Men of The Coli, How Do You Feel About Women Asking You...

[ChatGPT-5]

Here is a comment by The Gate over at LSA:

"People will not keep it 300 on this topic because they have no incentive. Men are not going to go above and beyond for women they already know that they have in the bag.Most likely they are either going to accept or tolerate that affection. Not revere it. I see this every week.

And most of what you're saying isn't applicable to normal people. @stubbornMost women do not got it like that to have multiple men in a dating rotation for months on end. And most men wouldn't even stand for such a thing in the first place. There is a difference between indicating interest and asking men out a date.

Let me tell you something, if I was walking downtown and I saw an open briefcase with a million dollars in the middle of the street, you know what I'm gonna do? I'm going to go get it. I'm not gonna sit there and deliberate. Folks need to focus on the ones looking at them like a million bucks, not the ones not looking at all."

The problem with those cluck heads are it's a bunch of hens sitting around all speculating what men think. Meanwhile the OP just came in here and asked actual men.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

It's 2016 who the hell goes on dates anymore? Anyway, if she asked me out I'll tell her nah. She gonna bring one of her friends instead of the date being me and her..

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[patscorpio]

there's nothing wrong with a woman asking you out on a date at all..in my mind its a clear sign of interest and one less barrier

asking for my hand in marriage is where i draw the line though

 

[Ironman]

I've been asked out once or twice but I wouldn't treat them bad or anything like that. I'd go out to have a good time and see where it takes us.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Do you guys agree with this?

These women full of shyt. They know nothing about men. Yes, we would love for a female to show interest off the bat instead of guessing if she likes us or not.

 

[mr. smoke weed]

Am I gonna fukk that night or is it gonna be a 2 date thing

 

[Splash]

If shes a banger

 

[Gold]

Happened often when I was single, I don't have an issue with it. If a girl is tired of waiting around to be noticed more power to her




In my experience it's women who have an issue with women approaching men. Men don't care about that

 

[HE_Pennypacker]

Out on a date. A first date? Or approaching you first? Making the first move?



Would it be different if a female stranger asks vs. a female friend/acquaintance?

Would you treat her worse than a woman you asked out? How/why?

How do you usually decide who you will/won't ask out?

Have you ever been asked out by a woman? What happened?

Answer my questions please


Just wanted to add that I consider giving you hints from across the room first, and coming up to you to talk to you first as approaching or making the first move as well.

I'd be so chuffed

Makes no difference if it's a stranger or an acquaintance. Actually, I'd respect a total stranger more for having the balls to approach.

I don't treat women badly, period. Actually, I don't treat anyone badly.

If I'm feeling a connection with someone, I'll ask them out.

I've been asked out/approached by plenty of women. Half of them, I was a moron and completely missed it. The rest of the time it all went well; I only get approached by fat girls or very attractive foreign types for some reason So I curved the fatsos, and got it in with the others.

As for the bolded; you'll have to be more assertive if you're dealing with a dude like me. You might think you're throwing yourself at me, and I'm stupidly thinking "man, this girl is really nice"

 

[PhonZhi]

I can't imagine a man having a problem with this

Well im different. Depending on how strong she comes on, it can be a turn off. As a man,i prefer doing the hunting/pursuing. Ive been pursued a number of times and it just doesnt feel rite to me.

Personally, i feel that no man should ever expect women to pursue. If it happens cool, and im not sayin women shouldnt do it. Im just saying that ultimately its the mans role to be the hunter/pursuer


http://www.thecoli.com/threads/as-a...t-females-should-approach-kill-yaself.330743/

 

[Texas2step]

If they asked me out first, then I know I can fukk. So why waste my time going on a date when I can just invite her over to my place

 

[iBrowse]

Do you guys agree with this?
"If they lived in their truth then they would have someone to take them out on the weekends, but they are rejecting men based on little things like height and looks. Looks and all of that will eventually not matter one day....the fact that he can provide, has a career with good benefits, etc should be what women really look for in a man."

Yeah godammit

 

[Diondon]

Depends on her thirst levels

 

[Ill Lou Malnati]

Every one wants to feel wanted and desirable. It's nice when that rare woman takes a moment to make the first move instead of doing nothing.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Out on a date. A first date? Or approaching you first? Making the first move?



Would it be different if a female stranger asks vs. a female friend/acquaintance?

Would you treat her worse than a woman you asked out? How/why?

How do you usually decide who you will/won't ask out?

Have you ever been asked out by a woman? What happened?

Answer my questions please


Just wanted to add that I consider giving you hints from across the room first, and coming up to you to talk to you first as approaching or making the first move as well.

I'll update if any of that happens for me