Y'all REALLY don't wanna get married brehs?

[Elle Driver]

Marriage is a choice.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I would love to eventually get married since I come from a two parent home, but I’m in my early 30’s now and it’s real slim pickings if you only looking to marry a black women. I don’t date interracially because I don’t need those problems in my life but black women my age always seem to have something.


It’s getting depressing out here.

 

[Astroslik]

The divorce rate us less than 40% and falling. If you can't get that basic fact right I can only imagine how much other shyt you are just making up.

People shouldn't get married if they don't want to. But when you make up lies to try to convince other people to hate marriage as much as you do, that says more about what's wrong with you than what's wrong with marriage.

Divorce rates are going down because marriages are DECREASING.

What Is the U.S. Divorce Rate? - The Divorce Rate in the United States Has Been Dropping for Years

nikkas like you who take random stats at face value are intellectually dangerous.

If you’re going to use female shaming tactics to shame brehs who don’t want to get married, Atleast understand the underlying variables to statistics you’re using. You nikkas that pander for female validation and daps+rep really can’t see the forest through the trees

 

[CrushedGroove]

It's a crash course in politics. Make you learn to debate and compromise to get what both of you ultimately want.
Forces you to lead or sink
Helps you understand voices outside of your own
Can be humbling

I personally have become better than I was because of it but understand why it's not for everyone.

 

[Verbal Kint]

There is literally no benefit to marriage for a man. And whenever you ask someone to name one, they start deflecting and calling you bitter. A man is at risk to lose most of his assets in divorce. And the divorce rate is nearly 60%. You wouldn’t take those odds in Vegas after a whole bottle of gin and a bump of coke. Any man who gets married in 2020 is a fool. I don’t know of any other way to phrase it. Outdated, antiquated institution that’s reserved for women, simps, and homosexuals

Ole soft nikka talking about simps and he goes searching my profile page to return a neg like a 9 year old

 

[Silky Johnson]

Why is it that damn near EVERYONE who was once married but now divorced, say they will NEVER remarry?

For the same reasons dudes stop gambling after losing their life savings on a bad bet.

You have to invest a lot of time and emotional capital into a marriage.

How come when you ask former GMB brehs who are happily married if they would ever go back to bachelor life, they all say hell no?

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Ole soft nikka talking about simps and he goes searching my profile page to return a neg like a 9 year old

You got in your feelings like a bytch on her menstrual cycle because I made a post concerning marriage that had NOTHING to do with you personally. A hit dig hollas every time. Never fails. If you are biologically male, your father failed you miserably. Clearly, you were raised in a house full of bytches. Which is why you exude so much feminine energy and display so many bytch made tendencies. I'm guessing that it was the "homosexual" portion of my post that triggered you, sis?

And, I know it's getting your little booty all wet because you think we're about to get in a little back and forth so you can put your full aggravational/bytch made energy on display in a full blown argument, but naw. I don't do that. If you were standing in front of me, I'd punch your fukking teeth out of your mouth and humble you real quick and teach you the respect that your absentee father couldn't. But. This is internet land. I'll just place you ignore and let you argue with yourself. Suck it easy, homo

 

[Verbal Kint]

You got in your feelings like a bytch on her menstrual cycle because I made a post concerning marriage that had NOTHING to do with you personally. A hit dig hollas every time. Never fails. If you are biologically male, your father failed you miserably. Clearly, you were raised in a house full of bytches. Which is why you exude so much feminine energy and display so many bytch made tendencies. I'm guessing that it was the "homosexual" portion of my post that triggered you, sis?

And, I know it's getting your little booty all wet because you think we're about to get in a little back and forth so you can put your full aggravational/bytch made energy on display in a full blown argument, but naw. I don't do that. If you were standing in front of me, I'd punch your fukking teeth out of your mouth and humble you real quick and teach you the respect that your absentee father couldn't. But. This is internet land. I'll just place you ignore and let you argue with yourself. Suck it easy, homo

A whole wasted post of hoe babble cause I ain't reading your nonsense. . Argue with the wind, lame

 

[ThaEruditious]

I would love to be eventually get married since I come from a two parent home, but I’m in my early 30’s now and it’s real slim pickings if you only looking to marry a black women. I don’t date interracially because I don’t need those problems in my life but black women my age always seem to have something.


It’s getting depressing out here.

This whole post.

 

[FlimFlam]

Everyone , on and beyond the internet, romanticizes whatever random obscure groupings relative broadcasted success, and how we should emulate it

But , on and beyond the internet, everyone jumps right past the fact that these people are generally products of families, from legacies of families, and communities of families

Jus something to consider i suppose

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Why is it that damn near EVERYONE who was once married but now divorced, say they will NEVER remarry?

Because sometimes it takes getting into a car crash for most people to drive slower.

 

[Easy-E]

No.

Not campaigning it. Could not care less if someone else does.

I want the same thing women want.

I just don't wanna give a partner the leverage of the state to go as far as to put me in jail for missing a monthly pymt.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

I am not against the concept of it but marriage in it's current state is a joke.

This is how I feel

 

[315]

Been married once. Will never do it again.
I'm not good in relationships and they are easy to find but I realized they aren't for me. I never liked answering to no one , and like wise other then my kids don't like no one answering to me. I was in long term relationships from 18-31 , married for about 4-5 years .

This is how I am. I know enough about myself to know I'm not equipped to deal with someone else's emotion and general shyt on a daily basis. I'm too self-centered

 

[MidniteJay]

I don't. I'm 32 and my life goal is to make the rest of my life easy. I don't care about legacy or building shyt. I just got life insurance and put my niece as beneficiary incase something tragic happens and I don't want that side of the fam assed out when I die.