GiGi
Slaying Bed Bucks™ since 1981
The problem for black women is that...for some reason...they put black men in only 2 categories...
1. He don't make enough money...he don't got a nice enough car...he don't got a nice enough place...that nikka ain't shyt...I'm not even going to waste my time with him....
2. He got all the money...he got a nice car...he got a nice place...this is the black man I want...and this is the only black man I want...
Problem is...a dude in the number 2 category....can have any woman he wants...so why the fukk would he want you? A dude in this category will have a lot of women...from a lot of races...falling all over him...so...what exactly do you have that is going to put you above all these other women? Plus, a "successful" black man is a commodity now...and a very sought after commodity at that...their are plenty of women from other races who will look down on the black race...but a black man with money...nice big house...nice car...yeah them same women will be begging for that dude to turn their mouths into a nursery...for whatever reasons you want to make up in your head...
Even funnier...black women can't seem to understand...that most black men who get to category 2....started in category 1...when black women was shytting on them...and then poof...they just supposed to forget about that...nah...
This is probably true for some black women who are lower SES. But its an over simplification of what makes a black man desirable and neither option 1 or 2 are very desirable IMO. There is MUCH more to making a black man desirable than just having/making money and MANY black men don't seem to really
"get it"