Wtf is the point of having female friends if

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I'm going thru something similar rn

I met a girl about a month ago at a ceremony , we hooked up that night and she came over to my spot . We took a shower together and was kissing, touching all night butt ass naked . we didn't smash cuz she said she wasn't "romantically attracted to me" but we chilled the whole next day on some couple shyt.

she helped me with my photo biz, give me energy readings ,,, said she views me as a "best friend" .. we aint suppose to be romantically involved, we suppose to be "close friends" something like that

i asked her how she feel about me and first thought that came to her is "she loves me" ,, but she dont wanna be close because the company I keep, life I live, etc

she said she got a reading from her godmother and she told her don't mess with me ,, I use to run the street life (not no more), so her father said don't mess with me either

so I fell back ,, I started focusing on me and healing my heart from what seems to be wasted time and energy ,,, and since I started focusing on me , she lowkey feeling some type of way cuz I'm not communicating with her how I once was .. but in the back of mind im saying "she dont want me 'romantically' so why spend a bunch of energy if it aint going anywhere. we friends"

she still answers my calls when I call her , she wanna barter biz trades when she in town .. we suppose to be just "friends" but we had a deep level of intimacy when we first met (her words not mine). she left town that weekend we met , and we suppose to be meeting again this weekend when she get back

@junie @bourgeoisie tall freak @Seoul Gleou somebody make it make sense , cuz I'm tryna get over it
 

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they just get jealous when you shoot your shot around them. :what:

one of my close friends is female. zero attraction to her and she's been dating and fukking with other people, asking for advice on brehs, and all that bullshyt. i do the same with her; ask about advice for girls and female perspective

i go out with her and some other friends, she introduces me to one of her co-workers...who she told me was single and had a hard time finding quality men. So i'm thinking "thanks homegirl. let me eat":mjlit:

i start flirting with her co-worker, she's giggling, i'm getting closer and closer to slamming ass :blessed:

then all of a sudden, i look to my friend and she's looking like :demonic:. i go over and ask her what's up? she says "nothing". but it's that "nothing" women say when you know they're furious. :lupe:

i wrap it up with her co-worker and get her number :hubie:


come to find out my friend didn't want me fukkin around with her single co-worker. i ask if it's cause i'd fukk up her work relationship?:jbhmm::ohhh:

she tells me no. that she's just uncomfortable with me flirting with women like that in front of her:gucci::dwillhuh:


i'm not the simp she has in her back pocket to settle with after she's done hoeing. she knows that. so why be jealous/uncomfortable if you don't like me like that?

maybe men and women really cant be friends:mjcry:
Because she doesn’t so stop fukking with her. Never underestimate a woman’s ability to overestimate her place with you.
 
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I'm going thru something similar rn
I met a girl about a month ago at a ceremony , we hooked up that night and she came over to my spot . We took a shower together and was kissing, touching all night butt ass naked . we didn't smash cuz she said she wasn't "romantically attracted to me" but we chilled the whole next day on some couple shyt.she helped me with my photo biz, give me energy readings ,,, said she views me as a "best friend" .. we aint suppose to be romantically involved, we suppose to be "close friends" something like that. i asked her how she feel about me and first thought that came to her is "she loves me" ,, but she dont wanna be close because the company I keep, life I live, etc
she said she got a reading from her godmother and she told her don't mess with me ,, I use to run the street life (not no more), so her father said don't mess with me either so I fell back ,, I started focusing on me and healing my heart from what seems to be wasted time and energy ,,, and since I started focusing on me , she lowkey feeling some type of way cuz I'm not communicating with her how I once was .. but in the back of mind im saying "she dont want me 'romantically' so why spend a bunch of energy if it aint going anywhere. we friends" she still answers my calls when I call her , she wanna barter biz trades when she in town .. we suppose to be just "friends" but we had a deep level of intimacy when we first met (her words not mine). she left town that weekend we met , and we suppose to be meeting again this weekend when she get back

@junie @bourgeoisie tall freak @Seoul Gleou somebody make it make sense , cuz I'm tryna get over it

sounds like a whole mind fukk bro. im not gonna even try to make it make sense lol
 

