But that's the thing, I do dress well, clean, and don't act "weak". The only thing I can think of is that I do have a "nice guy" image and perhaps that's the problem. But how do I shed that, just start being an a$$hole?. That's dumb.
I'm in shape. I'm not ripped crazy, but I'm better than most white guys walking around.
I cooked this for a girl I was getting close with, and she never even showed up. I texted her the same night and asked if she was still coming to supper, she said nothing. I texted her two days later asking if she was okay, and she told me that her not responding, meant she wanted to be left alone. It makes no sense.
I cook *very* well, joke around and have my shyt together. I don't get it.