why even date single moms? relationships are hard and complicated already why make it harder on yourself?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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why even date single moms? relationships are hard and complicated already why make it harder on yourself?
True.
Some of us are single dads. Women with no children are actually more problematic because they want the time and effort from you that you are unable to provide because of your responsibilities with your kids.
If you have no children, it is not a good idea to date women with children.
If you have children, and want to have more children, it is not a good idea to date women with children
But if you have children, do not want more children, and looking for something casual and not time consuming, women with children might be better suited for you.
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and yes this facebook, twitter, instagram, online dating, social networking sucks, you gotta trust your chick 
, if she's on one of those you can't see her private messages, can't see her 800 guy friends, she's only on twitter for "Friends", only on instagram for pictures your insecure 
, hiding their profiles on dating sites
, if she's on one of those you can't see her private messages, can't see her 800 guy friends, she's only on twitter for "Friends", only on instagram for pictures your insecure , hiding their profiles on dating sites
I'm a very down to earth girl
Love to laugh
Have a great sense of humor (you should too)
I don't put up with bs
I have 3 kids that mean the world to me
I m a very independent person
I love staying in and watching movies snuggling on the couch
You should: be tall
Be funny
Have a job
Your own car
Nice
Dreamy
Romantic
Like kissing snuggling PDA
Must love kids or have kids
Love to laugh
Have a great sense of humor (you should too)
I don't put up with bs
I have 3 kids that mean the world to me
I m a very independent person
I love staying in and watching movies snuggling on the couch
You should: be tall
Be funny
Have a job
Your own car
Nice
Dreamy
Romantic
Like kissing snuggling PDA
Must love kids or have kids
JillScottsHunny
Banned
Yeah. As a male with no children, dating females with children is a no no. Hell, I'll prefer if she doesn't have kids if I'm just looking to fukk.
"This is the question I have been asking men around California that I meet at various blogger and pundit meet-ups for dinner. One dinner guest I sat next to the other night told me he had gotten married last week. We were discussing marriage at the table and I turned to him and asked why he had gotten married. “Can you name one reason a man should get married?” I asked, trying somehow to be polite, but probably failing miserably.
He thought about it for a minute and said “because the woman wants to and he will lose her if he doesn’t.” That sounds more like blackmail to me than a reason. Last night, at another event, I asked other men if they could name five reasons a man should get married. There was silence and then a discussion about the war against men and if that was true or not.
Another day, I talked to a hair dresser at a salon about men and marriage and she said she had a cousin who had a boyfriend who wouldn’t marry her, even though they had two children together. “She is desperate to get married,” said the hairdresser. “What’s in it just for him?” I asked. She couldn’t think of anything."
Read more: Incendiary Insight: What are the Reasons for a Man to Get Married Today
He thought about it for a minute and said “because the woman wants to and he will lose her if he doesn’t.” That sounds more like blackmail to me than a reason. Last night, at another event, I asked other men if they could name five reasons a man should get married. There was silence and then a discussion about the war against men and if that was true or not.
Another day, I talked to a hair dresser at a salon about men and marriage and she said she had a cousin who had a boyfriend who wouldn’t marry her, even though they had two children together. “She is desperate to get married,” said the hairdresser. “What’s in it just for him?” I asked. She couldn’t think of anything."
Read more: Incendiary Insight: What are the Reasons for a Man to Get Married Today
philmonroe
Superstar
I knew I wasn't the only one that felt like this and you even explained it better detail than I did props.
sorry bruh, but your logic is flawed and you've missed the boat.
If all women were as such, there'd be ZERO need for this thread. Why? B/c then there'd be no trickery on their parts....there'd be no need to believe any of them are what tehy say they are b/c they'd all be lying and we'd know they're all full of crap from the get go. It'd be like a dog telling you he can fly. You know it's false and there's no need to entertain it.
BUT the reality is, SOME women are great women, good people, worthy of praise. These women do exist. Not saying they are perfect ppl(nobody is), but some are marriage material.
However....
The trick of the game is that the ratchet, trifilin women will often make themselves APPEAR to be the same way, but in reality they are not. They appear for the first month or two to be ideal woman you want, they know what appeals to men....but ultimately they are not what you want. But they wanna get their hooks in you just deep enough early on where they can slowly let out who they really are and you'll just accept it and be happy to be w/ them.
Your mother will cook, clean your dirty diaper, iron ur clothes, keep a roof over your head, bathe you, sit up all night with you if ur sick, do EVERYTHING
necessary for you to survive. And an old school grandmother would do much of the same. My momma never went to the club & drinkin for "girls night out" or any of this other new sh*t. My parents pretty much gave up their life for me.
You CANNOT throw her into the same net as these silly women you meet on POF or in the club, etc. That's disrespectful.
