Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Seem like woman don't want men to be men these days, like if your at a restaurant and you order steak and smashed potatoes and broccoli and it waiter comes back with chicken and rice, a woman will check the waiter on some " excuse you he ain't order this fix it back :usure:" it that guy duty to do that not her,woman will say "bu bu Iam just trying to help" and some simp will think "oh she just looking out for a nikka :manny:.... If she checked that waiter like that she will check u the same way with something else
 

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Seem like woman don't want men to be men these days, like if your at a restaurant and you order steak and smashed potatoes and broccoli and it waiter comes back with chicken and rice, a woman will check the waiter on some " excuse you he ain't order this fix it back :usure:" it that guy duty to do that not her,woman will say "bu bu Iam just trying to help" and some simp will think "oh she just looking out for a nikka :manny:.... If she checked that waiter like that she will check u the same way with something else
yo i heard that
 

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Man at the end of the day. NO woman loves you that much. She can say "I love you more then life itself" but best believe she will look out for her heart more then yours.She will up and leave you for another brotha. See the thing is in these relatonships.Its either LUST and Puppy Love. But there is only one real love.Its UNCONDITIONAL. There was a poster who said his mom said his pops was better or more stylish then Denzel. Now thats love. Your woman has to worship the ground you walk on.Im not talkin about,drink your bath water type of craziness.Im talking about the "baby you may not be a CEO but your the best man for me". A woman should encourage you at all times not discourage you.Truth is the woman who are playing games,Aren't Queens they are scared,confused,spoiled rotten princesses trapped in a woman;s body".A man has to hunt for a QUEEN like how we men hunted for food back in the "caveman" days.

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lol@'rinsers'. They're called hoes and golddiggers. This is why you can't really do too much nice for women. Instead of appreciating it, most think they got it because they got some kind of 'game'.

She even said what it was in that documentary. "Damsel in distress" syndrome. I'll have a nice little write-up about thatn soon.
 

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Listen, I know this is going to be a painful truth, but in order to absorb these gems this is something you have to accept

YOUR MOTHER IS NO DIFFERENT

We tend to look at our mothers as perfect, and often look for her qualities in the women that we date. We view our mothers from rose-colored glasses.

Little do we know that our mother was once a scandalous hoochie or gold digger. Our mother could have done our father wrong, but since those of us who grew up in single parent homes lived with our mothers, we never heard his story.

We grow up thinking that, my mom is amazing and strong. She raised me on her own. We also grow up thinking that dad is an a-hole or a deadbeat. While growing up and seeing numerous men in and out of our moms lives, we make excuses for her such as: "He wasn't good for her", "she just needs to find a good man", when the truth is that your mother was probably a whore that didn't want to settle down and just like your dad, the other men didn't want no part of her.

Then we vow to protect our mom and make excuses for her no matter how wrong or how foul she is. We overlook her mischievous ways, yet we want to crucify every woman we date for behaving just like our mother used to.

How many of us have the balls to look at our mother and say "you're just like them because you're a woman!"

And god forbid you ever get into a situation where you have kids with a woman, it doesn't work out, and the kids are in her custody, they are for the mostpart going to think that mommy is perfect and that daddy did her wrong, no matter how good of a man, husband, or father you were.

You grow up saying... I'm never going to leave or treat a woman the way my dad did mom. But you say this not knowing the story until it happens to you one day, and say to yourself how easy it was for her to turn the kids against you

Your mom is not your ally. She is one of them. Use her for her knowledge. I know it's sad to think of it like this, but your mom more than likely has been feeding you the fairytale bullshyt. Anybody that grew up with their father (if he wasn't a simp) knows better.
 

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That rinser documentary encapsulates the modern female mentality. In their minds, generosity is to be taken advantage of and not reciprocated. Generosity will get you placed into the 'friend' category, which doesn't involve friendship at all, but the more appropriate term is host and parasite relationship, since real friends do not take advantage of each other. You will have the occasional woman reciprocate, but for the most part, they have that take, take, take attitude. If I get a hint a woman is trying to pull something slick, that motto, "Ain't nothing free from me" will kick right on in.

The fate of a simp, 'aww he is so sweet' negro is to be used up and tossed aside. So my friends, go ahead and pay for her school, pay for her outfits, put money in her pocket all so she can look better and be more educated for a negro that does none of that. Watch that documentary and look at the contempt those women hold for their simps.

I had a great bit of amusement when that one gal went to America and found that it wasn't quite so sweet over here. These females are so delusional that they think their conversation is actually some kind of treat or service. That's why simps get taken advantage of. They willingly and happily pay for something that has little to no value. If that's you, keep on doing what you're doing while these females laugh and talk bad behind your back. Keep on falling for the damsel in distress and shaming tactics while they take all your rewards and give it to a real dude that doesn't go for that.
 
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Remember, it is always more difficult to change one's self than to "change" others. What I mean by this is that your never going to change anyone, they have to do that on their own (we've discussed this in this thread).

You have to be dedicated to change, its hard work, and those affirmations that you continue to mold while growing as a man are daily exercises. Mastering your crafts, and instilling any principles are the tools that enforce your mantras.

No one is ever going to "get it" only you will fully understand what your about and want to be about. No one can hold your hand through this (unless you believe in a higher power(s) that helps guide you)!

Your not going to "fix" "your" lady, and she isn't going to do the same for you. Work them kinks out of your life, just remember those cracks in your armor can turn into caverns if you let them continue to dig into you.

Be a greater you, for the greater good of all...

Guide the direction your going in, you got this B! :shake:
 

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