Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Malta]

Never tell a woman you can't live without her, you're doing a disservice to yourself. The only people I can't imagine living without are my parents, I have never known a world that doesn't have them in it, and I dread the day I lose them. I love my girl very much, however I do not dread losing her, I have lived life without her before and it wasn't some horrible existence. Once you tell a woman some silly shyt like that you've lost all power, the only exceptions are if she's given up a kidney for you or risked her life for you, outside of that

Once you say some shyt like that, she has a free pass to do whatever she wants basically, because after all she knows you cannot make it in this world without being in her presence. Your woman has to know you are desired and wanted by other women, she has to know you have other options and can live without her if it comes to it, she has to know that if she cheats there will be no second chances at all. I stay in shape because I feel better in general, however the added benefit is that it caused my girl to get in shape when she saw how women reacted to me. I know she has other options as well, I'm not stupid, but it's good to know that cause and effect is clearly ingrained in her mind.

Also, my ex told me she loved me more than anything else in the world and couldn't live without me, I had the face after hearing it. She must have expected me to return the favor, I just said that was nice and loved her too. I find it impossible to place someone over the two people that gave me life, raised me, fed me, clothed me and did it simply because they loved me. I know my girl loves me, but at the end of the day if she didn't find me attractive to begin with that door never would have opened and she wouldn't have gotten to know me.

There are conditions that come with love from a woman, there are zero conditions from my family. I refuse to tell someone that does not have my blood that I cannot live without them, I can't imagine life without my parents, sister or family in general, a woman? Please, there were decades where I didn't even know you existed.

 

[Liquid]

Never tell a woman you can't live without her, you're doing a disservice to yourself. The only people I can't imagine living without are my parents, I have never known a world that doesn't have them in it, and I dread the day I lose them. I love my girl very much, however I do not dread losing her, I have lived life without her before and it wasn't some horrible existence. Once you tell a woman some silly shyt like that you've lost all power, the only exceptions are if she's given up a kidney for you or risked her life for you, outside of that

Once you say some shyt like that, she has a free pass to do whatever she wants basically, because after all she knows you cannot make it in this world without being in her presence. Your woman has to know you are desired and wanted by other women, she has to know you have other options and can live without her if it comes to it, she has to know that if she cheats there will be no second chances at all. I stay in shape because I feel better in general, however the added benefit is that it caused my girl to get in shape when she saw how women reacted to me. I know she has other options as well, I'm not stupid, but it's good to know that cause and effect is clearly ingrained in her mind.

Also, my ex told me she loved me more than anything else in the world and couldn't live without me, I had the face after hearing it. She must have expected me to return the favor, I just said that was nice and loved her too. I find it impossible to place someone over the two people that gave me life, raised me, fed me, clothed me and did it simply because they loved me. I know my girl loves me, but at the end of the day if she didn't find me attractive to begin with that door never would have opened and she wouldn't have gotten to know me.

There are conditions that come with love from a woman, there are zero conditions from my family. I refuse to tell someone that does not have my blood that I cannot live without them, I can't imagine life without my parents, sister or family in general, a woman? Please, there were decades where I didn't even know you existed.

Its funny because these discussions came up in some of my classes. I ask you the same kind of questions I asked them. How long will it take for you to consider even saying "I can't live without you" if at all? Would it take a couple of kids, experiences, what would be the tipping point?

 

[Malta]

Its funny because these discussions have come up in some of my classes. I ask you the same kind of questions I asked them. How long will it take for you to consider even saying "I can't live without you" if at all? Would it take a couple of kids, experiences, what would be the tipping point?

Those words will never and have never come out of my mouth, if I could describe my willpower, it would be summed up by this song -

I love her more than any female I have ever been with, but even then, I can live without her.

 

[Liquid]

Those words will never come out of my mouth, if I could describe my willpower, it would be summed up by this song - conan the barbarian soundtrack - 1 anvil of crom - YouTube

I love her more than any female I have ever been with, but even then, I can live without her.

This is interesting to me because of my background. How long have you been with your girl? Let's say you break up right now what will the entire process be in terms of getting over it and moving forward with your life? Will it be something that sticks with you for a while or shrug it off and jump to the next one? My question is a bit deeper than just the literal term of not being able to live with her, but wanting to know how quickly you would be able to move on. Is there any circumstance in where if the break were to end badly it will be something that bothers you for an extended period of time? Just honest answers.

its odd how I share many of the same views you do when it comes to women and this relationship shyt. Might just be age.

