Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Wild self]

Judge Judy Disgusted With Delusional Sistahs! pt 1 - YouTube

look at that. She still has a smile even when a judge is on her ass.

I never wish this upon any demographic on human beings (besides the Nazis), but some part of me wish they can just disappear altogether from society. Not on that hate filled white supremacy shyt, but people who do that and neglect their families to suit themselves are the devil's children.

 

[Wild self]

theres that many single mother families in america eh ?

Being Ghanaian its rare to see a single parent home unless the women is a widow. Only one I know was my ex's in the Ghanaian community in Toronto. shyt. My mom actually knew her dad and spoke highly of him

America is beyond dysfunctional

 

[MikelArteta]

"I viewed 1692 profiles on POF and determined, via photos, which females were attractive. The graph's x-axis is the age of the female. The y-axis is attractive females as a percent of women in each age range (this corrects for different numbers of females in each age range). The criterion for attractiveness was strict and yielded only 140 girls who were dating material. This represents about 1 in 12 women.

Data suggests:
1) The hottest girls are 19 or 20 years old.
2) There is a big drop in hot girls after age 20.
3) Girls are in their prime from age 18 to 24.
4) Women 25 and older are beyond their prime.
5) Women aged 25 to 30 are often cute versus hot.
6) Women aged 31 to 42 are rarely as attractive.
7) Women aged 43 and older are no longer attractive.
8) Even the hottest girls could spend 35 years ugly.

A girl's time in the sun is brief. The vast majority of American women are unattractive due to a repulsive face and/or being overweight or obese. DO NOT MARRY! A woman is a butterfly who turns into a caterpillar"

 

[kevm3]

Man, to answer the thread's question of how to deal with women, the answer is "don't." To clarify, I'm not saying to never have dealings with women, but rather, if you have to DEAL with a woman, as in go out of your way to handle whatever nonsense she is going to bring to your world, then cut her out.

I just realize how much I am at peace when I live life without worrying about what some broad thinks, what I need to do to get her, what to do when I have her, etc.

Are ya'll willing to go jump through a flaming hoop, fight off a pack of wild dogs and risk death to go pick up a penny? Then what in the world are ya'll doing so much to wrap up a woman with bad behavior? The key is to just enjoy life and deal with only quality women who don't bring the drama to the table. All women will bring a bit of it, but she has to keep it in reasonable limits or she doesn't get dealt with.

The best women are EASY to deal with. They aren't easy, but easy to deal with. You can just talk to them and have a cool conversation. It doesn't have to be you spitting some magnificent, unheard of game. They aren't constantly questioning you on where to go or what ya'll choose to do. You ask her to do something and she isn't tripping about doing it.

A lot of the problems men are having is their rush to wrap up women and THEN trying to mold that woman into a pattern of desirable behavior, and they have a huge reluctance of letting her go, so they come looking for strategies on 'getting her to act right.' Naw, if she isn't bringing quality behavior to the table, don't let her eat at the table. That simple.

 

[jadillac]

I don't agree with all this mom stuff some of y'all are saying.

My parents had alot of problems and fighting about stuff when I was a baby, BUT it was mainly b/c they were raised in two completely opposite worlds. My moms grew up in a family that was fighting al the time, my grandpa and grandma would fight, and everything was volume to the max all the time. Thus my mom grew up in that thinking it's normal to argue and yell all the time with a husband.

My father on the flipside grew up with family having a good time most of the time and everybody was more loving towards each other. Not perfect, but nothing wild.

So I'm pretty sure there was no ho'ing and golddigging going on....you gotta remember 2012 is a different age.
The ROOT of the problem might still be the same, but the methods are different. Back then, women were considered "easy" if they did nothing more than kiss on the first date. Nowadays you got women who are damn near porno stars on the first date. And you gotta figure if she'll do that with you on the 1st date, barely knowing you.....then she's probably messing aroudn on the side.

But people are mostly a product of their environment. Which is why these "nikkas aint sh*t" single women continue to raise daughthers that WE have to contend with.

 

[jadillac]

It's like that John Mayer song, "Daughters"

"Fathers be good to ur daughters, daughters will love like you do....girls become lovers that turn into mothers, so mothers be good to ur daughters too"

 

[AirEmOut]

Honestly I can't speak on this mom stuff yall bringing up. Maybe yalls mom but my mom (and dad) did none of this stuff at least within earshot of me and my sister. Hate it for yall cause I love how we grew up with no gender roles for the most part and I carry that same mentality as an adult.

