Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Why?

understandable. I don't care about the financial side of things, as long as she's doing her part we're good. I can't have a submissive girl, I need somebody who's opinionated and wont let me or others talk down to her.
 

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who doesn't base their interactions and experiences in life on how they think.

Your experiences with women are different than my experinces, so saying what I say yes my feelings my desires my thoughts lead what I think.

You live in england I live in Canada the culturesare different the women are different.


Additionally, you seem to subscribing to solipsism which doesn't give your stance much credence.
 

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My stance does include my perspective/experiences but the majority of it is based on quantitative & qualitative research from a variety of sources i.e. scientific reports, books, blogs, articles, talking with other people of varying backgrounds.

And I've been to Canada as well as living in the States for a short period. It's all the same shyt, women are absolutely no different in the Western hemisphere. Any difference is marginal at best.
 

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Fellas, how would you approach a woman in the shopping mall, who might give you a glance/look? I usually approach women in clubs as its the easiest. I wouldnt know how to approach a woman during the day, in the shopping mall,walking past you or doing some shopping etc.
 

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Fellas, how would you approach a woman in the shopping mall, who might give you a glance/look? I usually approach women in clubs as its the easiest. I wouldnt know how to approach a woman during the day, in the shopping mall,walking past you or doing some shopping etc.

Just go for it.

You can start off by introducing yourself, compliment her say she's attractive(don't say sexy) and tell her you're interested in getting to know her. I think within a couple seconds of talking to her you'll know if she want to talk. If she walks away, just say thank you for taking time out to hear what I had to say.

That's all I got:manny:
 

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Just go for it.

You can start off by introducing yourself, compliment her say she's attractive(don't say sexy) and tell her you're interested in getting to know her. I think within a couple seconds of talking to her you'll know if she want to talk. If she walks away, just say thank you for taking time out to hear what I had to say.

That's all I got:manny:

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Lol what's that for

cracks knuckles

by taking that approach you are already giving the woman the power. Why must you compliment? There is a quote I live by, NEVER GIVE A WOMAN A COMPLIMENT ON HER BEAUTY UNTIL YOU SEE HER WITHOUT MAKEUP.

What I mean by that quote more than likely you won't sleep with a woman for awhile , so after a while you can drop a compliment.

The key is to not raise her stature, you'll have more success in dropping a nice shoes and giving a smile, and then continuing on the conversation than a your very attractive can I get your number?

And why a thank you you for taking your time out like your having a job interview, if your rejected just walk away and hold your head high and maintain your dignity.



<Nice shoes, it's not alot of women who can walk in heels like that - quick smile
she smiles back you know your in

she doesn't shrugs, you never said wow your so pretty and attractive so :manny:


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Women LOVE a leader

Become a dominant man. The minute you think you and a woman are on equal footing, the minute she loses respect for you
No I'm not saying be a jerk or disrespect her. But if you come from the perspective that you're running things, girls would love you for it

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Pretty much. Having confidence doesn't mean you realistically think you can pull every single woman you come across. it's more along the lines of you feel you are WORTHY of every woman you come across. The difference between the two is that there is no man on Earth who every single woman will feel, no matter how much money he has or how handsome he is... but obviously, the more of those resources you have, the easier it is. Even with that said, no man can read a woman's mind so you never know what a particular woman wants until you offer it to her, so it makes no sense disqualifying yourself ahead of time by saying 'she's out of my league'... which is why you should always feel like you are worthy of her. To me, it ain't about 'leagues'. It's more about if the particular woman you are dealing with will accept what you are offering. if not, take it to another woman. When it comes down to it, relationships are people dealing with people.

If I'm hollaring at some pretty broad who won't deal with me because I don't have enough money for her, I ain't mad at her. That's just one woman who wasn't feeling what I was bringing to the table... but she's not 'out of my league', because on that same token there is another woman out there just as pretty, if not prettier who WILL be feeling what I am bringing to the table.
:lupe: well put sir, very insightful. . .
 
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