Men of The Coli, How Do You Feel About Women Asking You...

[Kalik]

People ask to borrow cars on first dates?

I meant eventually she may find the wrong guy who will be a user. Living off her.... bummy dude. Just because she is head over heels for him. Trust me, a lot of women in this group. They want the man, more than he wants her....

Of course after the 1st date..... users/abusers never show their hand early.

Approaching can just be talking to the person and smiling.

Oh that's what you consider approaching? .... that's the most overlooked gesture of all time. Then some women wonder why men miss signals.

 

[mannyrs13]

It would make things easier on me so I wouldn't mind. I'll be one of those nice rejection guys and not on no . Since I know they had the courage to atleast come try. Now if they my type, then it'll be a different story.

 

[Sauce Dab]

It's 2016

 

[agnosticlady]

I meant eventually she may find the wrong guy who will be a user. Living off her.... bummy dude. Just because she is head over heels for him. Trust me, a lot of women in this group. They want the man, more than he wants her....

Of course after the 1st date..... users/abusers never show their hand early.




Oh that's what you consider approaching? .... that's the most overlooked gesture of all time. Then some women wonder why men miss signals.

Its one of many. You can smile and greet the person, start up a coversation, ask if they want to hang out . As a man what would you say is the best way for a woman to approach a man?

 

[iBrowse]

This metaphor made absolutely no sense.

Hai

 

[Kalik]

Its one of money. You can smile and greet the person, start up a coversation, ask if they want to hang out . Ad a man what would you say is the best way for a woman to approach a man?

To get right to the point. "Are you seeing someone?" (Or in any similar variation). Slip that in that 1st convo, after that smile. It cuts thru all the bullshyt. Doesn't matter who initiated the convo...

It really is just her taking it to that next level, beyond a smile, twirling her hair, brushing my arms. (Outdated signals)

Asking to spend time with him, before he does. Basically if you know, if this dude asks me to go out Ill say yeah. Try to ask him first, you would have said yeah anyway. Stop waiting around.

Just my opinion. Cuz when I used to approach women, I was thinking with my dikk (sex). And when they approached me, I always felt special, like wow, wonder what she sees in me.

A lot of women approach me now about my hair... or my eyes. Or ask my background.... which leads to them asking "am I married, taken" == Choosing. Which still flatters me

 

[IVS]

I appreciate aggressive and assertive woman, so I'd be cool with that.

 

[Dwolf]

Well im different. Depending on how strong she comes on, it can be a turn off. As a man,i prefer doing the hunting/pursuing. Ive been pursued a number of times and it just doesnt feel rite to me.

Personally, i feel that no man should ever expect women to pursue. If it happens cool, and im not sayin women shouldnt do it. Im just saying that ultimately its the mans role to be the hunter/pursuer


As A Man, If You Think That Females Should Approach.....Kill Yaself

Im not clicking on your thread.

 

[Xyrax]

This thread was inspired by this thread: Is It Really A Big Deal When A Woman Asks A Man Out On A Date? Both Genders Weigh In

They keep saying "That's desperate, he's never going to treat you well/special, you'll do all of the work" and other stuff like that.

Are they wrong?

I think a lot of them are wrong, but it depends on the type of male, I guess. & the situation.

Hell yeah they are wrong. That's so fukking stupid to think that asking someone out makes you desperate. So is their mindset that any man that asks them out is desperate too? If so, thats probably why a bunch of them are single and bitter. I might be biased though. Two of the best women I have ever been with expressed their interest to me in a rather forward manner. Neither of them lasted beyond 4 years, but none of us regret that time together (that shyt is rare) and I didn't feel any type of way about how it started.

Later for that super shy, ultra timid, giggling and blushing bullshyt brehettes We all have careers and business to tend too; sometimes a nikka don't catch the signals, so go on ahead and do you. If you are a good woman, you are doing that nikka a favor. Remember that.

 

[Biscayne]

Its nice, its lets you know they are really into you and cuts out alot of games. But its easier for women to come off as being an easy lay if they approach 1st. I'll be honest with you, I get approached here and there by women....90 percent of the time its white women. (not to turn this into a bw vs ww issue, just my experiences) They seem to have zero problem starting up a conversation and then either getting right to the point of wanting sex or to keep in touch.


I wish more of my sisters would step up and let these dude's know they feeling them instead of hoping he gets the signals or playing "hard to get"

My feelings exactly. They need to let me know, or I won't go. I just don't want these Black women to treat me as if I'm a nuisance to them. That's why I prefer they approach me, because I'd never drag them the same way they'll drag a brotha. If she shows signs of disinterest when I approach her(or if she's playing hard to get) I'll QUICKLY quit the game, and bounce. I just don't want to come across as being bothersome....

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

A woman approaching shows that she's mature.

I hate hearing that a grown woman is attracted to me from a 3rd party on some middle school shyt

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

I've always been flattered by that....

but that's when I was YOUNGER...now I'm more CYNICAL and SUSPICIOUS of women who ask me out

cause of experiences ive had with women like that whom seem to have a MOTIVE and come off as very CONTROLLING and want to set the tone of the RELATIONSHIP if It was to advance in that direction...

which is why im HARD ON HOES.....cause I find womwn like this desperate in their agenda

now I WON'T TURN IT Down...im just cautious and like to know if she is SINCERE

id rather GO DUTCH....she pay her way..and I pay mine ....THIS WAY NOBODY FEELS LIKE THEY OWED ANYTHING

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

i remember this stacked 18 year old run game on me last year in front of my mom my mom peeped homegirls game and hit me with a talmbout i better not go near that girl.

what "game" did ya mama recognized? i dont get it, what game was home girl trying to run

 

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Do you guys agree with this?

I be on that site and I see so much f*ckery from those chicks. Dude only men with no teeth look at me it doesn't mean that's all I'm good for. it depends on your surroundings as well. I live around rednecks. I look nothing like redneck material. If what you want isn't there at the moment then you gotta move around. Women are just as scared of rejection as men but we go about it differently. I have no one because there isn't anyone I'm attracted to or want to approach it doesn't mean that my worth is in what I look like. So if a crack head wants my pus*y is that all I'm worth? Some of the sh*t on lipstick alley makes me wanna

...and ......fa real.

Any woman that sees who or what she wants hell go after it! Men see a chick they want they go after her. Why I have to sit on my ass and not be able to do a damn thing because other women see it as desperate? F*ck that!

 

[Meadow]

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