Y'all blame marriage but it's really kids that change relationships

Prynce

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shyt is mind-boggling for real. nikkas talking about try to work around the kids schedule:hhh:

You the fukking parents! you supposed to set their schedules!
Lmao better tell them go play outside while mommy and daddy have some alone time

These nikkas act like they have to sacrifice every aspect of their lives to raise their kids

They own parents didn't even do that shyt :dead:
 

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I don't think it's children, but the failure to adjust. You don't fit children into your preexisting schedule, you create an entirely new schedule. That may mean giving some things you did before or doing them infrequently, oh well. You will get over it.
 

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Blaming the kids is a WEAK AZZ EXCUSE

and those that cosign that shouldn't have kids and if they do are idealisticly bad parents

Having a CHILD made me a better man

It made me respect my mate more and the appreciation of her delivering a healthy child and not become a murderer (Abortion)

And it made me grind harder

This is the longest u ever held a job and I also started a LLC and I owe it all to being movivated by my child
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That's cause they need to prioritize their marriage over their kids if they want things to remain intact.

The kids benefit much more from happily married parents than the other waya around

Blaming kids is a weak ass excuse

This. It's a beautiful thing when both parents know what the deal is.

Be on some Heath Huxtable, we brought yall in this world and we'll take you out, yall don't run this house :mjlol:
 

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Be real... yall parents really fukkin like that? :comeon:
No! :birdman:but then again how tf u think they siblings got here :shaq:

Truth be told tho, and this was one of the biggest points of consternation when we had youngins. The min that kid gets here the world aint about you no more. I understood that concept ahead of time sans high priced electronics and small children dont go together. But wifey that shyt diddnt translate so it took me to teach her the actual factuals. I often have to remind her you do know there will be a day when they aint here you need to make sure I'm tended too as well :ufdup:. But the shyt is work, I see young couples all the time and just smh because they dont get the concept of work & if you aint willing to put it in DONT ... Have ... f'n kids.

Dealing with kids on a regular its easy to see which ones are from stable homes and who arent.
 

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Annnnd that's why I'm childfree. (As well as other reasons)

Having kids are more than notion. It's definitely not that Disney fairytale shyt people keep saying it is.

Hell, just managing a relationship/marriage is hard work. Throw a child into the mix...that's when most couples have problems.
 

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No! :birdman:but then again how tf u think they siblings got here :shaq:

Truth be told tho, and this was one of the biggest points of consternation when we had youngins. The min that kid gets here the world aint about you no more. I understood that concept ahead of time sans high priced electronics and small children dont go together. But wifey that shyt diddnt translate so it took me to teach her the actual factuals. I often have to remind her you do know there will be a day when they aint here you need to make sure I'm tended too as well :ufdup:. But the shyt is work, I see young couples all the time and just smh because they dont get the concept of work & if you aint willing to put it in DONT ... Have ... f'n kids.

Dealing with kids on a regular its easy to see which ones are from stable homes and who arent.

Thats why me and wifey aint gonna have kids for a few years :yeshrug:
 
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