Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'll add on sadly many men sell themselves short, if all they can get is a chick average in looks they may think they are average , or if they can't even get a woman they may think they are ugly.

I remember growing up I wore glasses and I was skinny, I had no girlfriends . in my feeble mind thought I was ugly . It wasn't untill I was 16 and signed up at some site I realized it wasn't me just these ratchet chickd at school labelled me as unattractive so they all thought I was unattractive.

I remember hen this broad like two hours away came up for Caribana weekend she was like a 10/10. Even now at 28 I've never seen anyone that beautiful . And the whole time I'm thinking :wow: , how did I do this

And then that was the just the start of great things. Attractive women left and right :noah: I was certified now

Even my ex fiance I wish I kept a pic she was Russian and she looked like anna kournikova except she had massive bpobs. I know y'all are going to call :duck: , but I've never lied here . If you ever been to Russia there are beautiful women all over.

I don't believe in leagues, some women will find you attractive others ugly. You never know.

A 10/10 may see your 6/10 self as a 10/10 and may see herself as a 6/10.

Never sell yourself short
 

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And those traits will be?

I've never weighed more than 160
I've been bald since 23
I have a big nose

I've canoodled and cavprted with dimes, models, rich women


Leagues don't exist


That's an overly basic analysis of women's desires.

For both sexes, there are universal traits that are desirable. Self-improving for yourself & for the opposite sex doesn't have to be mutually exclusive. You can do it for both purposes & you should.
 

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Dude, leagues exist.

The things that women find attractive in men are much more varied than just looks which is what we seem to be focusing on here.

Looks, Game & Assets (basic breakdown) is what we come down to. So even though you may feel like you're 6 in terms of looks, your game & your resources may compensate for that to make a crude example of what I mean.

It's the same in reverse. Do you believe a woman that's below your level should feel like she has a shot with you? She doesn't look after her body, she's got children from previous men, she's 30+. These are traits that are important to us as men. This sort of woman is not in the 'league' of the high-value men which is what we're all aspiring to be.
 

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And those traits will be?

I've never weighed more than 160
I've been bald since 23
I have a big nose

I've canoodled and cavprted with dimes, models, rich women


Leagues don't exist

My n*gga, stop focusing on looks.

I know you're not naive enough to believe the traits that make women attractive to men are not the same OR are as influential to traits that make men attractive to women.
 

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Women do care about looks and they SK care about security and confidence.

I had none of the three at times in life and still succeeded.

Like I said a woman that you consider to be a 10/10 may think of herself as a 6/10 and may view you as a 10/10

Leagues do not exist

My n*gga, stop focusing on looks.

I know you're not naive enough to believe the traits that make women attractive to men are not the same OR are as influential to traits that make men attractive to women.
 

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As a man any women Is attainable, I've dated women when I was broke and had no assets that were flithy rich. and trust me I had no game as she's the one who hollered at me.

There is no leagues you never ever know when a woman will like you find you attractive even ifyou are a swag less broke bum.


I've travelled the world and seen it with my on eyes time and time again
Dudes that believe in leagues put themseleves into a box and sell themselves short.





Dude, leagues exist.

The things that women find attractive in men are much more varied than just looks which is what we seem to be focusing on here.

Looks, Game & Assets (basic breakdown) is what we come down to. So even though you may feel like you're 6 in terms of looks, your game & your resources may compensate for that to make a crude example of what I mean.

It's the same in reverse. Do you believe a woman that's below your level should feel like she has a shot with you? She doesn't look after her body, she's got children from previous men, she's 30+. These are traits that are important to us as men. This sort of woman is not in the 'league' of the high-value men which is what we're all aspiring to be.
 

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I'm getting the impression, you're being pedantic.

You seemed to miss the question I asked earlier. If a 30+ year old woman, with a 1-2 children, who didn't look after her body, etc tried to be with you, has she got an equal chance of being with you, as a 23 year old, low sexual count, fit/healthy woman?

No, because you're out of the former's league if you are a high value man.
 

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I'm a fatherless child brehs:sadcam:...

And an only child...:wow:

I'm a two time loser my nikkas:sadcam:

I had to learn a lot on my own and I'm still learning...

I remember in life when I really didn't care and that's when shyt was working...

When you care too much every move becomes measured...and everything becomes a second guess....

I know when I try I can get what I want...

I just second guess trying a lot of times....

This no father in your life syndrome is real and its worse when your the only child...

I excel in Independence but I'm hurting in other areas...

I just gotta bring it all together and get it right...:takedat:

I'ma only child too and I grew up without a father. He didn't abandon us, but somethings happened and he couldn't be there. If he was there I believe I would probably be a horrible nikka and ended up in jail.
 
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I don't date women with children and I believe in being equally yoked.

I would rather deal with a 28 year old average looking chick making 10 a hour working hard who is religious and submissive

Than a 23 year old beautiful woman who is not righteous making 50k right out of school

I'm getting the impression, you're being pedantic.

You seemed to miss the question I asked earlier. If a 30+ year old woman, with a 1-2 children, who didn't look after her body, etc tried to be with you, has she got an equal chance of being with you, as a 23 year old, low sexual count, fit/healthy woman?

No, because you're out of the former's league if you are a high value man.
 

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I don't date women with children and I believe in being equally yoked.

I would rather deal with a 28 year old average looking chick making 10 a hour working hard who is religious and submissive

Than a 23 year old beautiful woman who is not righteous making 50k right out of school

why though?
 

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I don't date women with children and I believe in being equally yoked.

I would rather deal with a 28 year old average looking chick making 10 a hour working hard who is religious and submissive

Than a 23 year old beautiful woman who is not righteous making 50k right out of school

Lol, I see what you tried to do there but irrespective, my point still stands.
 

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It was just an example, Money isn't everything.

AAnd I'm religious, I've dated messed with girls who weren't in the past and its something I can't do again .

understandable. I don't care about the financial side of things, as long as she's doing her part we're good. I can't have a submissive girl, I need somebody who's opinionated and wont let me or others talk down to her.
 
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