Dating white girls...

[ICC]

Well that's your problem. You think kinky hair and dark skin is unattractive. Therefore your inner game is already shyt because you think less of yourself. When you find black women unattractive you're holding a mirror up to yourself. Men who love themselves are very attractive to women of ANY RACE. When you find yourself ugly, why be surprised when other people do to?

Yeah, you're probably right about self love. And I don't find black women unattractive, that'd be dumb. I find myself simply around more white women and interact with them more. That doesn't mean I'll write off black women. Touching on the topic of self love again though, many, many people hate themselves and are consumed by their insecurities. That doesn't stop them being loved by others. There are many couples whereby one of them is depressed, insecure, clingy, distant, violent, etc. And they keep pulling people in. There's more to it than self love . What about the people who overeat? Do heavy drugs? Under eat? Etc. That's not loving yourself.

 

[_Anghellic_]

Yeah, you're probably right about self love. And I don't find black women unattractive, that'd be dumb. I find myself simply around more white women and interact with them more. That doesn't mean I'll write off black women. Touching on the topic of self love again though, many, many people hate themselves and are consumed by their insecurities. That doesn't stop them being loved by others. There are many couples whereby one of them is depressed, insecure, clingy, distant, violent, etc. And they keep pulling people in. There's more to it than self love.

That works for women, specifically because it's easier for them to get laid. For men though it doesn't work simply based off the fact that we have to put more work in to get laid compared to women.

 

[ICC]

That works for women, specifically because it's easier for them to get laid. For men though it doesn't work simply based off the fact that we have to put more work in to get laid compared to women.

I personally don't see that at all. I don't know everyone's finances, but some of the couples I see are flying in the face of your words. I guess the question is this: is love a real thing? Unconditional and non judgemental love?

 

[_Anghellic_]

I personally don't see that at all. I don't know everyone's finances, but some of the couples I see are flying in the face of your words. I guess the question is this: is love a real thing? Unconditional and non judgemental love?

Just focus on attraction and sex first. You never put your heart and feelings out there first as a man. Only worry about that until the girl invest her feelings and love into you first.

 

[ICC]

Just focus on attraction and sex first. You never put your heart and feelings out there first as a man. Only worry about that until the girl invest her feelings and love into you first.

Okay. Thanks for the advice guys, I appreciate it. I'll mull it over seriously and see where I go from here than. It just feels like I've been lied to my entire life about what women want, and what makes a good partner. I feel "guilty" at times for thinking a girl is hot and then wanting to approach her because of that.

 

[Midrash]

You can pull white chicks but first off you gotta stop with all the herb "Does she love me?" bullshyt. I know this Nigerian guy who's chill AF, masculine, intelligent and he has no problem dating attractive, in shape, college educated white women with professional careers. (His fiance now is white.) This is in a somewhat small southern city that is surrounded by rural area.

It's all about that confidence.(Having a good job helps too)

I'm not saying you have to be a jerk or rude but you have to be confident and fun like girls should be impressed for getting a chance to kick rocks WITH YOU. I use that strategy to pull bytches after the "nice guy" angle failed me several times over.

Also make sure you can make the girl have a good time, laugh, etc. I'm not the most attractive cat on the block but I pulled straight dimes by simply being funny and making women laugh. Luckily for us women aren't as shallow as men so they get off between the eyes more so than the eyes. Make sure you work out and stuff so you don't turn status but use your confidence and words to your advantage to pull white chicks.

A helpful tip, make sure you got some guap like you support yourself financially or else you will only attract fat white chicks.

 

[_Anghellic_]

Plenty of brehs think just like this dude.
I came up with those same numbers though and posted them several times, but the brehs said I was hating.
Funny how the brehs make a point to state that most white men don't want black women and black women need to come to terms with this. If you apply the same statistic, black women who are interested in white men are doing just fine.

you jus ethered the whole Locker room!

 

[egobiggs]

I found thecoli because some other forum was posting the smilies from here, and I thought they were funny. I dunno, I do try to please people I guess. Because I'm afraid of stepping on toes and people thinking I'm a jerk. This honestly stems from race though, because I've learned from a young age that I'll get punished worse for doing the same things. I'm acutely aware of my image to a fault.

