I'd say that's true for a lot of women (not just black) sans south and east Asian couples. Where the importance of saving and being frugal is instilled at a young age and embedded into most of their cultures.That's what a lot of these Black women don't get. Yeah, you want a man that makes X amount of money. You may find one who does. But, what is his true financial status? That nikka may also have X amount of debt, making his net worth a joke. One pink slip from being dead broke.
He's got the BMW, flashy clothes, etc. But, that nikka is rocking with $70K student loan debt, credit card debt, etc. Said Black woman is also bringing her own debt into the fold.
That's how a lot of these women get tricked. They fall for all the flash when, quite often, that nikka is living above his means. When it comes time to lay it all out on the table for marriage, that nikka doesn't look as attractive a long-term partner.
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