Wtf is the point of having female friends if

[dat aint da same sandwich]

You gotta realize a lot of nikkas on the coli put p*ssy over food,water and air.

lame ass nikkas on here always expose themselves.

 

[AyBrehHam Linkin]

female friends can be cool but the shyt can def be awk at times. my situation is pretty weird

I got a female friend whose I actually used to smash, YEARS ago, we just fell off but remained friends. aint smashed in alittle over 3 years. however even still matched n all that while we were seeing other people. I tried to push it after that but she said she was over me in that capacity but we can still be friends and i'm like that's cool. we both had our own rosters we weren't trynna smash eachother or nothing anymore

Well starting about a year n half ago I've had a girlfriend, yet me and ol girl still text. I set some ground rules like you can't send me selfies anymore n you cant talk as free about ish..we just share memes, talk about random ish and she'll ask me for boy advice type shyt.

My girl at first was like whose this bih, and i'm like shyt she just a friend, but never told her we used to smash all those years ago(yeah I know lmfao). I don't wanna just cut homegirl off however but sometimes I think that might have to be a move in the future. Esp since my friends know we used to f with eachother(her ass even smashed afew of my guys after stopped fukking with eachother lmfao she a thotty tbh).

Well this is where some complications come up, my homegirl has some curious behavior...she lowkey rarely asks me about my girl. Weird thing for me to view as suspicious I know, but sometimes she'll be like so how have you been, how's your family and job been type shyt...wont ask about the woman I currently live with and have been in a serious relationship with the past few years, like at all lmfao. Hell when I bring her up, it seems like she changes the subject which is weird because this bih loves to talk lmfao. Or hell sometimes she'll send me something kinda risky, like one time this bih told me some nikka said her p*ssy like Britta(im like bih i know it's funny but why are you texting me this lol) and i'll be like chill...she'll basically ignore the statement or address something else. Sometimes she'll text me late asf, and my girl will be like why is this bih texting you at 11pm type shyt lmfao. And the funny thing she wont really ask or talk about my girl(not that I want her too, but still) yet she will go on about who she fukking with in an instant and for awhile too. she even asked me to match a long ass time ago before I was in a relationship and the nikka she was in a situationship with was there and im like whaaaat the broad really doesn't give a fukk.

She's cool, one of the few people I text other than my girlfriend. But I view this ish as pretty volatile in the long run..

 

[Bossino]

I'm going thru something similar rn

I met a girl about a month ago at a ceremony , we hooked up that night and she came over to my spot . We took a shower together and was kissing, touching all night butt ass naked . we didn't smash cuz she said she wasn't "romantically attracted to me" but we chilled the whole next day on some couple shyt.

she helped me with my photo biz, give me energy readings ,,, said she views me as a "best friend" .. we aint suppose to be romantically involved, we suppose to be "close friends" something like that

i asked her how she feel about me and first thought that came to her is "she loves me" ,, but she dont wanna be close because the company I keep, life I live, etc

she said she got a reading from her godmother and she told her don't mess with me ,, I use to run the street life (not no more), so her father said don't mess with me either

so I fell back ,, I started focusing on me and healing my heart from what seems to be wasted time and energy ,,, and since I started focusing on me , she lowkey feeling some type of way cuz I'm not communicating with her how I once was .. but in the back of mind im saying "she dont want me 'romantically' so why spend a bunch of energy if it aint going anywhere. we friends"

she still answers my calls when I call her , she wanna barter biz trades when she in town .. we suppose to be just "friends" but we had a deep level of intimacy when we first met (her words not mine). she left town that weekend we met , and we suppose to be meeting again this weekend when she get back

@junie @bourgeoisie tall freak @Seoul Gleou somebody make it make sense , cuz I'm tryna get over it

Love is work as it progresses, but it's supposed to be easy in the beginning, bush shorty completely. For one she's a grown as woman and can make decision's on who she wants to date. If mommy and daddy are an issue early they'll be an issue later. Another thing a woman who's that indecisive will only cost you time/money and ultimately heartbreak. Lastly, I've dealt with a few but energy/neo soul/astrology/incense type women are wishy washy/hot cold/come and go women. They're fun on the casual tip, but a waste to try and build anything serious with

