Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Flay Mayweather]

Thing is, you don't know what a woman does or doesn't want until you offer it to her. A lot of jailbirds end up with grog


Pretty much. Having confidence doesn't mean you realistically think you can pull every single woman you come across. it's more along the lines of you feel you are WORTHY of every woman you come across. The difference between the two is that there is no man on Earth who every single woman will feel, no matter how much money he has or how handsome he is... but obviously, the more of those resources you have, the easier it is. Even with that said, no man can read a woman's mind so you never know what a particular woman wants until you offer it to her, so it makes no sense disqualifying yourself ahead of time by saying 'she's out of my league'... which is why you should always feel like you are worthy of her. To me, it ain't about 'leagues'. It's more about if the particular woman you are dealing with will accept what you are offering. if not, take it to another woman. When it comes down to it, relationships are people dealing with people.

If I'm hollaring at some pretty broad who won't deal with me because I don't have enough money for her, I ain't mad at her. That's just one woman who wasn't feeling what I was bringing to the table... but she's not 'out of my league', because on that same token there is another woman out there just as pretty, if not prettier who WILL be feeling what I am bringing to the table.

I'm not trying to say confidence will get any girl, but it could help get some girls. You don't know unless you try tbh

The worst the person can say is No, and you move on. It might hurt, but that's life. Walk away , play FDB and hit that dance

 

[kevm3]

I'm not trying to say confidence will get any girl, but it could help get some girls. You don't know unless you try tbh

The worst the person can say is No, and you move on. It might hurt, but that's life. Walk away , play FDB and hit that dance

Exactly. The only thing she can say is 'no'... which isn't any wose than the default no you are giving yourself by saying she is out of your league.

 

[twan83]

I'm not trying to say confidence will get any girl, but it could help get some girls. You don't know unless you try tbh

The worst the person can say is No, and you move on. It might hurt, but that's life. Walk away , play FDB and hit that dance

sad but most guy's dont realize it either

hell when she turns u down a confident way leaving the situation can even get her attention too wanna holler at u when she had no plans too just cuz ur that confident and she is curious

ex: of the tables turning that happened too me

i saw this female i wanted too holler at and get the digits so i walk over and say hi and introduce myself and this is what happened immediately after i said hi

her: na im not looking too talk too somebody right now
me: (smiling while walking slowly saying) no worries here just thought it be worth approaching a lovely lady like you and it seems it was worth it take care
her: hold up a sec u think im a lovely lady and u just walk off saying take care
me: yeah and u said not looking too talk so i said take care so i saw no reason too carry the conversation any further and im not that type that is gonna pressure u and keep coming im gonna go bout my business and move on. too me its simple ur loss someone's else's gain
her: here is my number well see if ur worth gain

 

[Flay Mayweather]

sad but most guy's dont realize it either

hell when she turns u down a confident way leaving the situation can even get her attention too wanna holler at u when she had no plans too just cuz ur that confident and she is curious

ex: of the tables turning that happened too me

i saw this female i wanted too holler at and get the digits so i walk over and say hi and introduce myself and this is what happened immediately after i said hi

her: na im not looking too talk too somebody right now
me: (smiling while walking slowly saying) no worries here just thought it be worth approaching a lovely lady like you and it seems it was worth it take care
her: hold up a sec u think im a lovely lady and u just walk off saying take care
me: yeah and u said not looking too talk so i said take care so i saw no reason too carry the conversation any further and im not that type that is gonna pressure u and keep coming im gonna go bout my business and move on. too me its simple ur loss someone's else's gain
her: here is my number well see if ur worth gain

they use to nikkas taking rejection hard, but when they don't it gets their attention.
gotcha bytch

 

[RealAssanova]

Well I went travelling with my ex fiancé at the time in like 2006 to Russia, Ukraine, Romania and a few other countries and wow the gorgeous women . But the thing that got me I'll explain in a not

After I broke up with my ex fiancé travelling is what cured me I went to Jamaica, Dominican republic, Haiti and I came back like a brand new person. Women are so different , I really and honestly think women in america and Canada or the most part are horrible , slutty, and non deserving to be wifed.

