Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Flay Mayweather
Superstar
Man, gym life be killing a nikka
Me and the chick I was telling you about was working out and she brought her along too. I started my workout and felt like someone was looking at me, it was her friend just eyeing me down
. I look back and she turned around real fast. She wasn't the only one though, two other chicks were looking too. 
The gym gone fukk up my eating brehs
I just got this big booty bish # yesterday and she be there too working out.
Me and the chick I was telling you about was working out and she brought her along too. I started my workout and felt like someone was looking at me, it was her friend just eyeing me down
. I look back and she turned around real fast. She wasn't the only one though, two other chicks were looking too. The gym gone fukk up my eating brehs
I just got this big booty bish # yesterday and she be there too working out.
CrossBones
Louder than words
levels?
if you have your mind right and the opportunity arises, you shouldnt talk yourself out the possibilities because you think you are out of someones "level"
Im not saying everyone can do it like its easy, but youre better off believing in yourself to the fullest and to not purposely box yourself as being below someone else. we're all just people, anyways
if you have your mind right and the opportunity arises, you shouldnt talk yourself out the possibilities because you think you are out of someones "level"
Im not saying everyone can do it like its easy, but youre better off believing in yourself to the fullest and to not purposely box yourself as being below someone else. we're all just people, anyways
look at this bytch. she is clearly one of those rich bytches with a ton of issues, living out a late rebellious phase. i'm not trying to say that you don't have a point, but this isn't a good example.levels?
if you have your mind right and the opportunity arises, you shouldnt talk yourself out the possibilities because you think you are out of someones "level"
Im not saying everyone can do it like its easy, but youre better off believing in yourself to the fullest and to not purposely box yourself as being below someone else. we're all just people, anyways
Flay Mayweather
Superstar
She claims he saved her life. You might have a point breh
CrossBones
Louder than words
I was speaking in terms of wealth, social status, and other factors, as those are all things that you would think seperates the two and make someone think that they would not have a chance with the other. most moguls and baking heirs dont try to get with poor people who arent "on their level" regardless. for jay to even get the nod and an in with her speaks a lot towards there being no levels. its a great example, because like I said, we're all just people. those barriers that box us in are really things that we make up ourselves
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yes i get what you were trying to say, but jay electronica just happened to stumble upon a nutcase who decided to date him for the shockfactor and to liberate herself. yes, you can fukk billionair bytches if you are a bum, but they have to be mentally weak and your pimpgame must be strong. this or you're the classic pool cleaning boy, toy, starving artist or bad boy. in the latter cases, enjoy the ride but know that at some point she will drop you like a hot potatoa and return to her social circle.
trust me, i've worked in a position where i had to deal with these socialite type of woman and even though it's cliché, a lot fo them are fukked in the head and empty inside. and almost all of them have a phase where they are fukking some guy with lower social status. their issues make them 1. easy prey for someone who is mentally stronger than them and willing to deal with the crazy they will bring into your life and 2. not really desirable as partners if you are looking for anything else besides the money.
your example doesn't work because a self-important crazy bytch with a substance abuse problem and constant anxiety attacks is on a level beneath you, not above you, no matter how good she looks and how much money she has.
CrossBones
Louder than words
thats ... exactly why it works. we dont know about jay and what hes really like to make that assumption. sure it might be an extreme example (formerly homeless rapper from new orleans, who has never put an album out in the stores, gets with a super heir to a banking family), but it clearly shows you why this "levels" thing is mostly a construct
this type of thinking comes down to people and what they expect from others. but it should really be people, and what they truly see in a person when theyre dealing with someone else.
goes back to what reincar was saying, you might see a girl and think shes a 10/10. inside, she might see herself more as a 6/10. she might even see you and get to know you, and think youre a 9/10 or even a 10/10. you shouldnt box yourself out of taking chances and going for certain possibilities because of what society, or appearances that might make it seem like. it doesnt have to be jay elec and a rothschild, but it can be a dime and a regular joe. or a rich man and a down ass chick from a modest background and doesnt look like a model. we tend to cut ourselves off from others and think that things wont work from what we're looking at only, so therefore, we fail ourselves in really seeing what was what. of course, some people just dont fit together, regardless of their background. some do.
we dont always have all the information on a person or who they are at first. so if we tend to see people as something greater or "out of our league" solely because of what they have or what they look like, we dont really get to see whats real with them. it doesnt always have to be polarized in black and white or in her league or out of her league. thats a superficial way of thinking. decisions of compatibility should be made only when you know what shes about and if she works with you as a person.
plenty of guys are with dimes and they really dont seem like they would be in their girls league as far as appearance or status goes. yet this shyt happens. my point being, theres more to dealing with people than just what we see on the outside, and typically saying that someone is out of your league is a person making a judgement call while being on the outside.
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if the roles were reversed and women went after guys and picked them up, etc. many men would be shocked at the "dimes" that are attracted to them.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Ex wants to meet me tomorrow for coffee even though she in a serious relationship. Man like scooter said, "I don't need a girl, they on that bullshytttt"
Seeing that friendzoned thread up top got me thinking about what I have touched on before.
If you are ever in a friend situation, but really have stronger feeling for her? Here is what you need to do.
As soon as she gets her boyfriend you must walk away. I am not talking about a slow leave either, it must be immediate to get your point across. You should do it in a mature manner and clear thoughts told directly to her over the phone or in person. It can't be done in text because that's lame and impersonal.
Why leave? Because it's going to bother you knowing that here is a girl you want that is giving up the goods to some other guy and passed you up after telling her you want her. It's unacceptable in my book, hell in my opinion chances are the thought of really setting anything up after this event are slim to none. You will probably have a few come back and telling you they made a mistake, but some mistakes can't be fixed and these are the consequences. You CAN take advantage of the situation and become good buddies, but the fact that she picked some other guy and is now running back after it didn't work out makes you the back up plan.
Don't be a back up plan.
If you are ever in a friend situation, but really have stronger feeling for her? Here is what you need to do.
As soon as she gets her boyfriend you must walk away. I am not talking about a slow leave either, it must be immediate to get your point across. You should do it in a mature manner and clear thoughts told directly to her over the phone or in person. It can't be done in text because that's lame and impersonal.
Why leave? Because it's going to bother you knowing that here is a girl you want that is giving up the goods to some other guy and passed you up after telling her you want her. It's unacceptable in my book, hell in my opinion chances are the thought of really setting anything up after this event are slim to none. You will probably have a few come back and telling you they made a mistake, but some mistakes can't be fixed and these are the consequences. You CAN take advantage of the situation and become good buddies, but the fact that she picked some other guy and is now running back after it didn't work out makes you the back up plan.
Don't be a back up plan.
Exiled Martian
Was young I couldn't do good, now I can't do Bad
In the colloquial words on this side of the pond - You Take 'Er Easy...And If She's Easy You Take 'Er Twice brehs 