while, got back on my feet with the help of my younger uncles at an early age and kept it moving. You guys have NO idea how good it is to be in your mid to late 20's with no problems, little to no baggage, and a good number of women who come back to look for you because you did not drive them up the wall trying to get a date with them, you did not show any jealousy, you kept it cool and always said something that left the future acquaintance come up. These are not ex girlfriends, these are just regular ass females you met along the way and obviously could not date them all at the same time.

EX Girlfriends? I have already touched on that, but I will elaborate more. The number of females who martyr themselves to guys our age (25-30) is absolutely insane. Women love to play games, but at the end of the day that instinct of not wanting to be alone inevitably kicks in and thats where they have no defense as many guys already know this fact. The problem is that many of us don't take advantage of the golden opportunity we have. I am done with EX Girlfriend talk, this is all general women talk in which the same rules apply.

Any sign of jealousy is ugly, do you guys EVER contact females who were jealous of you when you were dating a girl they knew? Probably never, so why would a girl/woman contact you in the future if you show any of these traits? It makes no sense and before you guys start quoting me and misinterpreting what I just said. Remember what I said about circles, this is about keeping your options completely open. It makes no sense to close off bridges (unless the ex or female from the past cheated or did some extremely foul to warrant the cut off)

Malta, Kev, and the few others who apparently appear to get the game right now. Can you imagine if we had the google+ circles tool when we were 16-17? I might have slipped and had 3-4 kids by now

I am ALMOST jealous of you young kids these days with all these tools. USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE and PLAY the game better than they do. ALL the information is out there for you to look at, you are in a unique position in which can trickle down to your kids in the future...make us proud

I'm glad I didn't to be honest, these younger dudes are coming up in the time of gross inflation and too much self esteem. It's only getting harder for dudes to find quality women, there's so much garbage you have to sift through today just to find someone decent. Yeah, you can fukk chicks easier today, but just finding someone who doesn't annoy you and won't bring shame to your family line is a difficult task.

We never had to worry about chicks having access to thousands of simp ass nikkas constantly inflating their egos.

 

[Liquid]

I'm glad I didn't to be honest, these younger dudes are coming up in the time of gross inflation and too much self esteem. It's only getting harder for dudes to find quality women, there's so much garbage you have to sift through today just to find someone decent. Yeah, you can fukk chicks easier today, but just finding someone who doesn't annoy you and won't bring shame to your family line is a difficult task.

We never had to worry about chicks having access to thousands of simp ass nikkas constantly inflating their egos.

fair enough

 

[Malta]

fair enough

I mean, think of this scenario, some dude out there right now has been with his chick for years. She just got twitter recently and she's bad, so bad that now Trey Songz is following her. We never had to deal with a scenario like that, and there's probably some poor nikka out there right now going through it.

 

[Liquid]

I mean, think of this scenario, some dude out there right now has been with his chick for years. She just got twitter recently and she's bad, so bad that now Trey Songz is following her. We never had to deal with a scenario like that, and there's probably some poor nikka out there right now going through it.

eff it you win, that would even bother me.

 

[Malta]

eff it you win, that would even bother me.

"OMG BABY, TREY JUST COMMENTED ON MY PIC!"

 

[Liquid]

"OMG BABY, TREY JUST COMMENTED ON MY PIC!"

If she responds and continues to go back and forth with him she would catch that uppercut to the jaw like that girl on the bus breh

 

[Malta]

If she responds and continues to go back and forth with him she would catch that uppercut to the jaw like that girl on the bus breh

That's the beauty of today's technology, you wouldn't even know, she could do it at work on her phone

 

[Liquid]

That's the beauty of today's technology, you wouldn't even know, she could do it at work on her phone

There will be some next level undercover work done on my part breh, it will not be pretty.

