Does A Woman's Bodycount Affect The Happiness Of Marriage, Expert Says Yes It Does

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Ouch, lol.


Haha. Naw, she had a kid in high school and never had custody of the kid when they split when the boy was 6.


She just got out of a 7 year marriage to an insecure mexican guy who basically imprisoned her (so her trauma's of being controlled under domestic authoritarian rule for the majority of those 7 years means she still has a lot to unpack, divorce was finalized in March and I met her in June... so you can see that it's still fresh for her).


Funny this thread came up... cuz we finally had the discussion of where we stand (and i fell in love with her).


Said she wasn't able to give me what i deserve, relationship wise, because she's currently working on her.



Man... i was crushed.



Or rather. Am. (She disclosed this last night).




First heartbreak post pandemic. You'd think I'd be too old for this and I should be more cognizant/empathetic of her predicament. But ouch, it still stings heavy. Yellow Hornet sting.




Heartache is like equal housing lenders: doesn't discriminate.




Get friendzoned at 40 years old, frehs (frie



But...

Spoiler

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I feel for you breh. Heartbreak is a bytch as I just recovered from a 4 year relationship that ended last October. Time heals breh.

With that being said you set yourself up for this L

At 40 breh you should’ve known to keep your feelings at bay (I know easier said than done) with a woman that just got out of a traumatic marriage of 7 years. Especially after meeting her so soon after the divorce. Wasn’t no way she was gonna be in love in two months after all of that and if she told you she was you would’ve just been the rebound (kinda already was unfortunately)

You’ll bounce back breh. Move forward and learn from this situation. Wish you well breh

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

In my experience women with high body counts love falling in lust. That’s the thrill they’re seeking and once that lust diminishes with whomever last supplied it, they’re searching for that high again. I think it has less to do with comparing and more to do with the chemical response their bodies give them when they get butterflies from a new dude. It’s like any other addiction.

They have a self serving outlook on relationships and seek immediate gratification over delayed gratification and a mutually beneficial partnership.

That’s from my experience though. I never tried to settle down with them, but knowing them well enough to make judgments on their pasts, that’s what I gathered. It was enough for me to know not to stick around for long because I was just the latest dikk for them to ride and nothing more.

 

[RareHunter]

Social Anxiety/Socially Awkward

I am 36 years old and am broke and live with my mother. Only make 10 dollars an hour part time at a restaurant.

Am obese.

@RareHunter

Even if you were 24, your chances would be almost zero in the west. The best thing would be to focus on The Most High. That said you could travel somewhere that would be better, but the world is too modernized to ever get a virgin anymore.

As for weight there is no secret except consistency/a bit of discipline. 3-6 months of just meat and green veggies would do wonders. I got up to 250 during pandemic and am now at 218. I’m still going strong after a standstill. I wanna get to like 190-200.

At 36 def do some resistance training to halt aging. Maybe job hunt to give yourself a raise breh. Work a lil extra on Sundays. (Don’t work Sabbaths, Keep the Sabbath Holy). It’s a spiritual battle out here. You gotta get in position to take care of a women tho, so you don’t destroy her. That said it’s unfortuante so many get tainted by the culture and casual sex. Considering the times we are in, don’t really know if it’s really viable at the moment.

Matthew 6:33
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you

Take some of these matters to The Most High as well. Ask him to make you a righteous man. You may be under the attack of feminine spirits. It’s an issue, due to how the west purposely inverts things.

It’s tuff out here for good men, because in the lasts days good will be called evil and evil good. Virginity is a crime in the west. It’s alot of brehs in this position.

Also repent and read scripture. Pray and fast. Anxiety is demonic oppression. A doorway was opened some sort of way, whether by excessive fear, porn, ect… You can brake it tho. I never thought I could stop lusting but he has helped hold strong each and everyday. It’s a struggle, but we gotta build our armour and sharpen our swords.