What I saw in these other cojntriesw were women who were submissive, beautiful, righteous, family orientated even if they were not religious.

When you travel your eyes are opened up, the bubble that is north America is a joke.

I recommend every man to get their passport and visit a country for a week alone.

i cannot agree with this more.

this is exactly the reason that IF I DO end up finding someone outchea, we movin to an islamic country (i'm muslim), like maybe turkey, malaysia or Qatar. North America and Europe is just one massive playground. I ain't tryna find my wife outchea.

 

[twan83]

they use to nikka taking rejection hard, but when on don't it get their attention.
gotcha bytch

basically i just dont give no fukks if she does and sometimes that shyt backfires and then she wanna holler

 

[kevm3]

Mentally, the thing a lot of men have to do is stop seeing rejection as a knock against their self worth. To me, it's more along the lines of she is saving you time by telling you up front ya'll aren't a fit. Kind of like going to the mall, seeing a shirt that looks cool, but when you put it on, realizing it doesn't it you right. Instead of crying about it, just try on another shirt until you find the one that fits. Same thing with women. if one doesn't like your style, don't knock her or yourself for it... just realize you got to get at another woman until you find the one that fits.

 

[twan83]

Well I went travelling with my ex fiancé at the time in like 2006 to Russia, Ukraine, Romania and a few other countries and wow the gorgeous women . But the thing that got me I'll explain in a not

After I broke up with my ex fiancé travelling is what cured me I went to Jamaica, Dominican republic, Haiti and I came back like a brand new person. Women are so different , I really and honestly think women in america and Canada or the most part are horrible , slutty, and non deserving to be wifed.

What I saw in these other cojntriesw were women who were submissive, beautiful, righteous, family orientated even if they were not religious.

When you travel your eyes are opened up, the bubble that is north America is a joke.

I recommend every man to get their passport and visit a country for a week alone.

i hate too say it but u right of course doesnt apply too everybody but quite a bit actually

and ive been too japan germany austria briefly and italy and sweet jesus at them women
and i know how they treat u and its cuz of their culture also
looks wise no reason too say not even close on beauty shyt curbstomps american women plain and simple

dudes laugh at me saying asian aint all that im sitting here like go too japan and live their or at least visit u be surprised how bad them females are i mean i left their and came back too the states like what is a dime in usa was cute there no joke had me like and we aint even talking bout how they treat u yet
thats new level

had one girl at my barracks one day staying while i was at work came back she had my clothes folded food on bed ready too eat bandana on with some sexy as outfit on scrubbing my floors with a damn toothbrush

told me too relax she got this

 

[kevm3]

Well I went travelling with my ex fiancé at the time in like 2006 to Russia, Ukraine, Romania and a few other countries and wow the gorgeous women . But the thing that got me I'll explain in a not

After I broke up with my ex fiancé travelling is what cured me I went to Jamaica, Dominican republic, Haiti and I came back like a brand new person. Women are so different , I really and honestly think women in america and Canada or the most part are horrible , slutty, and non deserving to be wifed.

What I saw in these other cojntriesw were women who were submissive, beautiful, righteous, family orientated even if they were not religious.

When you travel your eyes are opened up, the bubble that is north America is a joke.

I recommend every man to get their passport and visit a country for a week alone.

I agree. The problem is when you've been around dysfunction so long, it starts to normalize... In other words, you start to view that dysfunctional behavior as normal. What is going on in America is NOT normal.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

They need some male enrichment courses in elementary, high school, or college. A lot of the male population would do better with socializing with females if they had someone to teach them these things early in life.

Brehthers, I'm young(19) and have knowledge nikkas in their 40s don't have. I grew up raising myself mentally, if I can do it, I'm pretty sure anyone can.

 

[Mickey Kane]

Pretty much. Having confidence doesn't mean you realistically think you can pull every single woman you come across. it's more along the lines of you feel you are WORTHY of every woman you come across. The difference between the two is that there is no man on Earth who every single woman will feel, no matter how much money he has or how handsome he is... but obviously, the more of those resources you have, the easier it is. Even with that said, no man can read a woman's mind so you never know what a particular woman wants until you offer it to her, so it makes no sense disqualifying yourself ahead of time by saying 'she's out of my league'... which is why you should always feel like you are worthy of her. To me, it ain't about 'leagues'. It's more about if the particular woman you are dealing with will accept what you are offering. if not, take it to another woman. When it comes down to it, relationships are people dealing with people.