Stop lurking white forums

I've been lurking white websites for a few years now and I'm completely fukked up in the head now when it comes to self image and race

 

[Ghost Utmost]

If you're approaching 10s and failing every time try approaching a 6. There is someone around there who would love to bang you, you are just overlooking them chasing your dreamgirls.

 

[J-Fire]

Go out to do something first! you skipped a step there.

Go to a restaurant that is casual and then go to a sports game or casino or dave&busters. Be friends and throw in some flirts overt txt messages afterwards to make sure you don't fall in the friend zone.

granted in my college experiences lot of white women need you to be blacked out before you are worth their time cause they want something different from the norm. White women on avg damn near hated me when I was on the beer pong tables, flip cup, keg parties etc. white women like the black guy that rolls up into the frat dancing/showing rhythm and almost not feeling white people...it's weird! Getting caught up in "white people fun" gets you no white chicks and you just the fun black guy to party with and not hook up with.

 

[Lord Brehlinger]

Go suck ya muda. All that talk behind a key board. You would not say that shyt in real life you p*ssy bwoy. I love how key board warriors talk shyt, but won't do noting about. Just suck ya muda u skunt. Self hating wastemon. Talk shyt to other black people from the islands, but call yourself pro-black, FOH.

By the way hold this neg.


You actually think @egobiggs is black.

 

[Costanza]

Im from Canada too so ive dated alot of white girls... but your issue really has nothing to do with race... you need to get that first little relationship just so u have that scent of having a girl/p*ssy on you... its weird but chicks can detect when u are too excited by them...

pof.com my friend... thats the answer go on a couple dates with a younger chick or some single mom... get ur game up...

 

[Mr.bocario]

The current girl that I'm talking about, that shyt is dead and buried though right? I can't do anything to get her back after my blunders?

My dude a girl blantanly disrespected you by not showing up to a dinner you cooked for her and you're worried about getting her back

I'm not saying you have to walk around like your God's gift to women( although it would help). But you've gotta start valuing what you bring to the table, because whether you know it or not its a lot.

 

[Hyperion]

Okay. Thanks for the advice guys, I appreciate it. I'll mull it over seriously and see where I go from here than. It just feels like I've been lied to my entire life about what women want, and what makes a good partner. I feel "guilty" at times for thinking a girl is hot and then wanting to approach her because of that.

Looks like the #GMB (Get Married Brehs) fam might land a new member soon.


Look breh. Going off your pictures, you're not flabby and sick. (no homo) You also seem to be able to put a good dish together and can decorate a dinner table quite nicely. You also said that you like to cook for people. Are you pursuing a culinary profession? If so, that might be a good thing for you. That way, you can do what you love for a bunch of other people AND you find value in yourself because you know you can do a great job. Follow what you love doing, and everything will follow.

I would suggest reading the Quick Lil Gems on Dealing With Women thread. There's numerous gems being dropped, and you will definitely grow from reading it. Your mental state will change. Your belief system will shatter and it's gonna be scary for a little bit, but you'll be fine. Cause these girls are straight disrespecting you. Part of it is your fault because you allow it to happen, cause people don't test your patience if they know you wouldn't put up with it. So build value in yourself and stop letting people shyt on you. You can do this.

Stop lurking white forums

I've been lurking white websites for a few years now and I'm completely fukked up in the head now when it comes to self image and race

Rest in Peace, breh.

 

[Draje]

all i'm saying is op shouldn't have a problem dating only because he is black in a predominantly white environment. from my experience, it was a bonus, to the point where i almost never had to approach woman, because they approached me.

And I'm saying your anecdotal evidence doesn't overpower the statistics and that exceptions are just that.

Some people survive bullets to the dome but that doesn't mean that a gunshot to the head isn't usually synonymous with death.

If you're approaching 10s and failing every time try approaching a 6. There is someone around there who would love to bang you, you are just overlooking them chasing your dreamgirls.

This literally spoke to me.