Just my 2 cents mayne

 

[Bossino]

female friends can be cool but the shyt can def be awk at times. my situation is pretty weird

I got a female friend whose I actually used to smash, YEARS ago, we just fell off but remained friends. aint smashed in alittle over 3 years. however even still matched n all that while we were seeing other people. I tried to push it after that but she said she was over me in that capacity but we can still be friends and i'm like that's cool. we both had our own rosters we weren't trynna smash eachother or nothing anymore

Well starting about a year n half ago I've had a girlfriend, yet me and ol girl still text. I set some ground rules like you can't send me selfies anymore n you cant talk as free about ish..we just share memes, talk about random ish and she'll ask me for boy advice type shyt.

My girl at first was like whose this bih, and i'm like shyt she just a friend, but never told her we used to smash all those years ago(yeah I know lmfao). I don't wanna just cut homegirl off however but sometimes I think that might have to be a move in the future. Esp since my friends know we used to f with eachother(her ass even smashed afew of my guys after stopped fukking with eachother lmfao she a thotty tbh).

Well this is where some complications come up, my homegirl has some curious behavior...she lowkey rarely asks me about my girl. Weird thing for me to view as suspicious I know, but sometimes she'll be like so how have you been, how's your family and job been type shyt...wont ask about the woman I currently live with and have been in a serious relationship with the past few years, like at all lmfao. Hell when I bring her up, it seems like she changes the subject which is weird because this bih loves to talk lmfao. Or hell sometimes she'll send me something kinda risky, like one time this bih told me some nikka said her p*ssy like Britta(im like bih i know it's funny but why are you texting me this lol) and i'll be like chill...she'll basically ignore the statement or address something else. Sometimes she'll text me late asf, and my girl will be like why is this bih texting you at 11pm type shyt lmfao. And the funny thing she wont really ask or talk about my girl(not that I want her too, but still) yet she will go on about who she fukking with in an instant and for awhile too. she even asked me to match a long ass time ago before I was in a relationship and the nikka she was in a situationship with was there and im like whaaaat the broad really doesn't give a fukk.

She's cool, one of the few people I text other than my girlfriend. But I view this ish as pretty volatile in the long run..

You playing yourself shoulda dead ol homegirl soon as you met ya girlfriend, because ol' girl will eventually try to insert herself back into the fold and will be ready to wreck your shyt to do it.

 

[Bossino]

Quick story. When I was working in retail fresh out of college, there was this shorty who worked in the store next door. Always cool with her, thought it was platonic.

She sent one of her friends over for me to help her out. I get her number and set up a date. On that same day, the shorty from the shop curses my ass out for hollering at her.

“Throbbing, why are you hitting on my girl? I asked you to help her not help yourself.”

I was like “bytch, we’re grown adults. What we do is none of your business.”

“I thought you were different from other men. You just wanna fukk anything with a pulse.”

“whoa whoa. We ain’t even familiar like that.”

She was clearly jealous. Thankfully I left that job not too long after. It would’ve been awkward having to walk past her store everyday.

Moral of the story, don’t have female friends, just acquaintances for business. Your lady is there for all that emotional BS.

As a young breh as each day passes I don't see the point in having a woman for the long term. All the things that are supposedly offered are either false or obsolete in women sub 25. I also don't fee like snagging a 18 year-20 year old and trying to program them, that's lowkey just raising a kid in a lot of ways. Till further notice most of these jawns are sex objects.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

She’s a dikkhead. She is mad because you are giving away your attention to other women. She thinks she is entitled to your attention alone and you should not give it out to any woman that is interested in you. this is why men should never be friends with women cause they will use you and sabotage you from getting other women. Get rid of her. if she was a friend she wouldn’t be angry that you were going after her single first as you are suppose to do.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I thought I had a close female friend too until I got in a relationship and she said she was gonna beat my girl’s ass


A lot of em don’t want your attention to be on other women, and lowkey they get jealous once you’re in a relationship

toxic femininity

 

[Frump]

Male female relationships only work when both are in relationships with someone else