A weapon frequently kept at home by Dominicans:

(lol jk)

 

[kevm3]

A lot of the problems can directly be attributed to feminism, with the ultimate goal not of equality, but of creating a privileged class. They were the ones that brought in 'no-fault' divorce, so no matter who is wrong, that party still can get lavishly rewarded... and the statistics ended up showing 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Women in the vast majority of cases, marry men with more money and resources than them, so in the case of a divorce, it is her who is getting half of the assets, of which way more than half was provided by him. She is also getting automatic custody of the child in the vast majority of the cases and free streams of income via alimony and child support. There is actually now a label called 'starter husbands'

Dr. Helen: The Starter Husband

An article on MSN entitled "The Starter Husband" caught my eye this morning, mostly because the caption addressed to women seemed so ridiculously misandric: "You'd never buy a car without test-driving it first right? So why settle into a lifelong marriage before trying one on for size?"

The article, as one can gather from the title, is about women who marry in their 20's for practice and see nothing wrong with taking a guy out for a test-drive and dumping him off at the curb once the sheen wears off--here are some highlights from the article:

Andi takes a throaty slug of her second raspberry martini, picks at her fish taco, then sits back in her chair. "I think marriage is the new dating and having kids is the new marriage," she proclaims loudly, as yet another woman dining with her partner turns to stare. "It's true. I wouldn't have married him if I didn't think I could get out of it...."

Of course, our generation can afford to chuck the Cinderella story when the glass slipper doesn't fit. While our grandmothers were forced to remain shackled to unhappy unions for monetary reasons, most women today have the financial wherewithal to cry uncle and bolt whenever we get uncomfortable.

Dr. Helen: The Starter Husband

This pretty much goes hand in hand with that 80% of divorces initiated by women statistic. When men go into marriage, most of them pretty much think about going it in for life, especially since there are so many financial consequences. On the other hand, women are free to dally around, can cheat on you, or just get completely bored and bail out with way more than she came in with... on the other hand, you are very likely financing her to deal with other men. The car and house from the marriage, some other guy is living in. It's pretty screwed up out there. You buy her a $3,000 to $10,000 ring, have to pay half on this huge ceremony, but really the woman's family traditionally paid for that and go on an expensive honeymoon... You get put in massive debt for that and buying all of the furniture, but then this girl cheats on you and peels off because she was bored and gets rewarded by the judge with assets and money. THAT's something that will make a man bitter.

Now, you also have rape at her discretion. Rape used to be when the man forced herself on the woman and took sexuality by force. Now rape has been broadened in scope to where a man can get locked up and called a rapist if she merely regrets the sex. How sick is that? There was a story of some girl cheating on her boyfriend and hanging with some guys at a camping outing and she got drunk and had sex with two of them. All of a sudden, after the fact, she regretted it and you actually had people telling her that she got raped. A woman merely has to get drunk, have sex and regret it and can cry rape. That is a pretty frightening thought.

Nowadays, women shun domestic duties, whereas in the past they relished it. They were taught and reared up to be 'homemakers'. Now, they are mini-men, aka career women who find any inklings of domestic duty as offensive and beneath them unless you just have some kind of marvelous game to bring it out of them, and that is something that will only be done if you are on great terms with them. Back then, men didn't have to clean up the house, cook the food or do things like ironing clothes. The women did it. Now, as a modern man, you have to do ALL that on your own, as well as assuming your modern responsibilities such as cutting the yard and the such.

Promiscuity is another huge factor. Back in the day, if you had a child out of wedlock, you were shunned by society. That was pretty much a 'no-go.' Nowadays, it is common as candy. What is even crazier is nowadays you have women with multiple children with multiple men and never having been married to any of the dads. Women are encouraged by feminists to 'explore their sexuality,' or in other words whore it up. What man really wants to wife up a woman who slept with the equivalent of a football team and has multiple kids? The sick part is that you can even be pinged with child support for a child that isn't yours. Imagine yourself dating a woman and you get another woman pregnant, and you force the girlfriend you're with to pay child support to that child. That would seem utterly ridiculous, but it's real, and you have to pay even if dna tests later prove the child isn't yours 'all in benefit of the child.' More like in benefit of the woman, because most of these women use a portion of that child support money on the child and the rest on themselves and then try to mash on daddy, telling the children he is a loser because there isn't money for something way more important than a new coach bag.

