Y'all blame marriage but it's really kids that change relationships

[KENNY DA COOKER]

Shut yo lying azz up

I told MY PERSONAL STORY

AND u came at me judgemental and condescending like a Bible thumping byatch azz neega

Look at the way you posted ...

Your whole tone was wrong

You came in like u was raising your voice at me and got the nerve to cuss me

You could say that child changed you for the better..... But you can also ask why the fukk you wasn't doing all that for YOURSELF, prior to having that child...........

N1GGA WHO DA FUKK U TALKING TO?




Talking about

N1gga im in my 40s and your old like me too

Show some respect ..talk to me nice

Cause offline trust me YOUR AZZ WOULD THINK TWICE

 

[Lamar Givens]

You sound regretful and hurt

Yea, regretful I married a virgin, got a little minnie me that loves the heck out of her daddy, wifey makes $$$ and is an computer IT professional and loves her job, was raised with traditional values and let’s me be the man in all decision making, etc.

Yea, yea little nikka in ya one bedroom apartment or mommas basement, yea, I’m regretful and hurt

 

[Lamar Givens]

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with either one of those, if you don’t want to have kids. Your life is about your circumstances and what you make of them, not what some coli poster, or even ppl in your life have to say. That’s not to say you and your wife have done anything wrong or disagreeable, but y’all aren’t the prototype either. There isn’t one.

Enjoy your life to the best of your abilities and try not to hurt others along the way


Now if you actually have children, and try to blame them for a fallout in your life, that’s a different convo.

Yes, me and my wife are the PROTOTYPE.

Living righteous, exemplifying black excellence, giving back to our black community, mentoring black youth, out of debt, and enjoying a stress free life.

Black excellence personified and I’m not going to feel bad about bragging about it or promoting for others to follow or strive for either.

 

[African Peasant]

Same breh, but most everyone does. Always seemed odd to me

Why? The opposite seems odd to me. What's the point of getting married if you not going to have kids right away?

Marriage is to build a family, not a couple.

 

[NormanConnors]

Kids don't ask to be born. The most detrimantal thing to marriages is people believing in the fantasy version of marriage and then refusing to accept the fact that life is hard and not a rom com or a family movie.

This

 

[director_of_bands]

Marriage is not a romantic ballad.

Cats want to live a rom-com all their life

The purpose of marriage is to create a FAMILY, not to remain ONLY a couple doing dating and dining.

/close thread

 

[kdslittlebro]

Yes, me and my wife are the PROTOTYPE.

Living righteous, exemplifying black excellence, giving back to our black community, mentoring black youth, out of debt, and enjoying a stress free life.

Black excellence personified and I’m not going to feel bad about bragging about it or promoting for others to follow or strive for either.

Glad you take pride in your life, as you should

 

[BlackBall]

Yea, regretful I married a virgin, got a little minnie me that loves the heck out of her daddy, wifey makes $$$ and is an computer IT professional and loves her job, was raised with traditional values and let’s me be the man in all decision making, etc.

Yea, yea little nikka in ya one bedroom apartment or mommas basement, yea, I’m regretful and hurt

Lol you trying too hard again. You sound even more hurt and regretful

 

[twan83]

shyt is mind-boggling for real. nikkas talking about try to work around the kids schedule

You the fukking parents! you supposed to set their schedules!

Cuz you do at times
What I look like fukking wifey with bedroom door closed and locked while they all got homework and need help even when they help each other out.
shyt is a buzzkill like no other
Tried that shyt before
All up in the guts knocks on door daddy mommy need help with homework
Go ask ur older sibling
Knock again
Need help dad with homework
I'm like fukk fukk
she Like ugh I was close too

Now after homework I make em go play or some other shyt and say if u knock on my door and it ain't a damn emergency UR GROUNDED DAMNIT

 

[Sad Bunny]

Kids don't ask to be born. The most detrimantal thing to marriages is people believing in the fantasy version of marriage and then refusing to accept the fact that life is hard and not a rom com or a family movie.

This is so true bro.

Thanks for this lol

 

[MajesticLion]

Nah. People want to run at life with expectations, the gods laugh and smash their expectations to flinders, and most people aren't equipped for versatility nor can they communicate effectively and without ego.


That's why.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

:Scurred1:

Now THIS is a fukkin thread

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

 

[jmspro]

A lot of posters making emotional statements in here. I see these same responses in the real world as well. I

actually got told I was selfish for 'not' wanting kids. Like somebody said in this thread, too many people were sold

a dream and they won't admit they are unhappy because of their kids. Im not saying they don't love their kids but

you can see it in their face. Especially women.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Shut yo lying azz up

I told MY PERSONAL STORY

AND u came at me judgemental and condescending like a Bible thumping byatch azz neega

Look at the way you posted ...

Your whole tone was wrong

You came in like u was raising your voice at me and got the nerve to cuss me



N1GGA WHO DA FUKK U TALKING TO?




Talking about

N1gga im in my 40s and your old like me too

Show some respect ..talk to me nice

Cause offline trust me YOUR AZZ WOULD THINK TWICE

I was saying that with a laugh breh... I can see how it came off.. But trust, I'd say it just like that.. Like Caine told his boy about that cooler

Then why your tropical ass sitting on the goddamn cooler?