 

[Malta]

This is interesting to me because of my background. How long have you been with your girl? Let's say you break up right now what will the entire process be in terms of getting over it and moving forward with your life? Will it be something that sticks with you for a while or shrug it off and jump to the next one? My question is a bit deeper than just the literal term of not being able to live with her, but wanting to know how quickly you would be able to move on. Is there any circumstance in where if the break were to end badly it will be something that bothers you for an extended period of time? Just honest answers.

It's just not in my wiring, I cannot fathom loving anyone as much as my family. We've been together for 7 and a half years, there is only 1 other female (maybe 2) I can realistically say I have loved. I've mentioned this before, it's been the downfall of 2 other relationships, I can go cold out of nowhere with people. I clearly have some kind of social disorder, I have cut best friends out of my life, people I've known since pre-school, at the drop of a dime and never once looked back. I would only be upset and have trouble moving on in that situation where I just go cold, because it's not something I plan on doing, it just happens.

If we broke up right now, this second? It would have to happen for me to know how long it would take for me to move on. But I've had another breakup with a woman I loved very much, and it was a breakup only because I had to come back to the US. I moved on from that in no time, even though she's the only other woman I could ever picture marrying.

 

[winb83]

Yo guys, I got to tell you this shyt that I just seen tonight at the bar (Long Read).

A couple of days ago, I went to a speed dating event in my area just to meet some new women and try to see if I can have some luck. One of my "dates" who seem cool was a former "model" who has two kids (30-ish white girl). So when I came to my picks at the end of the event, I wasn't going to pick her because of the kids but at the same time, I not looking for anything serious because I'm planning to move to Cali, so I said fukk it and pick her as one of my dates that i would like to know. The following day, I get an email from the event that she choose me too and gave me her email address. The next day I email her to see if she would be interested in meeting sometime. I don't get a response from her so I just chalk it up as a L and keep it moving.

Tonight when I go to the bar just to chill, guess who I see at the bar? Yup, the "model" chic with her girl and a simp ass guy ( 40-ish white guy). Now, I not chasing any bytches so i keep doing my thing at the bar and want to see if she recognize me. But at the same time I was watching this chic and let me say that I was a blessing in disguised that I was being ignored from her and seeing this shyt from her.

This chic was having this simp buy her and her girl drinks while she is dancing and grinding on the dance floor with 2 or 3 nikkaz while he is just chilling at the bar with NO fukkS TO GIVE!!!! Literally, this chic was having these 3 nikkaz grind on her ass, feel on her ass, popping her ass and pull her skirt up to see her panties and was enjoying that shyt. I had the and look on my face watching this chic. What makes it more sad is that this simp just chill there with the and look and didn't do shyt. She even stop by every now and just to kiss the simp on the cheeks, give a pity dance and get another drink before going back to the 3 guys to get again. When I went outside later on to get a breather, there she is talking to the 3 dudes telling them the the simp is NOT her man and that she got to do her.

Brehs, how can a man let a women be so disrespectful in public and just eat it? I woulda left that bytch at the bar for that shyt but this simp was still trying to be the good dude for this scandalous ass hoe at the end of the night. We need to see these gems to the general public so that they can know how some of these females are and protect themselves from heartbreak and disrespect. Ol boy even had the and look on his face at the end of the night dealing with the chic. After seeing this, all I got to said is "Glad that is not my bytch!"

society teaches men to value women over everything including themselves. its like asking a guy would you tolerate a blatantly disrespectful act for a legitimate shot at a billion dollars afterwards? even if the shot isn't really illegitimate and he just thinks it is he'll likely take the chance.

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Yeah, as men we have to realize that no woman is that special that she can do all willy lilly and it is fine just because she is a woman. Any type of relationship between a man and a woman should have a foundation for respect for each other. But society today rewards some people for bad behavior just because of their status. Plus you got people who just "want to be loved" that they are willing to put their pride and dignity to the side because of the "feeling" of having someone who is with them even if that person may be a foul person inside.

