Y'all REALLY don't wanna get married brehs?

SheWantTheD

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Y’all ain’t got shyt
It doesn’t matter what we have.. many married men have some sort of assets ie a home, vehicles, investments, savings etc.. get married get divorced and you gonna have to come up off a lot of that.

Imagine maxing out your 401k, Roth IRA, etc in preparation for retirement and your wife takes half or all of it? 20 years of work down the drain.

Plus you can only see your kids on the weekends or every other weekend. You can sign up for that shyt if you want :mjlol:

Why do I have to hire an attorney and spend tens of thousands of dollars to lose shyt I worked hard for and to see my kids???
 

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I would love to eventually get married since I come from a two parent home, but I’m in my early 30’s now and it’s real slim pickings if you only looking to marry a black women. I don’t date interracially because I don’t need those problems in my life but black women my age always seem to have something.


It’s getting depressing out here.
What something is that?
 

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You can't have shyt without strong families. But these dudes love to get on some kind of militant tip. Then accuse you of using militant like a bad word. That's why I don't take them seriously. They think they can have allllll this shyt without strong families. Never in history.....you know what nevermind.....

You're right you either understand it or you don't.

To this they'll say...But you don't have to get married. You dudes aren't fooling anybody. You're not trying to 'shack' either. You just wanna fukk and flee and then get on the Coli and talk down on folks because you're about 10% woke. Please.

And they really don't care about black females so stop that dead in its tracks! :mjlol:

If this doesn't apply to you kudos but the guilt parties know who they are.:francis:
Why you gotta be legally married to have a strong family?
 

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Still true. Everyday is better than the last.:takedat:



how is that working out for you breh

:ehh:

We’ll covid happened lol.

We didn’t get the house we bid on.
We aren’t married

But we moved into a new house, in a location we weren’t originally looking at, and she’s 17 weeks pregnant.

Were still looking to try and do a small ceremony somewhere but her family can’t come over from Japan yet.

We’re almost broke due to house deposits (10% minimum in the UK), little bit of house renovations, car and on coming baby …we still engaged maybe until next year when she starts working after maternity leave.
 

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I used to want to get married and have house and kids the whole ya dig.


When my girlfriend was killed.
I started preparing for that alone feeling.
To always be what was real.
To the point when my daughter was old enough.
I told her the type of long shot miracle she was.
Plus how she had to be great.

Art Barr
 

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Why you gotta be legally married to have a strong family?


You have to be married to create a strong family breh.

Do not confuse being related for family.

Your relatives are just relatives.

They are not your family.
Unless they show themselves to be.
beyond familiar and past just some relative reason you relate.



Art Barr
 
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I want to get married I plan on it later this year. I don’t want a wedding shyt is a expensive and waste of money if you have debt.
 
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