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I'm going thru something similar rn

I met a girl about a month ago at a ceremony , we hooked up that night and she came over to my spot . We took a shower together and was kissing, touching all night butt ass naked . we didn't smash cuz she said she wasn't "romantically attracted to me" but we chilled the whole next day on some couple shyt.

she helped me with my photo biz, give me energy readings ,,, said she views me as a "best friend" .. we aint suppose to be romantically involved, we suppose to be "close friends" something like that

i asked her how she feel about me and first thought that came to her is "she loves me" ,, but she dont wanna be close because the company I keep, life I live, etc

she said she got a reading from her godmother and she told her don't mess with me ,, I use to run the street life (not no more), so her father said don't mess with me either

so I fell back ,, I started focusing on me and healing my heart from what seems to be wasted time and energy ,,, and since I started focusing on me , she lowkey feeling some type of way cuz I'm not communicating with her how I once was .. but in the back of mind im saying "she dont want me 'romantically' so why spend a bunch of energy if it aint going anywhere. we friends"

she still answers my calls when I call her , she wanna barter biz trades when she in town .. we suppose to be just "friends" but we had a deep level of intimacy when we first met (her words not mine). she left town that weekend we met , and we suppose to be meeting again this weekend when she get back

@junie @bourgeoisie tall freak @Seoul Gleou somebody make it make sense , cuz I'm tryna get over it

Why are you wasting your time breh? She's probably taken. If you can't see that then I don't know what to tell you. Some women will use you for attention when they can't get the men they really want OR they only entertain you when they get into a fight with the guy they are currently seeing. It doesn't mean she truly wants you. Something could possibly blossom between you two but it doesn't sound convincing right now. And why would you even consider messing with a woman who is into energy readings and fortune telling? Will not end well.
 

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I'm going thru something similar rn

I met a girl about a month ago at a ceremony , we hooked up that night and she came over to my spot . We took a shower together and was kissing, touching all night butt ass naked . we didn't smash cuz she said she wasn't "romantically attracted to me" but we chilled the whole next day on some couple shyt.

she helped me with my photo biz, give me energy readings ,,, said she views me as a "best friend" .. we aint suppose to be romantically involved, we suppose to be "close friends" something like that

i asked her how she feel about me and first thought that came to her is "she loves me" ,, but she dont wanna be close because the company I keep, life I live, etc

she said she got a reading from her godmother and she told her don't mess with me ,, I use to run the street life (not no more), so her father said don't mess with me either

so I fell back ,, I started focusing on me and healing my heart from what seems to be wasted time and energy ,,, and since I started focusing on me , she lowkey feeling some type of way cuz I'm not communicating with her how I once was .. but in the back of mind im saying "she dont want me 'romantically' so why spend a bunch of energy if it aint going anywhere. we friends"

she still answers my calls when I call her , she wanna barter biz trades when she in town .. we suppose to be just "friends" but we had a deep level of intimacy when we first met (her words not mine). she left town that weekend we met , and we suppose to be meeting again this weekend when she get back

@junie @bourgeoisie tall freak @Seoul Gleou somebody make it make sense , cuz I'm tryna get over it
nah breh, she aint it.

keep focusing on yourself cause she's flighty and won't expend the same energy you expend. she defo wants to keep you in the pocket for something serious, but you shouldnt be what she settles for breh. if she really didnt want to be with you romantically, she'd communicate that through her actions, too. not just her words. cause she says one thing but acts another way.

bush her imo :ld:

You should treat it as an insult.
interesting take. why? :lupe:
 

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zero attraction breh. if i wanted to fukk, we would have fukked by now :ld:


thing is, she's usually very positive. we're friends cause she's an optimist and sees the good in most things.
didnt expect this reaction from my friend :mjcry:

don’t change what you’re doing. If she see you hollering in her presence then maybe she should use this pandemic as an opportunity to work on her glow up unless she’s a lost cause. On the other hand, use her for money in exchange for faux companionship. The new PS5 is coming. Dont be left out in the cold.
 
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