Men of The Coli, How Do You Feel About Women Asking You...

[iBrowse]

To be serious though my girl came on to me and I proudly simp her

 

[flea]

Thot. I'm the aggressor. If she finds herself comfortable just approaching me and asking me out on a date, I assume she's down to suck any man's dikk.

 

[Larry Lambo]

I think almost all guys wouldn't mind being approached.

Thing is, women tend to approach men out of their league. When they are young it's all fun and games cause it's typically casual and most dudes are going to be down with for some easy bunz.

But when they are older and looking for something serious, then it's an issue. They ain't gonna approach the dude that would be down to wife them. They gonna approach the same cat that they did when they were 18, and then say the reason he played her is because she came off too "thirsty".

 

[Just like bruddas]

If she say ask then she's paying which means she gonna want some dikk afterwards.

who am I to deny her that

 

[Meadow]

Here is a comment by The Gate over at LSA:

"People will not keep it 300 on this topic because they have no incentive. Men are not going to go above and beyond for women they already know that they have in the bag.Most likely they are either going to accept or tolerate that affection. Not revere it. I see this every week.

And most of what you're saying isn't applicable to normal people. @stubbornMost women do not got it like that to have multiple men in a dating rotation for months on end. And most men wouldn't even stand for such a thing in the first place. There is a difference between indicating interest and asking men out a date.

Let me tell you something, if I was walking downtown and I saw an open briefcase with a million dollars in the middle of the street, you know what I'm gonna do? I'm going to go get it. I'm not gonna sit there and deliberate. Folks need to focus on the ones looking at them like a million bucks, not the ones not looking at all."

This metaphor made absolutely no sense.

 

[LadySimone]

This metaphor made absolutely no sense.

I just wanted to see what you guys thought about what she said.

 

[LadySimone]

The problem with those cluck heads are it's a bunch of hens sitting around all speculating what men think. Meanwhile the OP just came in here and asked actual men.

Well I think there may have been one or two guys in there. But I'm glad open broached the subject here.

 

[Action Mike]

Just wanted to add that I consider giving you hints from across the room first, and coming up to you to talk to you first as approaching or making the first move as well.

 

[BlackMajik]

I have no problems with that

 

[BrehWyatt]

Chances are, I'd be more inclined to try and make it work if I got approached first. I'd be more invested than I would if I did the approaching, but if I approached, I wouldn't be that fukked up about shyt going awry down the road. Women and society criminally underrate how much of a turn-on it is to a guy when woman wants/desires/craves him, etc.

 

[BigE214]

It depends on the rapport.

If it's a chick I constantly see/encounter rather it's school, work, church, train, gym ect. I wouldn't think twice about it and would be ready to roll.

Now if this chick just so happens to see me drippin' at a bar, club, ect...I ain't gon feel special. I'm feel like if she choose me, she'd choose anybody. We gon still have our fun tho.

 

[AtlasUnplugged]

Been asked out twice.

First time by a friend's twin sister. Had dinner and went to a party later that evening. It was kinda weird, she got drunk af, started introducing me as her "future boyfriend" and when we were about to go to her place she loudly proclaimed in front of everyone that we weren't gonna fukk so I dipped. She was super aggressive the next few times we met.

Second time it was this girl from this acting group I recently joined. I had asked her out a few weeks before and when I asked her for a second date she gave me the "let's start out as friends".Kept it moving but ol' girl basically started preying on me for weeks. Blew up my phone during class and work, came early to group meetings to see me (I know this from one of her friends) and then she asked me out so I was like . Things went well, ended up watching a movie at her place and stayed over . Few days later she's playing again .

 

[TripleAgent]

Why not? Let a nikka know you feeling him

 

[agnosticlady]

Most women I ever took seriously pursued me. She was choosin, and I like that. Because I know in my heart she never gonna see me as a "just settled for" guy.

What kinda date though? You could do to much, and end up in the getting used category. "Lemme borrow your car, real quick"

Like poster above, Ive been approached, called first etc. But never like, out on a date. My wife, made a lot of bold moves to get me.

People ask to borrow cars on first dates?

Happened often when I was single, I don't have an issue with it. If a girl is tired of waiting around to be noticed more power to her




In my experience it's women who have an issue with women approaching men. Men don't care about that

This is 150% true. I have seen women literally shyt on another woman for approaching a man. The thing is people are so stupid that they think approaching means telling someone that you love them or that you are dying to be with them when it just means that you found something attractive about them and would like to get to know them more . Approaching can just be talking to the person and smiling. It is really not that serious. The man that I am currently with approached me. Who gives a shyt. If you find someone attractive talk to them, become acquainted, and hang out. People are so stupid....If you feel like the person is going to make a mockery out of your, or hurt your feelings then drop them.Life is too short for all that mess. Nobody wants to play, "Hmmm lets wait three months to see how you feel about me. ".

 

[SadimirPutin]

Brehettes......take my word for it

If you see something you like shoot your shot....you might not always connect but its better than being in the room with your third drink wondering why the guy you feeling isnt noticng your latest glance

Get over the special snowflake syndrome.