Y'all REALLY don't wanna get married brehs?

[Crude]

LIKE WHAT?? These nyggas aint rich.. They aint gonna pay alimony and have to fork over a house to the ex spouse.. lmao

Most of what Coli nyggas would lose is a person paying half the rent with them.

What nyggas need to be scared of is child support.. But most nyggas just go into that all willy nilly.

But they are scared of marriage??... You cant make this shyt up

I've seen men get half their wages garnished to pay child support on 2-3 kids after divorce only to get to see them once or twice maybe every other week.

If you've been married for ten years or longer in Louisiana your spouse is eligible for half your retirement. This works both ways for men and women.

If you make significantly more than your spouse and have afforded them a certain lifestyle. For example, your wife only worked a part time job while you paid all the bills and were the breadwinner then you might be a candidate for paying her alimony depending on the judge, your ex spouse's attorney, and other details surrounding the case.

If your wife goes and has a child with another man while you are married you are going to be held responsible for that child by the state. A lot of men think they can run and get a paternity test and get from under that, but the state doesn't care if you and the mother were married at the time the child was conceived and later born then you are the one that they are holding responsible for taking care of the child.

Again this is why I say a man stands to lose a lot of they pick the wrong woman.

Where I will kinda agree with you though is a lot men bring most of their headache with women on themselves. People will let you know who they are if you watch long enough. A woman will have all the characteristics of not being shyt yet a some guys will stick around because the p*ssy is good, or shes got a phat azz and pretty face, or she taking care of him, or whatever else.

 

[BK The Great]

On some real ish I don’t think you ever know everything about a person. There are some things you won’t learn about your partner until a situation arises. Sometimes there are things you don’t even know about yourself until you encounter an unwelcome experience.

It’s ok to be scared but don’t let the emotion rule you or cause you to miss out on a good thing.

Yea that's the truth, there's layers to every person. I'm just naturally cautious with everything in general.

 

[Youseenmywork]

You know it's bad when white brehs is telling you what's going on in the "surface"

 

[Youseenmywork]

#SYSBM#

 

[L. Deezy]

I've seen men get half their wages garnished to pay child support on 2-3 kids after divorce only to get to see them once or twice maybe every other week.

1. If you've been married for ten years or longer in Louisiana your spouse is eligible for half your retirement. This works both ways for men and women. - The percentange what they get on this low and you have to be retirement age.. its factors to this.

2. If you make significantly more than your spouse and have afforded them a certain lifestyle. For example, your wife only worked a part time job while you paid all the bills and were the breadwinner then you might be a candidate for paying her alimony depending on the judge, your ex spouse's attorney, and other details surrounding the case. This is for rich people.. this doesnt apply to you working and she working 40 plus hours a week.

3. If your wife goes and has a child with another man while you are married you are going to be held responsible for that child by the state. A lot of men think they can run and get a paternity test and get from under that, but the state doesn't care if you and the mother were married at the time the child was conceived and later born then you are the one that they are holding responsible for taking care of the child. This is only if you accepted the role of dad knowingly. If you file a divorce on this basis and establish DNA proof, then thats kinda out the door.

Again this is why I say a man stands to lose a lot of they pick the wrong woman.

Where I will kinda agree with you though is a lot men bring most of their headache with women on themselves. People will let you know who they are if you watch long enough. A woman will have all the characteristics of not being shyt yet a some guys will stick around because the p*ssy is good, or shes got a phat azz and pretty face, or she taking care of him, or whatever else.

@Crude

 

[Diondon]

Sure someday. I grew up in a two parent, functional household.

 

[Arris]

whats worse off? like what?

Badically not letting pressure and my own desires lead me to marry someone with red flags for the relationship long term.

 

[ThaEruditious]

to see all these black men in here down marriage and family is just a fuhking travesty...

Some of us ain't with that shyt for good reason. See:

Ive fukked way too many married women to believe in this image people try to portray. Real marriages/long term relationships learn to accept infidelity and try and grow and learn from it. Im good i dont need that level of corruption in my life

 

[Gold]

As a married man, i believe waaaaaaaay too many people get married for thr wrong reasons.

Im with GMB. Its one thing to fukk up a relationship, its a whole diff level to fukk up a marriage

 

[LurkMoar]

Definitely getting married, parents been married 20+ years and that’s the legacy I wanna have as well. Can’t speak on anyone else

 

[LurkMoar]

Don't get married if your goal isn't to build something..

Yup

 

[number21]

I promise you Im not.. This place is a dumpster fire for the most part.

So, why do you still post here bruh? With how you're up in here sounding like a bird...your contribution wont be missed.

 

[Cynic]

LIKE WHAT?? These nyggas aint rich.. They aint gonna pay alimony and have to fork over a house to the ex spouse.. lmao

Most of what Coli nyggas would lose is a person paying half the rent with them.

What nyggas need to be scared of is child support.. But most nyggas just go into that all willy nilly.

But they are scared of marriage??... You cant make this shyt up

What about the rest who do have stuff to lose ?

The lawyers and tech brehs who spent 80 hours a week eating sh!t from cacs and being clowned by everybody because they didn't party enough?

The biz-owners whose lights got shut off and they were evicted and on the streets for a HOT minute with dry d!ck ?

The sons of immigrants who had to get that pressure from their parents to excel or be disowned ?

The finance/consultant brehs who never see their apartments due to travel ?



Why the f*ck would they risk paying off some girls student debt just so she can rinse all his money 7 years down the line because she can ?




F*ck outta here

 

[lightskin jermaine]

When I was younger I was GMB but nothing like going home to your family every day I can't imagine not seeing my son everyday, changing his diapers, watching him grow My brother had a kid with his ex gf and he only gets to see him every other weekend and paying child support

 

[Youseenmywork]

I've seen men get half their wages garnished to pay child support on 2-3 kids after divorce only to get to see them once or twice maybe every other week.

If you've been married for ten years or longer in Louisiana your spouse is eligible for half your retirement. This works both ways for men and women.

If you make significantly more than your spouse and have afforded them a certain lifestyle. For example, your wife only worked a part time job while you paid all the bills and were the breadwinner then you might be a candidate for paying her alimony depending on the judge, your ex spouse's attorney, and other details surrounding the case.

If your wife goes and has a child with another man while you are married you are going to be held responsible for that child by the state. A lot of men think they can run and get a paternity test and get from under that, but the state doesn't care if you and the mother were married at the time the child was conceived and later born then you are the one that they are holding responsible for taking care of the child.

Again this is why I say a man stands to lose a lot of they pick the wrong woman.

Where I will kinda agree with you though is a lot men bring most of their headache with women on themselves. People will let you know who they are if you watch long enough. A woman will have all the characteristics of not being shyt yet a some guys will stick around because the p*ssy is good, or shes got a phat azz and pretty face, or she taking care of him, or whatever else.

Get to know the laws in your particular state ....