Is there really a shortage of black men for black women to date/married? OR
- Thread starter King Poetic
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GiGi
Slaying Bed Bucks™ since 1981
You are just generalizing and spitting barbershop bs here...
Y'all are just hell bent on assuming the negative of Black women... I wonder if you would have the same image of your Black daughter....
The only men who will complain about your standards are the ones who can't meet them. Don't even bother with them.
Average American makes under 50K.
So by default most women have unrealistic expectations.
I don't care because I'm not most women. You don't know me or what my expectations are.
That's what I'm been trying to highlight in this thread. Average American isn't even making $50K. So, where are these Black women (who also on average are making less than $50K), going to find all these Black men making more than $75K? If a Black man is making that type of money, looks nice, has no kids, nice car, his own spot, etc. he's going to have a buffet of women to choose from. Then, the onus is placed on the woman. What makes her such a "good" woman to snag such a man?
The woman will them come with the "well, I have degrees, make X money, etc." Men rarely marry women based on that type of shyt. Now that more women have those things, it becomes even less of a differentiating factor.
They could always try other Black men like Nigerians, Ethiopians, etc. But, those men will not marry a lot of Black men for the same reasons AA men don't marry AA women.
Nintendough
#Kliq
A sampling of just some billionaires with black wives
You need to send a sample of your blood to a clinic Derek.
Nintendough
#Kliq
A thread full of loser hoes with imaginary boyfriends
We've got to keep it all the way funky:
There is no shortage of "good" Black men for Black women to build with. There is a shortage of "great" Black men, just as there is a shortage of "great" men in other groups.
But, most Black women--good, great or not--think they deserve a "great" Black man. Some even think they deserve the unicorns.
- Good Black men (age 23-35): ~$35K-50K, no kids, decent, good character, 9-5.
- Great Black men (age 23-35): >$75K, no kids, decent, good character, 9-5
- Unicorns (age 23-35): >$100K, non-entertainer, no kids, decent, good character
There is no shortage of "good" Black men for Black women to build with. There is a shortage of "great" Black men, just as there is a shortage of "great" men in other groups.
But, most Black women--good, great or not--think they deserve a "great" Black man. Some even think they deserve the unicorns.
Why does it bother some men when a woman (especially a black woman) has certain standards?
Do you believe that black men in the "good" category deserve a black woman in the great or unicorn category?
No. No one on this earth deserves anyone.
Your next twist of logic will be to assume that the majority of "successful" Black women fall in the unicorn category, hence their only options are "good" Black men. But since "good" Black women shouldn't expect to find "great" Black men in abundance, why would a "good" Black man deserve a unicorn Black woman?
It's apparent where you were going.
Most Black women fall in the "good" category also. National income statistics support that claim.
Doesn't bother anyone. It's just ridiculous when Black women go on national TV and say there are no good Black men. Can you imagine how ridiculous it would be for "successful" Black men to go on national TV and say there are no "good" Black women around?
We'd all give those nikkas the
look.