Wtf is the point of having female friends if

[Action Mike]

Had the exact same situation.

We are no longer friends.

Talking about we could have smashed if I gave her attention

Toxic idiots

 

[seabreeze80]

basically. But women hate other women. Period.

And as a male friend the dude will “suffer” indirectly as a result.

Not all women hate other women though. If you have a female "friend" that acts like this, drop her. If you don't give her the attention she craves she will become jealous and will try to destroy you and the girl you gave the attention to.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Male female relationships only work when both are in relationships with someone else

Because then there is no sexual tension between either and also usually if one person is in a relationship And the other is single that persons boyfriend or girlfriend will always be jealous and not want you hanging out anymore

the closest female friends I’ve ever had when they got into relationships our friendships became less close because their boyfriends always hated me because they were jealous or insecure about our friendship when in reality these woman were like my sisters I had no interest in dating them so it sucks that we’re not as close anymore

I feel like y’all are speaking on your own POV as men. As I’ve said several of my girls have platonic friendships with men where they’ve never had sex or had sexual tension between them. In fact it’s because of that “lack” of tension and feelings that they became friends in the first place with these men.

When I did try to have male friends I never ever felt any sexual tension with them. They were friend zoned because I didn’t want to fukk them or date them—I didn’t see them that way but they were cool to kick it with. The friendships never lasted because they tricked me about their true feelings. I have many stories, from the friend I had that would go out of his way to tell me I was a bytch and he would never date a girl as high maintenance as me who I actually did try to hook up with a friend only to find out he was strangely obsessed with me to the friend who was in a serious relationship and wanted to leave his baby mama for me—every male friend I tried to have were Brehs i wanted to have an actual nonsexual platonic friendship with.

What y’all are describing aren’t platonic scenarios. the reality is that all these formulas y’all are speaking on (you need to smash first, or you need to both be in a relationship) don’t apply if one person has falsely entered the friendship pretending to be platonic but wanting something else.

The girl in the op will still like him and want his attention even if he did things differently because she clearly likes him. he just needs to Bush her and Kim.

 

[etrofllenrod504]

shyt I had a female friend once. She was cool as shyt UNTIL I started fukking with this particular chic she knew she couldn't compete with. It's crazy we weren't fukking or nothing remotely close to that was on the cool cool. Then she started acting funny once I started messing with this chic that was just dumb fine and also mad cool(but I was fukking). Her words were I don't know what you see in her you could do better lol. Even tho everyone that saw her including my mom was like got damn she nice. That's when I realized that if your female friend thinks you are attractive, it will always be that "if" in it for them and that "if" keep them emotionally attached(on some more than just a friend type shyt). Even if you don't see it that way. So if you hop on something they feel they cant compete with jealousy will ensue. It's retarded as fukk but that's how they brain function.

 

[315]

“Hmm, that’s what you like?”

 

[shroommon]

theres something she doesn’t trust about you/ something about your energy or your direction that doesnt jive with her. What’s your education/finance situation looking like? Are you stable and in a good place in terms of your direction in life? Do you still have a foot in the door with that lifestyle you had before even though you say you left it—as in are you still surrounding yourself with people from your past and have a street mindset even though your not in that life?

I am still involved with some people in the lifestyle ,, tho I am closing the door / starting a new chapter .. I did just get out of jail a month ago so there's that ,, still going thru court process .. far as it goes I'm still finding a new direction in life (legally , more socially acceptable speaking) but I am making headway .. education / financially speaking I'm doing pretty good but there's still a bunch of tasks I gotta complete - things in life I've been putting off

slow and steady process getting back on track . I been taking the easy way out most my life that's what I realize ,,, now I'm in a position where I'm basically forced to face life's challenges . I been doing good since I got out but this heartache is a bytch ,, I need it out my system

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I am still involved with some people in the lifestyle ,, tho I am closing the door / starting a new chapter .. I did just get out of jail a month ago so there's that ,, still going thru court process .. far as it goes I'm still finding a new direction in life (legally , more socially acceptable speaking) but I am making headway .. education / financially speaking I'm doing pretty good but there's still a bunch of tasks I gotta complete - things in life I've been putting off

slow and steady process getting back on track . I been taking the easy way out most my life that's what I realize ,,, now I'm in a position where I'm basically forced to face life's challenges . I been doing good since I got out but this heartache is a bytch ,, I need it out my system

the bolded is the answer and that’s why I asked. She probably does like you but there are too many red flags. There are things you need to work out. She wants to be involved in your life because she likes you and wants you to do well but she’s not going there with you for the reasons bolded. Just work on yourself breh. If your hurting over her rejection just bush her.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

I have a plethora of female acquaintances that I’m cool with. I’m also very close to my female cousins. My family is mostly women, so I became comfortable around girls at a young age.