The ones who will be very bitter are the ones who don't heed the advice being handed out. They will be the ones head over heels in love with their woman, marry her, find out she's cheating and not only have to deal with the depression of that, but also of having most of his assets taken and being forced to finance the lifestyle of an unrepentant adulterer. You also have countless social networks opening up avenues for the woman to meet men, increasing her chances for infidelity. And you know the game a woman plays. When she finds a guy she likes, she will attempt to keep in contact with him, but make him her 'friend' or 'cousin'.

Let's not forget the ghetto and masculine factor as well. So many of these women never wear dresses, they curse like crazy, don't know how to be supportive of their man, are covered in tattoos, have that cherry red streak in their hair and want to kick up dust in get in men's face and put their hands on men because they are so protected by society. Let's not forget how they don't give up the club scene after they have kids. Instead, they dump the kids on mother or grandmother, or even their boyfriends and still go hit the clubs up for a 'lady's night out.'

The women of today are way different from the ones of the past. Although women always had their womanly nature in the past, it is a completely different ballpark now. Honestly, I'd rather play a videogame than deal with all of the drama that most of them entail in this day and age. Now, you have to deal with the nagging and tests only for no real reward, but the very real possibility of having to give up your assets and pay out streams of income.

 

[winb83]

So this is really the first stretch in where I visited this section of the forum at length and I have to say that many of you seem extremely bitter when it comes to women.

Listen facts are facts and there is an obvious problem when it comes to feminism, women abusing their rights, and a whole bunch of issues that have been outlined by several members on here. Nothing new here, the problem is how you handle the situation and move forward to get a quality woman that I am SURE all of you guys want. Being bitter and defensive is not the answer. Playing your cards right, being respectful, and just let the truth leak out slowly is the best and actually easiest way to getting what you want. I am assuming that most of the posters on here are in their late teens/early to mid 20's and have had a couple of serious girlfriends.

Some of you guys have opportunities that you are not even taking full advantage of. Do you realize what opportunity to meet women a 19 year old male has these days? When I was 19 is when Facebook was JUST launched and the early signs were already there of what was about to happen. MySpace was already around, but there was nothing as organized as this. You can literally request a girl as a friend if you go to the same college and find out a whole bunch of information without asking her a damn thing. Then if you like what you see (read her timeline as well) you can quickly send her a message and say you saw her on campus and thought it would be a good idea to meet at the library. The problem is that as males we act quickly and if the girl is fine we still try to figure things out on the fly (like we have for thousands of years). That's not necessarily a requirement anymore with all the technology we have around us, so take advantage of it and start putting the ones with potential in a circle if you will (take a look at the commercial)

Google+ Commercial: 'Google Circles Love Story' Video [HD] - YouTube

Seriously, the ability to keep track of all the females you can potentially be talking to these days is mind boggling. Why wouldn't you have 100+ potential "maybes" on your mind? A quick google+ or facebook profile glance and there is a good chance the female will drop the beans on what is going on with her life for the past several months...giving you plenty of ammunition to fire at her to make her think you are actually keeping tabs with her on a regular basis. The commercial above illustrates a big problem when it comes to certain archetypes of men, but I am not going to dive into this...this shyt aint a marketing or history class

The key to all of this is to keep it steady, don't fall too quickly and don't become one of those damn morons on that show that are easily "rinsed" especially with all the options AND information out there. You know how many females know they actually hurt me to the core? 1, the first one because I did not know any better and grew up without my dad to teach me the ropes. I sucked it up after a while, got back on my feet with the help of my younger uncles at an early age and kept it moving. You guys have NO idea how good it is to be in your mid to late 20's with no problems, little to no baggage, and a good number of women who come back to look for you because you did not drive them up the wall trying to get a date with them, you did not show any jealousy/bitterness, you kept it cool and always said something that left the future acquaintance come up. These are not ex girlfriends, these are just regular ass females you met along the way and obviously could not date them all at the same time.

EX Girlfriends? I have already touched on that, but I will elaborate more. The number of females who martyr themselves to guys our age (25-30) is absolutely insane. Women love to play games, but at the end of the day that instinct of not wanting to be alone inevitably kicks in and thats where they have no defense as many guys already know this fact. The problem is that many of us don't take advantage of the golden opportunity we have. I am done with EX Girlfriend talk, this is all general women talk in which the same rules apply.