YUP

 

[kevm3]

That's honestly the reason so many of these women are acting the way they do... Because of the lack of fathers in the households or some weak simping type man who won't take control of his family. A lot of these females grew up on no male leadreship or weak male leadership, and they are usually emulating the pattern set out by a bitter single mother who doesn't have respect for a man, and their daughter picks up on that. Same thing with the weak, simp dads. These daughters walk all over their dads and think they can do that to a man... plus a strong dad wouldn't go for no nonsense like allowing their daughters to be a 'video model' or whatever other nonsense they are doing these days. That's why it's important for a woman to have a solid relationship with a strong dad, so he can tell instill in her a certain moral nature, and sadly that is missing these days with all the single parent households and all the 'cool parents.'

 

[sixsixtwo]

A Man Wants a Wife, Not a "Co-Worker" - The Spearhead

 

[Wild self]

"I viewed 1692 profiles on POF and determined, via photos, which females were attractive. The graph's x-axis is the age of the female. The y-axis is attractive females as a percent of women in each age range (this corrects for different numbers of females in each age range). The criterion for attractiveness was strict and yielded only 140 girls who were dating material. This represents about 1 in 12 women.

Data suggests:
1) The hottest girls are 19 or 20 years old.
2) There is a big drop in hot girls after age 20.
3) Girls are in their prime from age 18 to 24.
4) Women 25 and older are beyond their prime.
5) Women aged 25 to 30 are often cute versus hot.
6) Women aged 31 to 42 are rarely as attractive.
7) Women aged 43 and older are no longer attractive.
8) Even the hottest girls could spend 35 years ugly.

A girl's time in the sun is brief. The vast majority of American women are unattractive due to a repulsive face and/or being overweight or obese. DO NOT MARRY! A woman is a butterfly who turns into a caterpillar"

American women often have health problems with that extra weight. No need to invest in love when she is expected to die prematurely.

 

[Sharp]

We would all like to believe that our mom is some type of anomaly and we make excuses for her behavior.

It's one of the toughest concepts to accept, and I think I brought it to this thread too early. It's like the matrix. I expect it to be rejected. It can alter your reality

No one is saying that anyone's mom is a slore. What is being suggested is that do not believe without accurate proof that your mom is a different breed of woman than you are currently dealing with.

Karrine Steffans is a whore, but I guarantee her son thinks the world of her and will defend her honor. It's because we are programmed to believe that our mothers are perfect.

We need to rid ourselves of this way of thinking. You can still love your mother and accept the fact that she is flawed and has the same running ideology as other women.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

We would all like to believe that our mom is some type of anomaly and we make excuses for her behavior.

It's one of the toughest concepts to accept, and I think I brought it to this thread too early. It's like the matrix. I expect it to be rejected. It can alter your reality

No one is saying that anyone's mom is a slore. What is being suggested is that do not believe without accurate proof that your mom is a different breed of woman than you are currently dealing with.

Karrine Steffans is a whore, but I guarantee her son thinks the world of her and will defend her honor. It's because we are programmed to believe that our mothers are perfect.

We need to rid ourselves of this way of thinking. You can still love your mother and accept the fact that she is flawed and has the same running ideology as other women.

 

[philmonroe]

We would all like to believe that our mom is some type of anomaly and we make excuses for her behavior.

It's one of the toughest concepts to accept, and I think I brought it to this thread too early. It's like the matrix. I expect it to be rejected. It can alter your reality

No one is saying that anyone's mom is a slore. What is being suggested is that do not believe without accurate proof that your mom is a different breed of woman than you are currently dealing with.

Karrine Steffans is a whore, but I guarantee her son thinks the world of her and will defend her honor. It's because we are programmed to believe that our mothers are perfect.

We need to rid ourselves of this way of thinking. You can still love your mother and accept the fact that she is flawed and has the same running ideology as other women.