I will admit it that a couple of years ago, I was that simp that thought if I would be good to a chic that she would liked me and come to me for a relationship, even if I tolerated and approved her bad behavior. Now I realized that I have to respect and love myself first and hopefully find a woman who will treat me with respect too and vice versa. Every person who have their shyt together should treat themselves as a business and the people that they date as potential employees. When a business call you for an interview, they leave a message if they missed you and K.I.M. If the potential employee responds they go to the next phrase in the hiring process. If the person doesn't respond.....their lost, we not calling again. The interview is the same process with dating to see if his/her qualification matches your needs and you go to the hiring stage. Once a person is hired, you set the rules for employment and if he/she break the rules, there is discipline or termination for multiple/serious offenses. This is how you got to treat these people out here right now with dealing with your heart and emotions. Your are a fortune 500 company and people need to come to you to be the best, not the other way around.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[sixsixtwo]

"It is truly a shame that you are a sad and pathetic mangina who needs another person (Man or woman) to prevent you from being, well… sad and pathetic (this is essentially the inference contained within your own words). The single Man typically stands strong; comfortable in the security of His deep Masculinity — because He understands fully what His Masculinity means to Him on a singular and personal level. Therefore, he doesn’t require other people to “complete Him”; nor will He ever be guilted to take subservient action and throw Himself into the gears of the marriage machine just because the government, a weakened Western culture, or a gaggle of cackling hags (manginas included) think that marriage makes Men less cowardly, angry or bitter (read: “code-words of feminist guilt”).

Real Men….. Men who have fought wars, built society, formed nations, created wealth and have sacrificed themselves to protect women from the most heinous evils of society…. they do not need a woman to pull them up to the ledge of legitimacy. These Men have always relied upon their own inner strength, inspiration, genius and logic. They, thankfully, have never known the sadness or self-flagellation that you, apparently, admit suffering from."

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Yeah, as men we have to realize that no woman is that special that she can do all willy lilly and it is fine just because she is a woman. Any type of relationship between a man and a woman should have a foundation for respect for each other. But society today rewards some people for bad behavior just because of their status. Plus you got people who just "want to be loved" that they are willing to put their pride and dignity to the side because of the "feeling" of having someone who is with them even if that person may be a foul person inside.

I will admit it that a couple of years ago, I was that simp that thought if I would be good to a chic that she would liked me and come to me for a relationship, even if I tolerated and approved her bad behavior. Now I realized that I have to respect and love myself first and hopefully find a woman who will treat me with respect too and vice versa. Every person who have their shyt together should treat themselves as a business and the people that they date as potential employees. When a business call you for an interview, they leave a message if they missed you and K.I.M. If the potential employee responds they go to the next phrase in the hiring process. If the person doesn't respond.....their lost, we not calling again. The interview is the same process with dating to see if his/her qualification matches your needs and you go to the hiring stage. Once a person is hired, you set the rules for employment and if he/she break the rules, there is discipline or termination for multiple/serious offenses. This is how you got to treat these people out here right now with dealing with your heart and emotions. Your are a fortune 500 company and people need to come to you to be the best, not the other way around.

5 star post

 

[kevm3]

It is wonderful to see the vagina worship ceasing here and people coming to the realization that what is in a woman's heart and mind is much more important than a shot at what is between her legs. Her behavior-- how she treats you and others-- is much more of a distinguishing characteristic than the hunt for carnal pleasures.

 

[Air Nikes N Hats]

I know nothing about dealing with women. I just tolerate some more then others. Ive found that in heated arguments, laughing in their faces does so much more to piss them off then raising my voice.

 

[Liquid]

Yeah, as men we have to realize that no woman is that special that she can do all willy lilly and it is fine just because she is a woman. Any type of relationship between a man and a woman should have a foundation for respect for each other. But society today rewards some people for bad behavior just because of their status. Plus you got people who just "want to be loved" that they are willing to put their pride and dignity to the side because of the "feeling" of having someone who is with them even if that person may be a foul person inside.

I will admit it that a couple of years ago, I was that simp that thought if I would be good to a chic that she would liked me and come to me for a relationship, even if I tolerated and approved her bad behavior. Now I realized that I have to respect and love myself first and hopefully find a woman who will treat me with respect too and vice versa. Every person who have their shyt together should treat themselves as a business and the people that they date as potential employees. When a business call you for an interview, they leave a message if they missed you and K.I.M. If the potential employee responds they go to the next phrase in the hiring process. If the person doesn't respond.....their lost, we not calling again. The interview is the same process with dating to see if his/her qualification matches your needs and you go to the hiring stage. Once a person is hired, you set the rules for employment and if he/she break the rules, there is discipline or termination for multiple/serious offenses. This is how you got to treat these people out here right now with dealing with your heart and emotions. Your are a fortune 500 company and people need to come to you to be the best, not the other way around.

The bolded should be your view for EVERYTHING in life these days, not just a relationship.

I try to tell people this and they look at me like

 

[sixsixtwo]

I'm sure brother Reincar posted this site already but that was many many pages ago:

Wedded Abyss

 

[sixsixtwo]

- “I cheated on my husband to secure better genes for my children.” | The Woman and the Dragon