Is there really a shortage of black men for black women to date/married? OR

[mamba]

We all know that other groups do not air their dirty laundry the way that black Americans tend to do. However, many Asian women loudly and proudly proclaim their preference for pink peen (The Joy Luck Club) and Hispanics marry out more than any other group but both of these groups do not bash in the public forum.

Black men, in the collective, express their disdain for black women in the mates that they choose and in the misogynistic lyrics in hip hop and R&B. And yes, black women ran to Ricki Lake and Oprah to complain when we should have been silently working on ourselves and looking inward. Absolutely NONE of it is RIGHT.

Those are celebrities, brehette. Most Black men are marrying Black women.

Until I see Black women stop attending hip hop concerts and stop supporting the artists, your criticism of hip hop is pointless. nikkas keep spittin' that shyt on the mic because it sells. Who buys it? White America and Black women. Go to most hip hop concerts. You see bytches singing along to those same misogynistic lyrics word for word.

I've even seen brehettes in public, with kids in the backseat, blasting that shyt in their ears.

Those kids can't even read, but they know Boosie/Wayne lyrics after being bombarded with enough of them.

 

[GiGi]

Those are celebrities, brehette. Most Black men are marrying Black women.

Until I see Black women stop attending hip hop concerts and stop supporting the artists, your criticism of hip hop is pointless. nikkas keep spittin' that shyt on the mic because it sells. Who buys it? White America and Black women. Go to most hip hop concerts. You see bytches singing along to those same misogynistic lyrics word for word.

I do not disagree with you. Many of those young women are currently lost. They do not "get" how they are being disrespected by being called bytches and h0es. Its quite sad actually. Those women need a wake up call.

 

[mamba]

I do not disagree with you. Many of those young women are currently lost. They do not "get" how they are being disrespected by being called bytches and h0es. Its quite sad actually. Those women need a wake up call.

It's one of the primary reasons nikkas come at most Black women on some disrespectful shyt. They see a lot of women consigning the music and other shyt. All of this shyt is learned behavior. nikkas don't come out the womb disrespecting Black women.

nikkas know not to step to well-to-do Asian, Indian and other cac women on some disrespectful shyt. But, because Black women cosign that shyt, that's what they get in terms of treatment.

 

[marcuz]

@mamba shut effectively all the typical arguments down

 

[Malik]

at "It's only a movie baby girl"

That is a bad look though. Acting in all these black romance films but you got white wife.

 

[GiGi]

It's one of the primary reasons nikkas come at most Black women on some disrespectful shyt. They see a lot of women consigning the music and other shyt. All of this shyt is learned behavior. nikkas don't come out the womb disrespecting Black women.

nikkas know not to step to well-to-do Asian, Indian and other cac women on some disrespectful shyt. But, because Black women cosign that shyt, that's what they get in terms of treatment.

Some black women cosign...not all. I don't deal with anyone IRL who would disrespect me as a woman.

 

[mamba]

Some black women cosign...not all. I don't deal with anyone IRL who would disrespect me as a woman.

Yeah definitely not all. But, enough such that perception is created.

@Crakface had the classic quote in another thread when chopping it up with a brehette.

A woman like you probably needs to feel like a nikka would legit kill you and dump your body somewhere to feel like a man is worthy of respect.

A lot of Black women are on the "pain is love" tip. If a nikka isn't on some Ike Turner shyt, the relationship is boring. Most nikkas don't want to be that way. But, they learn that's how they have to be to win with a lot of Black women.

Notice how quickly they switch it up when dealing with non-Black women.

 

[GiGi]

It's one of the primary reasons nikkas come at most Black women on some disrespectful shyt. They see a lot of women consigning the music and other shyt. All of this shyt is learned behavior. nikkas don't come out the womb disrespecting Black women.

nikkas know not to step to well-to-do Asian, Indian and other cac women on some disrespectful shyt. But, because Black women cosign that shyt, that's what they get in terms of treatment.

But the next logical question is.....where are the black fathers?

Neither black women OR black men are beyond reproach in any of these discussions regarding the state of black America.

 

[mamba]

But the next logical question is.....where are the black fathers?

Neither black women OR black men are beyond reproach in any of these discussions regarding the state of black America.

Oh? Do you mean those scumbag nikkas who those brehettes let skeet inside without a condom on?

Those nikkas who said they didn't want to be fathers in the first place, yet brehettes still kept it in case the nikka changed his mind?

Those nikkas who already had 2-3 kids they weren't supporting and had never married their mothers, yet she thought her p*ssy was enough to alter his reality?

Real Black fathers are in the home, raising their children.