I never said my mom was perfect cause nobody is I just said I can't relate to what you posted. I also don't care what my mom is/was doing cause I'm not trying to wife my mom lol. I feel prepared for dating cause of my mom/dad so yep I don't have the same views on that and thats cool cause my parents aren't yours and vice versa. About the "accurate proof" part who isn't going to think thier mom is different from most of the chicks they messing with unless you had bad experiences with your mom?

 

[Liquid]

I am a little disturbed at what I am seeing in this section of the-coli. Drop coming soon

 

[Liquid]

So this is really the first stretch in where I visited this section of the forum at length and I have to say that many of you seem extremely bitter when it comes to women.

Listen facts are facts and there is an obvious problem when it comes to feminism, women abusing their rights, and a whole bunch of issues that have been outlined by several members on here. Nothing new here, the problem is how you handle the situation and move forward to get a quality woman that I am SURE all of you guys want. Being bitter and defensive is not the answer. Playing your cards right, being respectful, and just let the truth leak out slowly is the best and actually easiest way to getting what you want. I am assuming that most of the posters on here are in their late teens/early to mid 20's and have had a couple of serious girlfriends.

Some of you guys have opportunities that you are not even taking full advantage of. Do you realize what opportunity to meet women a 19 year old male has these days? When I was 19 is when Facebook was JUST launched and the early signs were already there of what was about to happen. MySpace was already around, but there was nothing as organized as this. You can literally request a girl as a friend if you go to the same college and find out a whole bunch of information without asking her a damn thing. Then if you like what you see (read her timeline as well) you can quickly send her a message and say you saw her on campus and thought it would be a good idea to meet at the library. The problem is that as males we act quickly and if the girl is fine we still try to figure things out on the fly (like we have for thousands of years). That's not necessarily a requirement anymore with all the technology we have around us, so take advantage of it and start putting the ones with potential in a circle if you will (take a look at the commercial)

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oRxKUXJj1WU]Google+ Commercial: 'Google Circles Love Story' Video [HD] - YouTube[/ame]

Seriously, the ability to keep track of all the females you can potentially be talking to these days is mind boggling. Why wouldn't you have 100+ potential "maybes" on your mind? A quick google+ or facebook profile glance and there is a good chance the female will drop the beans on what is going on with her life for the past several months...giving you plenty of ammunition to fire at her to make her think you are actually keeping tabs with her on a regular basis. The commercial above illustrates a big problem when it comes to certain archetypes of men, but I am not going to dive into this...this shyt aint a marketing or history class

The key to all of this is to keep it steady, don't fall too quickly and don't become one of those damn morons on that show that are easily "rinsed" especially with all the options AND information out there. You know how many females know they actually hurt me to the core? 1, the first one because I did not know any better and grew up without my dad to teach me the ropes. I sucked it up after a while, got back on my feet with the help of my younger uncles at an early age and kept it moving. You guys have NO idea how good it is to be in your mid to late 20's with no problems, little to no baggage, and a good number of women who come back to look for you because you did not drive them up the wall trying to get a date with them, you did not show any jealousy/bitterness, you kept it cool and always said something that left the future acquaintance come up. These are not ex girlfriends, these are just regular ass females you met along the way and obviously could not date them all at the same time.

EX Girlfriends? I have already touched on that, but I will elaborate more. The number of females who martyr themselves to guys our age (25-30) is absolutely insane. Women love to play games, but at the end of the day that instinct of not wanting to be alone inevitably kicks in and thats where they have no defense as many guys already know this fact. The problem is that many of us don't take advantage of the golden opportunity we have. I am done with EX Girlfriend talk, this is all general women talk in which the same rules apply.

Any sign of jealousy or bitterness is ugly, do you guys EVER contact females who were jealous or were bitter of you when you were dating a girl they knew? Probably never, so why would a girl/woman contact you in the future if you show any of these traits? It makes no sense and before you guys start quoting me and misinterpreting what I just said. Remember what I said about circles, this is about keeping your options completely open. It makes no sense to close off bridges (unless the ex or female from the past cheated or did some extremely foul to warrant the cut off)

Malta, Kev, and the few others who apparently appear to get the game right now. Can you imagine if we had the google+ circles tool when we were 16-17? I might have slipped and had 3-4 kids by now

I am ALMOST jealous of you young kids these days with all these tools. USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE and PLAY the game better than they do. ALL the information is out there for you to look at, you are in a unique position in which can trickle down to your kids in the future...make us proud