Breh, you do realize that the romance angle is pretty much key to both characters. I know a lot of dudes on here hate that for some reason but for spider man in particular, ever since the first issue, romance has been big on Peter's list of things he wants in his life. Love sick is pretty much what he does. Stan Lee has said it on numerous occasions: He created a soap opera that would have a fight breakout every once in a while. He, and a lot of other writers, have always said that Peter Parker is the best part about writing Spider-Man and key to making a good spider man story.
And as far as superman, the romance with Lois or Lana is also key to him getting a better understanding of humanity and giving him something else to fight for and something else to protect. They aren't going to be "hard on hoes" like batman because batman is a character who thrives on isolation and trying to cut off any connection that could be a weakness to his work; he doesn't want a normal life; Peter and Clark try to maintain as much of a normal life as possible
The romance angle is so important they shoulda done a better job at casting a Lois that had chemistry with Superman
...you feel nothing cooking between the two no matter how many times he saves her,no matter how many times they looked into each other eyes. For one thing she looks too old as they cast a Superman who looks like a college student even though he's supposed to be 30 something...secondly Lois provides no comedic relief to even out Superman who is a absolute stiff and akward....which was cool with Chris Reeves becuz Lois was his opposite and they played well off each other.
Snappin Zods neck
...why couldn't that family run away?there was plenty of room,Supe couldn't have yelled out "move yo azz
"....theyd rather ALL huddle in a corner and cover up
...that death seemed so forced and uncreative,id rather Supe had just beat that nikka to death after he tried to kill his moms
....but nah that didn't make Superman mad enuff to kill
Clarks daddy
...if he could stand there with a Tornado on top of his azz and lovingly hold his hand up and not even blink,i don't see why Clark couldn't have ran out there and jogged away without anybody being the wiser
...I woulda assumed Pa Kent had some powers if I seen him standing there with a tornado on top of em smiling
Lois brings the police to Clarks house at some point while he's dressed as Superman,maybe that cop didn't put two and two together if he wasn't a local....I think they tried to give it a serious tone at times,or maybe the lack of jokes and who the director was did that and maybe all of the above....avengers was cartoonish and u don't mind the plotholes,lack of acting,corny moments....I think a lot of people was expecting the batman series type of story due to the tone the movie had...I think that's why the dialogue and plot holes in a movie about a dude flying around in a cape standout so much and get so much hate possibly. all that said it was a great Superman for the fact it showed Superman mmore powerful than any other movie has and had the action