 

[maxamusa]

not clicking that Byrd babble.... but imaging marrying the chick you lost your virginity too or only had a couple....I'd be suicidal

 

[RareHunter]

not clicking that Byrd babble.... but imaging marrying the chick you lost your virginity too or only had a couple....I'd be suicidal

Pathetic

 

[Unfiltered]

Pretty accurate. This casual sex culture is very unnatural, even for men.

true if you ever tricked before you'll see that she's not lying. when you bust a nut and a chick immediately gets up and leaves it hurts a man pride.

men still got that old way of thinking modern women don't get this.

 

[Dave24]

@RareHunter what do you do for a career/job? Are you financially successful and make a lot of money?

 

[Unfiltered]

Pretty accurate. This casual sex culture is very unnatural, even for men.

true if you ever tricked before you'll see that she's not lying. when you bust a nut and a chick immediately gets up and leaves it hurts a man pride.

Social Anxiety/Socially Awkward

I am 36 years old and am broke and live with my mother. Only make 10 dollars an hour part time at a restaurant.

Am obese.

@RareHunter

I've been following your post for a while a not too long time ago you were 30 living with mom now you're 36? dude if you just here to troll dude just stop people got issues in real life and it don't come on here talking duck tales. I'm older than you and been down on my luck for years but I told you years back just become a security guard and rent a room somewhere you in GA you can pull something and make more money. at least with overtime at 13 a hour you can find a spot and livesome normal life.

planet fitness is 10 a month the park is free to walk and lose weight.

 

[Unfiltered]

truth is times are different every girl got some bodies on her it's just life stop looking for porn looking broads ad get regular women.

we can complain all day but it's not gonna change we can't force women to succumb to our will it's life. work on self and don't it. my boy got a chick he happy but she got like 5 kids but let him do him if he's happy. people going crazy from isolation, cheap liquor and processed foods is killing us.

 

[Low End Derrick]

Social Anxiety/Socially Awkward

I am 36 years old and am broke and live with my mother. Only make 10 dollars an hour part time at a restaurant.

Am obese.

@RareHunter

All the thirsting and salivation in the Rubi Rose thread now makes sense. Good luck to you, my brother.

 

[Low End Derrick]

Body count doesn't matter.

What matters is being evenly yoked on body count.

If a breh has smashed 8 women, and a broad has smashed 8 dudes....and both have similar levels/quality of relationship experience, they're probably good.

If a dude has smashed 8 broads and a broad has smashed 80 dudes, that life experience difference might be too much. A dude that has fukked a lot of broads can handle an "experienced" woman because they both have explored all that freaky shyt.

Works in reverse too. A dude with 500 bodies is probably gonna get bored of a virgin chick. He might like the ego boost of getting untouched trim but if dude is used to wild shyt, it might be too slow for him.

2 bodies = she either wants to sow her oats or had a STRONG connection with her ex and settled for a breh that just ain't hitting right (might also just lack relationship experience).

10+ dudes = might struggle choosing the right men in general...or just prefers to smash different people. Some broads will have a man that is their soul mate but they just like fukking different dudes. Like how a man can love a woman but still have 50-11 side heauxs and not have any feelings for them.

What part of the game is this?

 

[RareHunter]

truth is times are different every girl got some bodies on her it's just life stop looking for porn looking broads ad get regular women.

we can complain all day but it's not gonna change we can't force women to succumb to our will it's life. work on self and don't it. my boy got a chick he happy but she got like 5 kids but let him do him if he's happy. people going crazy from isolation, cheap liquor and processed foods is killing us.

Naw he wildin

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Right!

Like why the fukk should we ever discuss her views on this forum

I've never heard of this bih but I'm wondering why in the world op called her an expert lol

 

[broller]

No such thing as casual sex everything comes with a price.

"Everything's got a price. Everyone's gonna pay."

 

[CrushedGroove]

Luckily every girl I been with told me I was the only one they ever been with. This sounds like a y'all problem, not a ME problem.