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Smart manThats why me and wifey aint gonna have kids for a few years
Y'all blame marriage but it's really kids that change relationships
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Thats why me and wifey aint gonna have kids for a few years
I couldn’t imagine getting married and having kids within the first couple yrs
I couldn’t imagine getting married and having kids within the first couple yrs
Same breh, but most everyone does. Always seemed odd to me
How bout we as humans stop having children all together and see how far that gets us.... 
Heafcliffe
Hope there's puddin' in the clink...
Marriage is not a romantic ballad.
Cats want to live a rom-com all their life
The purpose of marriage is to create a FAMILY, not to remain ONLY a couple doing dating and dining.
Facts. As a happily married man, I have never disparaged against marriage but I always tell folks that "It ain't for everyone...
" Shyt takes work.
datnigDASTARDLY
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Life will get you caught up fast, but that brings up another point on how the relationship was formed in the first place.
Relationships, marriage, kids, all that shyt is work. You gotta want to do it to be even somewhat successful.
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Mann this is deep topic op. I think once you get older you see the BS the world has sold you and the people around you. Women are sold this fantasy on some Disney shyt and men are conditioned to foot the bill. Kid I believe are a gift to this world when raised properly. You can't blame children it's just that we are never really taught HOW much having a family cost. When I say cost I mean emotionally physically and mentally as well as financially.
It's a sacrifice that many don't understand the full intent of. Don't be out one of these people are couples that hate they job but you stay on it cause you got kids
. Even when you step outside today you can see more people are not getting married and etc. People are starting to take in the full weight of being with one person for the rest of they loved and having kids etc. According to the CNN/ Fox News it record lows for people havening kids and record highs for divorce.
The relationship landscape as a whole will be different in the 5/7 years
It's a sacrifice that many don't understand the full intent of. Don't be out one of these people are couples that hate they job but you stay on it cause you got kids
. Even when you step outside today you can see more people are not getting married and etc. People are starting to take in the full weight of being with one person for the rest of they loved and having kids etc. According to the CNN/ Fox News it record lows for people havening kids and record highs for divorce. The relationship landscape as a whole will be different in the 5/7 years
Nothing more pathetic than a grown azz man scared of having and raising kids.
Having a kid and losing 2 kids was one of the best and worse things to happen to me and my wife. As a married couple having kids made our relationship even stronger and my wife and I actually learned more about one another after having kids.
Some of y’all are just too IMMATURE and have no idea what a marriage/relationship is about and DEMANDS!!!
A child’s love for you is one of the PUREST forms of love you will ever experience.
A lot you brehs are just selfish and think life is all about getting money and clapping cheeks.
Having a kid and losing 2 kids was one of the best and worse things to happen to me and my wife. As a married couple having kids made our relationship even stronger and my wife and I actually learned more about one another after having kids.
Some of y’all are just too IMMATURE and have no idea what a marriage/relationship is about and DEMANDS!!!
A child’s love for you is one of the PUREST forms of love you will ever experience.
A lot you brehs are just selfish and think life is all about getting money and clapping cheeks.
It's simple imo...planning and communication will ease a lot of pain...
Younger people think marriage is sweet, romance and what not and that's why they rush to get married, rush to get a house..then they may have issues and instead of taking a few steps back they think having a child will make things better.
The child is born and the parents arent doing that great of a job raising their child because lack of communication and planning years before, and some how their frustration is taken out on the child and the marriage.
When I turned 25 I realized all of that love, fantasy stuff was just that and people need to be real with theirselves instead of trying to fit a societal role.
All imo of course
Younger people think marriage is sweet, romance and what not and that's why they rush to get married, rush to get a house..then they may have issues and instead of taking a few steps back they think having a child will make things better.
The child is born and the parents arent doing that great of a job raising their child because lack of communication and planning years before, and some how their frustration is taken out on the child and the marriage.
When I turned 25 I realized all of that love, fantasy stuff was just that and people need to be real with theirselves instead of trying to fit a societal role.
All imo of course
Facts,
You sound regretful and hurt
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with either one of those, if you don’t want to have kids. Your life is about your circumstances and what you make of them, not what some coli poster, or even ppl in your life have to say. That’s not to say you and your wife have done anything wrong or disagreeable, but y’all aren’t the prototype either. There isn’t one.
Enjoy your life to the best of your abilities and try not to hurt others along the way
Now if you actually have children, and try to blame them for a fallout in your life, that’s a different convo.