When women see you with other women, it makes you preselected. Increases a man’s SMV. Women seek you out because you’re perceived as “normal” for attracting the opposite sex.

Women who provide practical value are valuable. I have a sista on IG who advertises businesses like selling pallets, real estate, stocks, bonds,etc

Platonic friends is a waste of time

 

[GhettoTeK]

they just get jealous when you shoot your shot around them.

one of my close friends is female. zero attraction to her and she's been dating and fukking with other people, asking for advice on brehs, and all that bullshyt. i do the same with her; ask about advice for girls and female perspective

i go out with her and some other friends, she introduces me to one of her co-workers...who she told me was single and had a hard time finding quality men. So i'm thinking "thanks homegirl. let me eat"

i start flirting with her co-worker, she's giggling, i'm getting closer and closer to slamming ass

then all of a sudden, i look to my friend and she's looking like . i go over and ask her what's up? she says "nothing". but it's that "nothing" women say when you know they're furious.

i wrap it up with her co-worker and get her number


come to find out my friend didn't want me fukkin around with her single co-worker. i ask if it's cause i'd fukk up her work relationship?

she tells me no. that she's just uncomfortable with me flirting with women like that in front of her


i'm not the simp she has in her back pocket to settle with after she's done hoeing. she knows that. so why be jealous/uncomfortable if you don't like me like that?

maybe men and women really cant be friends

It’s obvious shorty like you annd if that’s not the case, then she’s just plain jelly of other women. I’m assuming her friend look better than her

 

[Paper Boi]

all the female friends i have are cool.

they can give pretty good advice on some shyt too, a womans perspective can be valuable in certain situations

 

[Studious one]

they just get jealous when you shoot your shot around them.

one of my close friends is female. zero attraction to her and she's been dating and fukking with other people, asking for advice on brehs, and all that bullshyt. i do the same with her; ask about advice for girls and female perspective

i go out with her and some other friends, she introduces me to one of her co-workers...who she told me was single and had a hard time finding quality men. So i'm thinking "thanks homegirl. let me eat"

i start flirting with her co-worker, she's giggling, i'm getting closer and closer to slamming ass

then all of a sudden, i look to my friend and she's looking like . i go over and ask her what's up? she says "nothing". but it's that "nothing" women say when you know they're furious.

i wrap it up with her co-worker and get her number


come to find out my friend didn't want me fukkin around with her single co-worker. i ask if it's cause i'd fukk up her work relationship?

she tells me no. that she's just uncomfortable with me flirting with women like that in front of her


i'm not the simp she has in her back pocket to settle with after she's done hoeing. she knows that. so why be jealous/uncomfortable if you don't like me like that?

maybe men and women really cant be friends

I think that that’s what she Probably has you delegated as. You did right.

 

[Ahadi]

Offer free protection & resources brehs

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

I've learned that all women are like this. It's just their nature. Don't even trip about it. Sometimes she don't even want you like that, she just don't want some other woman to be getting the attention that you used to give her

Y'all can still be friends. This is just how they are, you'll get used to it.. don't even entertain her when she acts jealous. Don't ask "is something wrong" or nothing like that

 

[MisterMajesty]

I'm going thru something similar rn

I met a girl about a month ago at a ceremony , we hooked up that night and she came over to my spot . We took a shower together and was kissing, touching all night butt ass naked . we didn't smash cuz she said she wasn't "romantically attracted to me" but we chilled the whole next day on some couple shyt.

she helped me with my photo biz, give me energy readings ,,, said she views me as a "best friend" .. we aint suppose to be romantically involved, we suppose to be "close friends" something like that

i asked her how she feel about me and first thought that came to her is "she loves me" ,, but she dont wanna be close because the company I keep, life I live, etc

she said she got a reading from her godmother and she told her don't mess with me ,, I use to run the street life (not no more), so her father said don't mess with me either

so I fell back ,, I started focusing on me and healing my heart from what seems to be wasted time and energy ,,, and since I started focusing on me , she lowkey feeling some type of way cuz I'm not communicating with her how I once was .. but in the back of mind im saying "she dont want me 'romantically' so why spend a bunch of energy if it aint going anywhere. we friends"

she still answers my calls when I call her , she wanna barter biz trades when she in town .. we suppose to be just "friends" but we had a deep level of intimacy when we first met (her words not mine). she left town that weekend we met , and we suppose to be meeting again this weekend when she get back

@junie @bourgeoisie tall freak @Seoul Gleou somebody make it make sense , cuz I'm tryna get over it

Girl a weirdo. RUN

 

[T. Dubb Ya]

Lol at having female friends!