Scumbag nikkas are where they should be: out doing scumbag shyt.

For some reason, a lot of brehettes thought they'd by on the Cosby tip.

Expect nikkas who never demonstrated father-like potential to be great fathers, brehettes.

 

[GiGi]

Oh? Do you mean those scumbag nikkas who those brehettes let skeet inside without a condom on?

Those nikkas who said they didn't want to be fathers in the first place, yet brehettes still kept it in case the nikka changed his mind?

Those nikkas who already had 2-3 kids they weren't supporting and had never married their mothers, yet she thought her p*ssy was enough to alter this reality?

Real Black fathers are in the home, raising their children.

Scumbag nikkas are where they should be: out doing scumbag shyt.

For some reason, a lot of brehettes thought they'd by on the Cosby tip.

Once again you are painting ALL black women with a very broad and ratchet brush. These are NOT the black women that I know so I can't relate to your perspective on the fallacies of black women.

Guys like yourself want to be viewed as individuals and not lumped in with the thugs, druggies, misogynists, inmates and deadbeats yet you deny black women the same courtesy. As long as that mentality persists there will always be a stalemate.

 

[mamba]

But the next logical question is.....where are the black fathers?

Neither black women OR black men are beyond reproach in any of these discussions regarding the state of black America.

Lil brehs also learn valuable lessons in treating women like shyt from the endless stream of nikkas their shytty mothers bring in and out the house to blow her back out on the regular.

Lil brehs either swing to two extemes. A) they become overprotective of their mother and women. One some real male feminist shyt. or B) they become like those nikkas they've seen coming and going.

 

[mamba]

Once again you are painting ALL black women with a very broad and ratchet brush. These are NOT the black women that I know so I can't relate to your perspective on the fallacies of black women.

Guys like yourself want to be viewed as individuals and not lumped in with the thugs, druggies, misogynists, inmates and deadbeats yet you deny black women the same courtesy. As long as that mentality persists there will always be a stalemate.

Brehette, you asked where the fathers are and I'm telling you where they are. Are we claiming that the vast majority of nikkas with a bunch of kids out of wedlock demonstrated great fatherly-like qualities when they skeeted in those brehettes raw?

Those nikkas were trifling before the first drop skeeted out. Fathers didn't abandon those kids. Trifling nikkas were never prepared to be fathers in the first place.

bytches want to lay up with them trifling ass nikkas and then throw them under the bus when they don't serve as great fathers! Those nikkas never indicated they were prepared to be great fathers.

If I know a used car salesman has a history of selling people lemons and I buy a car from him, knowing this information, do I blame the used car salesman or myself when my shyt also turns out to be a lemon?

 

[blackzeus]

Never rely on the media to paint black men in a positive light. They obviously have an agenda

This should close this thread, but unfortunately you know it wont.

These posts were from page 1, thread is 35 pages and still going

 

[GZR]

Brehettes always shyt on nikkas in the media. Can you imagine if Barack Obama had a white wife? That nikka would have gotten dragged in the media by Black women.

As a matter of fact, that nikka probably even wouldn't be President right now if he had a cac wife. Black brehettes would have been all on that "no good black men, white women taking all our good men" mess.

They didn't have a problem with Bill de Blasio's interracial relationship doe

 

[Midrash]

Almost every Black man with something positive going for himself has gotten the "you look like you probably date white women" line.

How is it up to us to ensure Black women stay in shape? They should want to stay in shape for their own health, breh.

I get that like a lot tbh but I just try and brush it off b/c there are dudes who act just like me who stan Beckys until no end. Ironically it's always the more urban cats who never really grew with with white people like that who obsess over white women.

I prefer to date black girls like this

I tend to stick with black girls that have that educated, well spoken, feminine, happy go lucky look. I want a wife material woman. I dated white girls before but they honestly are boring and plain to me since there is so many of them. They're not very exotic once you actually go your whole life growing up next to white people. Plus they are way too controlling on some slave plantation level which is weird. They think of you as a piece of meat to fukk, like a pet dog or something.

I think it's our responsibility about overweight women because 80% of black women are overweight or obese and these thirsty/dusty dudes keep giving them play. As Tariq Nasheed said, girls like Buffy the Body aren't thick but fat. These guys will keep pushing these fat women as the pinnicle of black beauty when we have so much more attractive, educated women to show the world and MOST importantly our brothas! Secretly, white dudes know black women are much more attractive and stay hot well into their 40s than their pastey, stringy haired, loud wives when black women aren't being forced to be fat, ghetto and ignorant. It's just that brothers don't know that which is why we have successful brothers chasing Becky.