Is there really a shortage of black men for black women to date/married? OR

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That's what a lot of these Black women don't get. Yeah, you want a man that makes X amount of money. You may find one who does. But, what is his true financial status? That nikka may also have X amount of debt, making his net worth a joke. One pink slip from being dead broke.

He's got the BMW, flashy clothes, etc. But, that nikka is rocking with $70K student loan debt, credit card debt, etc. Said Black woman is also bringing her own debt into the fold.

That's how a lot of these women get tricked. They fall for all the flash when, quite often, that nikka is living above his means. When it comes time to lay it all out on the table for marriage, that nikka doesn't look as attractive a long-term partner.
I'd say that's true for a lot of women (not just black) sans south and east Asian couples. Where the importance of saving and being frugal is instilled at a young age and embedded into most of their cultures.
 
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And many of these same men give women of other races a pass on the same characteristics for which they chide black women.

That's not true. Black women love to throw in the "he will not date a Black women with X, but he'll give a non-Black woman with X a pass."

Not true. They see nikkas with fat cac bytches and assume that nikka was dealing with skinny Black women before crossing over.

All that nikka could probably get were fat bytches. If he wasn't dating that fat cac, he'd probably be dating a fat Black.
 

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I'd make that true for a lot of women sans south and east Asian couples. Where the importance of saving and being frugal is instilled at a young age and embedded into most of their cultures.

That's a good point. When these "ballin'" Black women get on Nightline and other shyt, they need to ask them how much student loan, credit card debt they're rocking from all those degrees.
 

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That's not true. Black women love to throw in the "he will not date a Black women with X, but he'll give a non-Black woman with X a pass."

Not true. They see nikkas with fat cac bytches and assume that nikka was dealing with skinny Black women before crossing over.

All that nikka could probably get were fat bytches. If he wasn't dating that fat cac, he'd probably be dating a fat Black.


The point of my post goes deeper than just, "He dates fat white women". Black men often characterize non-black women as being more feminine or docile but I have seen black men in stores being nagged and verbally disrespected in public by their non-black partners. I have also seen this in my family with the non-black wives being money hungry, stealing money from the family business and sending it overseas to their family, etc. But black men tend to give non-black women a pass.
 
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The point of my post goes deeper than just, "He dates fat white women". Black men often characterize non-black women as being more feminine or docile but I have seen black men in stores being nagged and verbally disrespected in public by their non-black partners. I have also seen this in my family with the non-black wives being money hungry, stealing money from the family business and sending it overseas to their family, etc. But black men tend to give non-black women a pass.

Families disapprove all the time, if it's not race it's your job, if it's not your job it's your hobbies, sometimes they try to take over.
 

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The point of my post goes deeper than just, "He dates fat white women". Black men often characterize non-black women as being more feminine or docile but I have seen black men in stores being nagged and verbally disrespected in public by their non-black partners. I have also seen this in my family with the non-black wives being money hungry, stealing money from the family business and sending it overseas to their family, etc. But black men tend to give non-black women a pass.

Chances are, if that Black man is getting nagged and disrespected in public by a non-Black woman, he was probably getting the same treatment by Black women. He's just a weak man, in general. That nikka wasn't a strong man with Black women only to become a duck with non-Black women. That's not how it goes. A bytchmade nikka is a bytchmade nikka, irrespective of the woman he's with.

It sounds like you have a few bytchmade nikkas in your family tree.
 

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Chances are, if that Black man is getting nagged and disrespected in public by a non-Black woman, he was probably getting the same treatment by Black women. He's just a weak man, in general. That nikka wasn't a strong man with Black women only to become a duck with non-Black women. That's not how it goes. A bytchmade nikka is a bytchmade nikka, irrespective of the woman he's with.

It sounds like you have a few bytchmade nikkas in your family tree.

Not the older generation; they were strong and proud black men. Some of my cousins are obsessed with non-black women, though.
 

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Thread still going on?

Anyways the breh who brought up Hispanic women is pretty much on point, not only do Hispanic men make on Ave age or less than black men they're married at a higher clip and many of them are blue collar. The real issue is blacks have a complete lack of yogurt and torrid said something about this stating the black community has no code of ethics. He said one of the few places where there is code of ethics is the black church.

I can go to church and meet 5 sisters and all 5 will have similar traits with each other, most likely be very upfront with her wants and needs and that's actually a good thing.

That's one of the few places we have a code but the thing now I'd to get the younger generation bash the church so going forward the powers that be that don't care about blacks are gonna kill one of the few places in the black community that has a code of conduct.

Truth is Hispanics have code, this is why they tend to marry poor and stick it out, will the woman cheat? Probably will be that doesn't mean she knows where her bed is at and tends to go back to papi.

Asians, Jews, Hispanics all have code if you listen to that Donald sterling interview he dropped gems that every black person needs to listen to.
 

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The problem for black women is that...for some reason...they put black men in only 2 categories...

1. He don't make enough money...he don't got a nice enough car...he don't got a nice enough place...that nikka ain't shyt...I'm not even going to waste my time with him....

2. He got all the money...he got a nice car...he got a nice place...this is the black man I want...and this is the only black man I want...

Problem is...a dude in the number 2 category....can have any woman he wants...so why the fukk would he want you? A dude in this category will have a lot of women...from a lot of races...falling all over him...so...what exactly do you have that is going to put you above all these other women? Plus, a "successful" black man is a commodity now...and a very sought after commodity at that...their are plenty of women from other races who will look down on the black race...but a black man with money...nice big house...nice car...yeah them same women will be begging for that dude to turn their mouths into a nursery...for whatever reasons you want to make up in your head...

Even funnier...black women can't seem to understand...that most black men who get to category 2....started in category 1...when black women was shytting on them...and then poof...they just supposed to forget about that...nah...
These black women are out of their expecting black men to measure up to white men who have had advantage because of racism and slavery
 

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ITT: broke nikkas cryin

You're part of the problem, turn off bet.

These black women are out of their expecting black men to measure up to white men who have had advantage because of racism and slavery

This and they still don't see that, no one with sense really wants to fukk with black woman long term, even lots of white boys pump and dump.

You are part of the problem

He's part of the brainwashed crew watching too many rap videos and envying video hoes.
 

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You're part of the problem, turn off bet.



This and they still don't see that, no one with sense really wants to fukk with black woman long term, even lots of white boys pump and dump.



He's part of the brainwashed crew watching too many rap videos and envying video hoes.
U dont give a fukk huh. Just blatantly making it up as you go along huh. Prob aint had p*ssy in over a year huh.
 
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