Because then there is no sexual tension between either and also usually if one person is in a relationship And the other is single that persons boyfriend or girlfriend will always be jealous and not want you hanging out anymore

the closest female friends I’ve ever had when they got into relationships our friendships became less close because their boyfriends always hated me because they were jealous or insecure about our friendship when in reality these woman were like my sisters I had no interest in dating them so it sucks that we’re not as close anymore

 

[Crayola Coyote]

don’t change what you’re doing. If she see you hollering in her presence then maybe she should use this pandemic as an opportunity to work on her glow up unless she’s a lost cause. On the other hand, use her for money in exchange for faux companionship. The new PS5 is coming. Dont be left out in the cold.

THIS. If she your friends should would have no issue buying you a PS5 and hooking you up with her friends and giving you money. Women need to invest in their “friends” as they say there are.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

you're in the friendzone and she doesn't want to lose you to another girl

this. Keep talking to her friends she disrespectful.

 

[Man On Fire]

maybe men and women really cant be friends

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

female friends can be cool but the shyt can def be awk at times. my situation is pretty weird

I got a female friend whose I actually used to smash, YEARS ago, we just fell off but remained friends. aint smashed in alittle over 3 years. however even still matched n all that while we were seeing other people. I tried to push it after that but she said she was over me in that capacity but we can still be friends and i'm like that's cool. we both had our own rosters we weren't trynna smash eachother or nothing anymore

Well starting about a year n half ago I've had a girlfriend, yet me and ol girl still text. I set some ground rules like you can't send me selfies anymore n you cant talk as free about ish..we just share memes, talk about random ish and she'll ask me for boy advice type shyt.

My girl at first was like whose this bih, and i'm like shyt she just a friend, but never told her we used to smash all those years ago(yeah I know lmfao). I don't wanna just cut homegirl off however but sometimes I think that might have to be a move in the future. Esp since my friends know we used to f with eachother(her ass even smashed afew of my guys after stopped fukking with eachother lmfao she a thotty tbh).

Well this is where some complications come up, my homegirl has some curious behavior...she lowkey rarely asks me about my girl. Weird thing for me to view as suspicious I know, but sometimes she'll be like so how have you been, how's your family and job been type shyt...wont ask about the woman I currently live with and have been in a serious relationship with the past few years, like at all lmfao. Hell when I bring her up, it seems like she changes the subject which is weird because this bih loves to talk lmfao. Or hell sometimes she'll send me something kinda risky, like one time this bih told me some nikka said her p*ssy like Britta(im like bih i know it's funny but why are you texting me this lol) and i'll be like chill...she'll basically ignore the statement or address something else. Sometimes she'll text me late asf, and my girl will be like why is this bih texting you at 11pm type shyt lmfao. And the funny thing she wont really ask or talk about my girl(not that I want her too, but still) yet she will go on about who she fukking with in an instant and for awhile too. she even asked me to match a long ass time ago before I was in a relationship and the nikka she was in a situationship with was there and im like whaaaat the broad really doesn't give a fukk.

She's cool, one of the few people I text other than my girlfriend. But I view this ish as pretty volatile in the long run..

Now flip this breh
What if your main had a “play brother”
Let that hoe go
Nothing good will come of this

 

[Michael's Black Son]

THIS. If she your friends should would have no issue buying you a PS5 and hooking you up with her friends and giving you money. Women need to invest in their “friends” as they say there are.

basically. But women hate other women. Period.

And as a male friend the dude will “suffer” indirectly as a result.

 

[CoochieMane]

They like keeping you in the trunk as a spare

 

[Sukairain]

Friendships are never permanent. Like Nas said, even best friends become strangers. Sometimes when you learn that a person really isn't adding much to your life you've got to drop them just like you would drop a bad habit.

I dropped a friend of 10 years last weekend, for example. I won't go into details but it was a situation sort of like what you wrote in the OP, when you discover that somebody isn't what you thought they were. Then you get to reflecting on what they add to your life and you figure out that not only do they add nothing, they in fact take away from you. They're a liability.

All I can say is that while I'm your friend, you ain't never had a friend like me



But if you violate me I'm cut-throat about it