I am now single man, its been a minute, how's the dating scene

[Who Not How]

It's bad in Raleigh too. I'm 14 months single, in a city full of fine ass women. The dating scene is just garbage...

I echo these brehs sentiments as far as the dating market these days. I just deleted hinge last week, taking a nice hiatus. shyt is mundane. The getting to know someone new over and over again only for it to flame out in 2 weeks. The juice ain’t worth the squeeze. Women are flighty and skittish looking for any reason to tuck tail and run to other options. Alot of damaged women out here that haven’t done the necessary work to heal themselves that take their cues on how to date from podcasts and social media commentary. Especially the older you are. Yeah you can find sex easily but if you are looking for a wife…

I always encourage brehs to work it out with their lady if there’s minor issues to address and the love /attraction is still there. Like one breh said the grass ain’t greener on the other side. Good luck finding a woman you’re attracted to AND is wifey material. In my experience it’s either one or the other and if she’s both she’s already taken by a breh that’s smart enough not to fukk it up.

Time to brush the dust off those passports and take a flight to more vibrant dating scenes playas.

I was back in my old city last year, hopped on a dating app real quick and saw the same women I seen back in the mid 2010s except they older and fatter.....they just getting recycled, nobody locking them down.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Time to brush the dust off those passports and take a flight to more vibrant dating scenes playas.

I was back in my old city last year, hopped on a dating app real quick and saw the same women I seen back in the mid 2010s except they older and fatter.....they just getting recycled, nobody locking them down.

It’s this one white chick that matches with me EVERY time I’m on either bumble or hinge. We exchange numbers but she literally ghost after a brief text exchange. This has been over the course of 2 years

I’ll get on dating apps for a week just to see what’s happening and then delete for 6 months then get back on. I’ll see the same girls and they’ll match with me again. It’s like they deal with so many dudes they don’t even remember matching with me then flaking. At this point I match them just to troll. It’s like the movie Groundhog Day. BIG TRASH OUT HERE.

 

[Who Not How]

It’s this one white chick that matches with me EVERY time I’m on either bumble or hinge. We exchange numbers but she literally ghost after a brief text exchange. This has been over the course of 2 years

I’ll get on dating apps for a week just to see what’s happening and then delete for 6 months then get back on. I’ll see the same girls and they’ll match with me again. It’s like they deal with so many dudes they don’t even remember matching with me then flaking. At this point I match them just to troll. It’s like the movie Groundhog Day. BIG TRASH OUT HERE.

Dawg the exact same thing happened with me over several years.
I'd match with the same chicks over 5-6 years but I'd never message them cuz I'm just swiping on everything

I had this one chick who would Super Like me every time and I never messaged her lol

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Dawg the exact same thing happened with me over several years.
I'd match with the same chicks over 5-6 years but I'd never message them cuz I'm just swiping on everything

I had this one chick who would Super Like me every time and I never messaged her lol

Breh

All these chicks movin the same. They under a spell.

 

[Space Cowboy]

Bro this thread got me to reach out to the woman that walked away from me. I refused to reach out on the pretense of looking weak but I have to try.

Sending her a text in the AM to see how she's doing. If she answers, cool. If not, I tried. But I gotta make it work.

 

[the bossman]

Pretty much set and in stone now and it all comes to down to my GF thinking I am wasting her time . Her biggest issue is that she feels like I don't set personal goals. Marriage, kids and home buying. To her things have to be perfect on her time.

We almost broke in January because we had a rough past six month, from moving to shyt that were said because she thought I cheated ( I have never cheated and have had p*ssy handed to me on a silver platter and I have said no. The moment we patch shyt up through couples therapy she started pressing marriage 100 mile per hour.

I do want to get married and have kids but I don't like pressure. I was going to do it this year for sure after our rough patch. Despite our differences, she is not a bad woman. There are qualities I look for in a woman such is this woman the type that will be by your side when health issues come up. Kid raising but sometimes she just worries too much about life while I am a carefree guy.

I don't subscribe to GMB lifestyle, we are getting old...lol dont have much time nor do I plan on dating any woman under 30,

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/is-moving-for-a-woman-worth-it-or-should-i-end-this-chapter-of-my-life.985696

Is this the same girl who forced the ultimatum on you last year?