I agree but unless your in your 40's you were atleast there for the begining of this easy gas up culture.
gameover82
Pro
Wish alot of guys would read this thread but seem like there more concern with there fantasy football lineup and when the next J's are coming out....feel sorry for this generation
Actually, if you're just trying to fukk they are better than women with no kids, simple reason, they have less time to go out. All you really need to do is hit them up around the time their kids go to sleep, too late to find a sitter and they can't go anywhere
"Let’s play a game of “name 5 reasons men should run screaming from the concept of marriage.”
1. The single mother- She either spawned the seed of a cad, or pushed the father out of her life, and now you get to pay her bills.
2. The village bicycle- Now that she’s had several dozen bangs from studs, she’s ready to “settle down” and you get to pay her bills. Until she reverts back to village bicycle mode and divorces you.
3. The bitter settler. She spent her most attractive and fertile years chasing guys 3 or 4 notches above her in sexual market value. Now, the ringing of her biological clock is so loud, she’s gritting her teeth and willing to marry you even though you are far below what she feels she deserves. Every day, you will be punished for the Mr. Bigs that rejected her while you pay her bills.
4. The Disney Princess- This woman might be very nice, relatively chaste, and maybe even religious. However, you will be measured by her unrealistic expectations of married life, not by any logical or sane determination of mutual benefit. Your quality as a husband, in her eyes, is entirely dependent on her internal emotional state. So you better keep buttering her up. And you get to pay her bills.
5. The Dr. Jekyll- This woman will purposefully put her best foot forward 90% of the time during the courting stage, and will say all the right things about what she wants out of marriage. But once she has you hooked, you get to find out what she’s REALLY like. And you get to pay her bills. This variant is especially common among “conservative” women you might find in church."
1. The single mother- She either spawned the seed of a cad, or pushed the father out of her life, and now you get to pay her bills.
2. The village bicycle- Now that she’s had several dozen bangs from studs, she’s ready to “settle down” and you get to pay her bills. Until she reverts back to village bicycle mode and divorces you.
3. The bitter settler. She spent her most attractive and fertile years chasing guys 3 or 4 notches above her in sexual market value. Now, the ringing of her biological clock is so loud, she’s gritting her teeth and willing to marry you even though you are far below what she feels she deserves. Every day, you will be punished for the Mr. Bigs that rejected her while you pay her bills.
4. The Disney Princess- This woman might be very nice, relatively chaste, and maybe even religious. However, you will be measured by her unrealistic expectations of married life, not by any logical or sane determination of mutual benefit. Your quality as a husband, in her eyes, is entirely dependent on her internal emotional state. So you better keep buttering her up. And you get to pay her bills.
5. The Dr. Jekyll- This woman will purposefully put her best foot forward 90% of the time during the courting stage, and will say all the right things about what she wants out of marriage. But once she has you hooked, you get to find out what she’s REALLY like. And you get to pay her bills. This variant is especially common among “conservative” women you might find in church."
LandryFieldsDad
All Star
I thought this was pretty interesting..
I left an old job about 3 years ago..I met up with my old co-workers lastnight for drinks
They hired 3 girls since I left and...well these girls are BAD
they all look incredible..
Anyways..we're drinking we get to talking..and they start to open up
Listen to this..they have a system on determining whether a new guy
Is "worthy" to move forward with them..
What they do is when they give a new guy their number..
After a few convos they send the guys good morning and
Good night texts..basically they get the guys used to talking to them..
Get them in a routine so to speak..and then?
They almost completely withdraw.
Their rationale? If the guy starts getting clingy only after a week of talking they
Don't have much going on...
You should have seen some of the texts these guys were sending
"hey I notice something is different when we talk now..are you ok?"
"Is everything ok?"
"What happened? We ain't cool anymore?"
"u ok?"
So on and so forth.
Wow.
Not saying all girls do this but I know for a fact at least 3 do.
I left an old job about 3 years ago..I met up with my old co-workers lastnight for drinks
They hired 3 girls since I left and...well these girls are BAD
they all look incredible..
Anyways..we're drinking we get to talking..and they start to open up
Listen to this..they have a system on determining whether a new guy
Is "worthy" to move forward with them..
What they do is when they give a new guy their number..
After a few convos they send the guys good morning and
Good night texts..basically they get the guys used to talking to them..
Get them in a routine so to speak..and then?
They almost completely withdraw.
Their rationale? If the guy starts getting clingy only after a week of talking they
Don't have much going on...
You should have seen some of the texts these guys were sending
"hey I notice something is different when we talk now..are you ok?"
"Is everything ok?"
"What happened? We ain't cool anymore?"
"u ok?"
So on and so forth.
Wow.
Not saying all girls do this but I know for a fact at least 3 do.