Any sign of jealousy or bitterness is ugly, do you guys EVER contact females who were jealous or were bitter of you when you were dating a girl they knew? Probably never, so why would a girl/woman contact you in the future if you show any of these traits? It makes no sense and before you guys start quoting me and misinterpreting what I just said. Remember what I said about circles, this is about keeping your options completely open. It makes no sense to close off bridges (unless the ex or female from the past cheated or did some extremely foul to warrant the cut off)

Malta, Kev, and the few others who apparently appear to get the game right now. Can you imagine if we had the google+ circles tool when we were 16-17? I might have slipped and had 3-4 kids by now

I am ALMOST jealous of you young kids these days with all these tools. USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE and PLAY the game better than they do. ALL the information is out there for you to look at, you are in a unique position in which can trickle down to your kids in the future...make us proud

if you go to war for your country and your leg gets blown off you got a right to be bitter about what happened to you.

male female relations are war and the damage isn't physical its mental. dealing with these modern corrupted women will steal your mind away. you lose part of yourself when they violate you because you open up and expose yourself to them and they take from you. if that happens to you and part of you is lost, dead, and gone forever you got a right to be bitter.

 

[winb83]

We would all like to believe that our mom is some type of anomaly and we make excuses for her behavior.

It's one of the toughest concepts to accept, and I think I brought it to this thread too early. It's like the matrix. I expect it to be rejected. It can alter your reality

No one is saying that anyone's mom is a slore. What is being suggested is that do not believe without accurate proof that your mom is a different breed of woman than you are currently dealing with.

Karrine Steffans is a whore, but I guarantee her son thinks the world of her and will defend her honor. It's because we are programmed to believe that our mothers are perfect.

We need to rid ourselves of this way of thinking. You can still love your mother and accept the fact that she is flawed and has the same running ideology as other women.

My mother is a baby boomer. a different generation raised in different times with different attitudes. shyt what was bad back then is probably an acceptable woman now.

wasn't no juggling 30 men in ya cell phone and on facebook and twitter. back then if you wanted to juggle 30 men you had to put in the work to actually do it. you wanted to creep on ya husband you had to find ti
me to sneak around. now all this shyt is so instant and easy and women feel so entitled everything has corrupted them.

if you add up all the social networks and technology the average woman has more men trying to fukk her at one time than she can properly manage with new ones getting at her every single day. its easy for them to manage a small group of men through a cell phone and hustle men, mislead men.

most of these hoes have figured out the game. figured out they can use all these guys for their own selfish purposes. many guys are trying to play the game proper but get cheated on, used, and abused, by an entitled woman that figured out if she plays it right she can have it all and give up nothing.

 

[Sharp]

I wanna step away from the mother topic because it's a sensitive issue, but let me just add one thing.

If you ever date a woman with kids, you will need to accept this concept. You will be placed in situations where you know that the woman is ratchet in regards to how she conducts her love life, but she will be the greatest mom in the world to her kids.

Even if she has teenage kids, she will still be the greatest mom in the world to them, for the reason being she raised them, and if she raised them alone, then she is the holiest thing next to GOD.

I guarantee this woman will be teaching her children to respect woman and how to meet a good woman, all the while she isn't a good woman herself and contradicts her messages to her children with the life she lives.

It's like your dad telling you "don't commit crimes", yet he goes away all the time and little do you know it's because he keeps getting locked up.

It will annoy you that you and the guys that she dated are the only ones who know she's ratchet, yet to the rest of the world she's known as an independent single mom who is the epitome of a strong woman.

And try to argue with her or reprimand her for her actions and her kids see you. In their eyes, their mom can do no wrong and will defend her, even if it has to get physical. Ask yourself, if you saw somebody arguing with your moms, you wouldn't even wait to see whether she was right or wrong. In your eyes she is your moms and if you think she feels threatened you will defend her right?

Almost everybody is like that with their moms, even if the moms is a ratchet cum guzzling whore who uses, robs, and manipulates men.

Just something to think about.