 

[Who Not How]

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/is-moving-for-a-woman-worth-it-or-should-i-end-this-chapter-of-my-life.985696

Is this the same girl who forced the ultimatum on you last year?

I take back what I said in this thread about getting back with her...yall are not compatible....OP needs to just do him...I don't think he's ready for marriage at all just based off him letting this woman run the show. He would be miserable as a husband, I can see the future divorce.

OP, make sure you get a prenup if you ever decide to marry. You said you want financial freedom (smart move) so don't let a woman delay that dream by breaking your pockets if a divorce happens. Get her to sign at least 6 months in advance.

 

[OfTheCross]

Naw, I am a legit six cert brehs and over six feet too. She makes over six figure herself. Money isn't the issue. I am just an extremely care free dude. I will marry and have kids but I'm not the type to go 100 mile per hour for any woman.

As a matter fact she complains a lot because I'm always so focused on career goals and now investments. She says I'm way too money driven when really I just want financial freedom. She says I have trust issues when it comes to money which I do but not with her since she makes her own.

100 MPH? Aren't you guys over 30 and been dating for years?

Get to it

 

[Serious]

100 MPH? Aren't you guys over 30 and been dating for years?

Get to it

Breh you still ain’t married

 

[peppe]

at 36 dating scene is trash.

Just get your nut off and enjoy single life. I can't do it, all these useless conversations.

Was together for 13 years, i'm not build for this bs. All these women using filters and angles and shyt. Most of them damaged with kids.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I echo these brehs sentiments as far as the dating market these days. I just deleted hinge last week, taking a nice hiatus. shyt is mundane. The getting to know someone new over and over again only for it to flame out in 2 weeks. The juice ain’t worth the squeeze. Women are flighty and skittish looking for any reason to tuck tail and run to other options. Alot of damaged women out here that haven’t done the necessary work to heal themselves that take their cues on how to date from podcasts and social media commentary. Especially the older you are. Yeah you can find sex easily but if you are looking for a wife…

I always encourage brehs to work it out with their lady if there’s minor issues to address and the love /attraction is still there. Like one breh said the grass ain’t greener on the other side. Good luck finding a woman you’re attracted to AND is wifey material. In my experience it’s either one or the other and if she’s both she’s already taken by a breh that’s smart enough not to fukk it up.

Usally if a woman is over 25 on apps and not in the context of “hooking up” its a reason she single.

Women are more social then men “on avg” so for her to live all these years yet no men in proximity of her want to comment this she runs to apps with demands thats a red flag.

If youve been around actual kind hearted women you know dudes in proximity are knocking down her door.

 

[Apollo Creed]

at 36 dating scene is trash.

Just get your nut off and enjoy single life. I can't do it, all these useless conversations.

Was together for 13 years, i'm not build for this bs. All these women using filters and angles and shyt. Most of them damaged with kids.

They call em left over women for a reason lol.

Unfortunately if you are black the institutions where you would find non washed marriage minded women are on life support

 

[ItzRailT]

Dating market cooked bruh it nothing out here but old bitter hags, fat single mothers and hella broke women .

If she’s a good woman you should sleep on this and maybe try one last time to patch things up.

 

[The ADD]

I echo these brehs sentiments as far as the dating market these days. I just deleted hinge last week, taking a nice hiatus. shyt is mundane. The getting to know someone new over and over again only for it to flame out in 2 weeks. The juice ain’t worth the squeeze. Women are flighty and skittish looking for any reason to tuck tail and run to other options. Alot of damaged women out here that haven’t done the necessary work to heal themselves that take their cues on how to date from podcasts and social media commentary. Especially the older you are. Yeah you can find sex easily but if you are looking for a wife…

I always encourage brehs to work it out with their lady if there’s minor issues to address and the love /attraction is still there. Like one breh said the grass ain’t greener on the other side. Good luck finding a woman you’re attracted to AND is wifey material. In my experience it’s either one or the other and if she’s both she’s already taken by a breh that’s smart enough not to fukk it up.

You living the dream, don’t be ungrateful

 

[The ADD]

at 36 dating scene is trash.

Just get your nut off and enjoy single life. I can't do it, all these useless conversations.

Was together for 13 years, i'm not build for this bs. All these women using filters and angles and shyt. Most of them damaged with kids.

Divorced?