Does A Woman's Bodycount Affect The Happiness Of Marriage, Expert Says Yes It Does

[Prince.Skeletor]

Luckily every girl I been with told me I was the only one they ever been with.

 

[FishNGrits]

Luckily every girl I been with told me I was the only one they ever been with. This sounds like a y'all problem, not a ME problem.

AHAHAHAHAHAAAAAS

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Social Anxiety/Socially Awkward

I am 36 years old and am broke and live with my mother. Only make 10 dollars an hour part time at a restaurant.

Am obese.

@RareHunter

 

[RareHunter]

@RareHunter what do you do for a career/job? Are you financially successful and make a lot of money?

I had to leave for principles reasons. I hated it any way. That’s why I say seek The Most High. Had I done that, I never would’ve ended up wasting my time doing something I had to end up leaving anyways. Also quit porn if you can. It drains you and blackens your soul. It can also makes you lose empathy after a while. It’s a process but pray and fast.

 

[maxamusa]

Pathetic

You say pathetic...I would say depressed and deprived

 

[Gloxina]

My very first girl cheated on me. We were high school sweethearts. And I swear to god I’ve never been the same after that. I understand where your ex wife is coming from. You were her first ever, apparently. You shattered her in ways you couldn’t understand and believe.

I’m 99.99% sure if you hadn’t cheat on her, she wouldn’t have stepped out, and y’all would still be happily married today.

This is the thing that people don’t want to address.
Most women aren’t actually ok with knowing their man stepped out and “well, he’s a man, boys will be boys, he made a mistake— but you can’t!”

She never let that shyt go, because it’s different when your first love, your first everything, breaks your heart. They literally break you.

If she were thinking logically, she might not have done it, since she was already in the marriage. Or, the really smart women get their get back without ever getting caught.

 

[Gloxina]

And why is there always a bunch of black people surrounding her? This shyt is weird as hell.

THANK YOU!!

How are people this ignorant? This random white girl pops up out of nowhere with a bunch of Black guests, shyting on the Black female guests and talking about how slave masters weren’t that bad in front of Black male guests, and everyone keeps showing up like this broad has pure intentions.

So many of our people are LOST.

 

[Gloxina]

I think the point is, when you have less to compare your partner to, you don’t know what is good/bad and your frame of reference is literally your partner.

So yea, if a woman has had multiple lovers and then the man she marries is a dud compared to her ex who had her climbing the walls…she’s going to be craving that experience again. If you’ve only been with one person, even if he’s pretty bad, you might not realize how bad because you have no one to compare him to.

 

[Serious]

I think the point is, when you have less to compare your partner to, you don’t know what is good/bad and your frame of reference is literally your partner.

So yea, if a woman has had multiple lovers and then the man she marries is a dud compared to her ex who had her climbing the walls…she’s going to be craving that experience again. If you’ve only been with one person, even if he’s pretty bad, you might not realize how bad because you have no one to compare him to.

If you get this logic, then you understand why some dudes want virgins.

 

[Gloxina]

If you get this logic, then you understand why some dudes want virgins.

Totally understand!

Now, if you’re the kind of guy who can make a woman climb walls, you might not be as concerned about that because you have effectively wowed all of your partners.

Multiple variables at play…

 

[maxamusa]

I had to leave for principles reasons. I hated it any way. That’s why I say seek The Most High. Had I done that, I never would’ve ended up wasting my time doing something I had to end up leaving anyways. Also quit porn if you can. It drains you and blackens your soul. It can also makes you lose empathy after a while. It’s a process but pray and fast.

PORN MADE YOU LOSE EMPATHY!? SICKO MODE X1000000...ARE YOU HUMAN!?

 

[RareHunter]

PORN MADE YOU LOSE EMPATHY!? SICKO MODE X1000000...ARE YOU HUMAN!?

I said it can. I never said me.

 

[RareHunter]

Totally understand!

Now, if you’re the kind of guy who can make a woman climb walls, you might not be as concerned about that because you have effectively wowed all of your partners.

Multiple variables at play…

I had no idea the purpose of marriage was to climb walls. You never hear love or duty anymore. These heathens rulers have truly ruined so many minds.

 

[Gloxina]

I had no idea the purpose of marriage was to climb walls. You never hear love or duty anymore. These heathens rulers have truly ruined so many minds.

SIR


No one said that was the purpose of marriage.

My word, some of y’all can really take things a step too far.

Of course that’s not the purpose of marriage. We are talking about why having multiple partners can lead to divorce. If you as a woman have had a lover(s) in the past who were…talented, and you marry a man who leaves you underwhelmed in the bedroom, YEA he may be satisfied but years of that will weigh on any woman.

And if you as a man have slept with a woman(women) who knew how to satisfy you, and you marry and attempt to be completely faithful to a woman who has no clue how to satisfy you and never learns, you will most likely step out (and that works for y’all because society completely expects and excuses it when y’all do).

If you both walk in with a clean slate, you have no one to compare your partner to, and you learn and explore together.
If you’re both experienced, then hopefully you can figure out how to please each other.


Why are we acting like married couples shouldn’t enjoy sex and yearn to please each other? Like there aren’t plenty of married men dealing with side chicks, prostitutes, watching porn, having outside children, etc? <— Yes, if I as a married woman have to deal with the possibility of all that, I need to enjoy our sex life.

There’s a damn thread on the first page of TLR with a married man getting arrested for soliciting a prostitute on his HONEYMOON!!! Lmao

Stop acting like sex isn’t a thing.

 

[RareHunter]

SIR


No one said that was the purpose of marriage.

My word, some of y’all can really take things a step too far.

Of course that’s not the purpose of marriage. We are talking about why having multiple partners can lead to divorce. If you as a woman have had a lover(s) in the past who were…talented, and you marry a man who leaves you underwhelmed in the bedroom, YEA he may be satisfied but years of that will weigh on any woman.

And if you as a man have slept with a woman(women) who knew how to satisfy you, and you marry and attempt to be completely faithful to a woman who has no clue how to satisfy you and never learns, you will most likely step out (and that works for y’all because society completely expects and excuses it when y’all do).

If you both walk in with a clean slate, you have no one to compare your partner to, and you learn and explore together.
If you’re both experienced, then hopefully you can figure out how to please each other.


Why are we acting like married couples shouldn’t enjoy sex and yearn to please each other? Like there aren’t plenty of married men dealing with side chicks, prostitutes, watching porn, having outside children, etc? <— Yes, if I as a married woman have to deal with the possibility of all that, I need to enjoy our sex life.

There’s a damn thread on the first page of TLR with a married man getting arrested for soliciting a prostitute on his HONEYMOON!!! Lmao

Stop acting like sex isn’t a thing.

Idk. I just feel like everything has gotten to sexualized and objectifying. Outlook looks bleak if this keeps us. Where is the love?