If I'm hollaring at some pretty broad who won't deal with me because I don't have enough money for her, I ain't mad at her. That's just one woman who wasn't feeling what I was bringing to the table... but she's not 'out of my league', because on that same token there is another woman out there just as pretty, if not prettier who WILL be feeling what I am bringing to the table.

I dunno man, some of that just sounds like defence mechanism for ego investments.

I'm sure you've heard of the concept of the 'sexual marketplace' right? Right. We can have all the self-fulfillment, confidence, etc in the world but the cold, hard truth is, WOMEN ultimately define what is attractive in MEN & MEN define what is attractive in WOMEN. So by that token, if you're a '7' & she's an '9' or '10', she's out of your league.

Does that mean you can't approach her? Of course not, I encourage it in fact because that's what improves your game/confidence & it strengthens an 'abundance' mentality however, we can't forget that the qualities women want in men are defined by them, not us. If we lack in certain areas, it's weak to be like, 'I am who I am, a woman should be happy with who I am'. F*ck that, self-improvement should be constant. And to deny that women play a BIG part in you as a man wanting to improve is hilarious TBH.

 

[360dagod]

They need some male enrichment courses in elementary, high school, or college. A lot of the male population would do better with socializing with females if they had someone to teach them these things early in life.

Brehthers, I'm young(19) and have knowledge nikkas in their 40s don't have. I grew up raising myself mentally, if I can do it, I'm pretty sure anyone can.

I'm a fatherless child brehs...

And an only child...

I'm a two time loser my nikkas​

I had to learn a lot on my own and I'm still learning...

I remember in life when I really didn't care and that's when shyt was working...

When you care too much every move becomes measured...and everything becomes a second guess....

I know when I try I can get what I want...

I just second guess trying a lot of times....

This no father in your life syndrome is real and its worse when your the only child...

I excel in Independence but I'm hurting in other areas...

I just gotta bring it all together and get it right...

 

[MikelArteta]

I want to add more on travelling I swear if all you know is north America , I feel sorry for you.

I've also been to Africa and the women their were religious and submissive, and in shape. Its amazing when your stuxk in north america the overrated women. Women who aren't even naturally beautiful filled with enhancements, women talking to 50 guys at once with a inflated ego.

I've never gotten more smiles in my life from the opposite sex than I did in Constanta Romania, in Dr I was getting my belly rubbed.


In Cuba everything is old fashioned, no broad has instagram
, I didn't see one obese chick my whole time then.

 

[MikelArteta]

Women like what other women like. If her friends say your ugly your ugly.

If her friends damn he's hot then your hot.

That's why you shouldn't care if a woman finds you attractive or not

I dunno man, some of that just sounds like defence mechanism for ego investments.

I'm sure you've heard of the concept of the 'sexual marketplace' right? Right. We can have all the self-fulfillment, confidence, etc in the world but the cold, hard truth is, WOMEN ultimately define what is attractive in MEN & MEN define what is attractive in WOMEN. So by that token, if you're a '7' & she's an '9' or '10', she's out of your league.

Does that mean you can't approach her? Of course not, I encourage it in fact because that's what improves your game/confidence & it strengthens an 'abundance' mentality however, we can't forget that the qualities women want in men are defined by them, not us. If we lack in certain areas, it's weak to be like, 'I am who I am, a woman should be happy with who I am'. F*ck that, self-improvement should be constant. And to deny that women play a BIG part in you as a man wanting to improve is hilarious TBH.

 

[Mickey Kane]

Women like what other women like. If her friends say your ugly your ugly.

If her friends damn he's hot then your hot.

That's why you shouldn't care if a woman finds you attractive or not

That's an overly basic analysis of women's desires.

For both sexes, there are universal traits that are desirable. Self-improving for yourself & for the opposite sex doesn't have to be mutually exclusive. You can do it for both purposes & you should.