Piff Perkins
Veteran
A man can be legitimate friends with a woman he has no sexual attraction to but no man is just "friends" with a woman he finds sexually attractive.
The only exceptions are:
If the man is gay.
They have incompatible religions.
They linked through association via a relative/close friend/their girl
Outside of that men are just sticking around and playing the long game to eventually fukk. Women KNOW this and use them to get all their non sexual needs/favors from them while getting their sexual needs from the men they actually DESIRE. It is essentially a parasitic relationship.
One of my best friends over the last decade looks like prime Elizabeth Hurley. I've traveled with her (for work), gone to lunch with her etc across a decade without my former or current girlfriend getting mad. And while I think she's hot I have no interest in fukking her, not even when I was single. Partly because she's crazy but the other part is...we're just friends. Probably also have too many personality similarities to ever be a good idea to pursue her (if I was single).
I'm never a fan of arguments that basically boil down to claiming men are cavemen with no control over their urges, who only think about sex, etc.