A man who loves himself has no rivals
"Every mans home is his castle"
Stop comparing yourself to others, there's only one you. This is where you fail, comparing yourself and seeking validation.
Having a gf means nothing, especially if you seek to have one to validate that your ok. Because all that will happen is when you break up, you'd be further in the pits . the key is to draw yourself out of the pits, where you view yourself highly, if you have a gf cool, if not cool as well.
Its like nes double dragon IMA play and beat this game , but if my friend wants to play as well and help me beat it cool, if not IMA enjoy it regardless
That's how life should be, regardless if no one is by your side your going to enjoy it and love it and if someone is cool.
Its not all peachy having a gf, get that romantic comedy mindset out first, and writing poems? Your going to get swindled and killed in the dating game of today
You don't get any girl to be with you, games and seal tricks are for suckers. Be confident, dress well, go out and have a,positive attitude
Maybe your looking in the wrong areas, try church and local meetups or local church single groups.
This is the hookup generation, where women have a gaggle of men and don't really want commitment from one
You need to shed the nice guy woe is me image, and all women will like you for something, whether your skin tone, your status, your money, your car, your desirability, your heart.
A women will never complete you breh, never
I don't have a 24 hour job. I work evenings because I'm a student like I said. Anyways. if that's confidence, then I'll admit that:
A) I often think that I'm not "good enough" compared to white guys. That it's "unfair", childish? Maybe. But it's the truth.
B) I often feel that my inability to get a girlfriend, means that there is something wrong with me and so sometimes I try hard with girls. Perhaps scaring them off?
On the other hand, when I fail with a girl, I usually just say "Back to work and studying" and just do that and hang out with friends. I don't "need" a girlfriend and in the last two years, I've stopped actively looking for one. It's just the companionship with someone that you can do more with than your guy and girl friends would be nice.
You guys might crucify me for this, but I wrote this current girl a poem. I know, I know. "simp". I admit it, it was absolutely embarrassing looking back on it. But I thought it would win her over. God, I'm an idiot sometimes. Look, I don't want to dwell on my failures anymore. It's actively painful thinking about some of the dumb shyt I've done. I just want to know from you guys with experience, be it black, white, asian, whatever girls. How do you approach a girl that you like and get them to go out with you? I realize that even the best of you don't win 100% of the time and that there are many factors, but what is the general advice?
I was raised in a very strict African household and my idea of sex and dating seems to be different from some of you. I like to take things slow and really know a girl before doing anything. The first girl I dated, we didn't kiss or anything for 3 months. I don't care about sex, Tinder, etc. Because I know some girls like me like that, and only for that. But I don't hang with those girls, because I want to be loved, not some toy or a tick for a bunch of white girls to mark as having "done that". I think that's what I failed to get across. I hang out with all sorts of girls, and the talk is often sexual and flirtatious, but a lot of those girls sleep around a lot, and want me just for sex. I know this, because there's been many situations where a girl has been over or I'm at her house or a party, and ended up making out, but with me always bailing. I want something more, that's the problem. I don't want to be a toy for anyone, especially white chicks.
And on second thought, I'm not going to post a picture. Hate if you want, but I'm very selective of tying physical things on the internet. I don't want someone to read this and know this aspect of my life.
since when are white woman not into black man? almost all white woman get off on the idea of black dikk. a lot of them might not want to have you meet their parents but they sure as hell are curious what that bbc life is about. some of these cacettes hit you with the
to the point you feel fetishized
