Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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theres that many single mother families in america eh ? :ld:

Being Ghanaian its rare to see a single parent home unless the women is a widow. Only one I know was my ex's in the Ghanaian community in Toronto. shyt. My mom actually knew her dad and spoke highly of him :leon:
 

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theres that many single mother families in america eh ? :ld:

Being Ghanaian its rare to see a single parent home unless the women is a widower. Only one I know was my ex's in the Ghanaian community in Toronto. shyt. My mom actually knew her dad and spoke highly of him :leon:

The number ranges from 66-72% of black children being raised in a single parent home in the US, shyt is beyond pathetic.


Asians are at around 15% :merchant:
 

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The number ranges from 66-72% of black children being raised in a single parent home in the US, shyt is beyond pathetic.


Asians are at around 15% :merchant:
where you get that number from? Does that also include hispanics? Probably does...that's terrible :snoop:

BTW, I had a woman try to "rinse" me but I was too smart to fall for that shyt. I noticed it immediately and said..."oh I see how this is going, good luck in getting anything from me". She felt challenged and did not know how to handle it. She still tries to contact me from time to time.
 

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We also know that asians have some of the most patriarchal societies and tendencies around. On the other hand, blacks were societally rearranged to have the mother as the head of the household, and now we have so many single parenthouseholds, most of them led by the mother. What were the statistics? 70% of inmates come from single mother households? Feminist success.
 

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where you get that number from? Does that also include hispanics? Probably does...that's terrible :snoop:

BTW, I had a woman try to "rinse" me but I was too smart to fall for that shyt. I noticed it immediately and said..."oh I see how this is going, good luck in getting anything from me". She felt challenged and did not know how to handle it. She still tries to contact me from time to time.

women love to do stuff like that. they will start off subtle and ask you about your job and what you do, essentially trying to get knowledge on how much you are paid.

you go out and then they try to use that soft, cuddly voice like 'won't you buy this for me? will you get that for me?' They talk real sweet and will act giggly when you buy it for them and call you a sweetheart, but when you leave they will talk trash about you. On the other hand, they will react completely different with a man who doesn't buy anything for them and just gets at them. Ughh he's such a jerk, etc. But who is she giving that quality time to? to the nice guy: I'm sooo busy, sorry sweetheart. to the dude that doesn't go for that: when do you want me to come over?
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
where you get that number from? Does that also include hispanics? Probably does...that's terrible :snoop:

BTW, I had a woman try to "rinse" me but I was too smart to fall for that shyt. I noticed it immediately and said..."oh I see how this is going, good luck in getting anything from me". She felt challenged and did not know how to handle it. She still tries to contact me from time to time.

Non-Hispanic White 24%
Black or African American 66%
American Indian 52%
Asian and Pacific Islander 16%
Hispanic or Latino 41%

The black community's 72 percent rate eclipses that of most other groups: 17 percent of Asians, 29 percent of whites, 53 percent of Hispanics and 66 percent of Native Americans were born to unwed mothers in 2008, the most recent year for which government figures are available. The rate for the overall U.S. population was 41 percent.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3999368...ggle-percent-unwed-mothers-rate/#.UIHT0sXA95c

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Listen, I know this is going to be a painful truth, but in order to absorb these gems this is something you have to accept

YOUR MOTHER IS NO DIFFERENT

We tend to look at our mothers as perfect, and often look for her qualities in the women that we date. We view our mothers from rose-colored glasses.

Little do we know that our mother was once a scandalous hoochie or gold digger. Our mother could have done our father wrong, but since those of us who grew up in single parent homes lived with our mothers, we never heard his story.

We grow up thinking that, my mom is amazing and strong. She raised me on her own. We also grow up thinking that dad is an a-hole or a deadbeat. While growing up and seeing numerous men in and out of our moms lives, we make excuses for her such as: "He wasn't good for her", "she just needs to find a good man", when the truth is that your mother was probably a whore that didn't want to settle down and just like your dad, the other men didn't want no part of her.

Then we vow to protect our mom and make excuses for her no matter how wrong or how foul she is. We overlook her mischievous ways, yet we want to crucify every woman we date for behaving just like our mother used to.

How many of us have the balls to look at our mother and say "you're just like them because you're a woman!"

And god forbid you ever get into a situation where you have kids with a woman, it doesn't work out, and the kids are in her custody, they are for the mostpart going to think that mommy is perfect and that daddy did her wrong, no matter how good of a man, husband, or father you were.

You grow up saying... I'm never going to leave or treat a woman the way my dad did mom. But you say this not knowing the story until it happens to you one day, and say to yourself how easy it was for her to turn the kids against you

Your mom is not your ally. She is one of them. Use her for her knowledge. I know it's sad to think of it like this, but your mom more than likely has been feeding you the fairytale bullshyt. Anybody that grew up with their father (if he wasn't a simp) knows better.

:wow:
I love my both parents, but when I was little I thought my father was doing my mom wrong. As I grew up, I started to realize that my mom is not so perfect :manny:
 

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What sharp said I poste something way back in the day that someone just dapped



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Originally Posted by RickyGQ
I think a boy truly becomes a man when they realize that to their fathers (or stepfather etc), their mothers are just as ain't shyt as any other woman on earth. I been in a serious relationship for 5 years now, and about 2 years in I started to notice that the same bullshyt my girl does, my mother would do to my father. shyt blew my mind.

And I said

i somewhat agree, sometimes you see how your mother nags your father like he comes home from work and right away, the grass needs cutting, or don't put your dirty jacket there, or shower before you sit on teh couch and stuff.


and as a kid you'd be like why wont daddy listen or why would he yell at mommy

then you get older and your like damn these nagging ass females, ill shower when i want, ill cut the grass when i feel like i just came home from work women and ill pt my dirt clothes wherever
 

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The number ranges from 66-72% of black children being raised in a single parent home in the US, shyt is beyond pathetic.


Asians are at around 15% :merchant:

A single mom household is toxic when you think of it, most kids raised in single mom households grow up in a life of poverty, end up being promiscuous and repeating the cycle, end up in jail or doing drugs
As well te highest molestation rate is between step dads and boyfriends and a single mom children

But if you speak out about it you will be chastised
 

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A women's most valuable possession is her sex partners count, how many men real men would wife a prostitutr, escort or porn star?

Just like a car two cars look the same are you taking the one with 100 miles on the odometer or the one wih 200,000 miles?
 

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Honestly I can't speak on this mom stuff yall bringing up. Maybe yalls mom but my mom (and dad) did none of this stuff at least within earshot of me and my sister. Hate it for yall cause I love how we grew up with no gender roles for the most part and I carry that same mentality as an adult.
 

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No exceptions to the game. Play by the rules and make no special exemptions. Logic over emotions. Value what you see over what you feel. Cause your feelings will deceive you because you don't want to be hurt.

don't spend too much time thinking about what a woman is doing when she's not with you. continue to be a man and treat her with respect, and check her when she steps out of line. And once she violates, cut her off.

Before u get into a relationship, have an idea of what you expect to get out of it or benefit from it. If you take the time to do this, you will minimize the amount of relationships you have because you will realize that for most women the risk outweighs the reward. Some of them are just good for casual friends. U need to accept the fact that u don't have to wife every good looking chick u come across
 
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