Wtf is the point of having female friends if

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She finally realized she in love with you:ehh:

How many times have you shot your shot in front of her before?

probably 3 or 4 times? all those times, she's been in a relationship so she didn't give a fukk

:mjlol:nikka if you don't get this corny humble brag shyt outta here

You friend zone some chick who wanted you talmbout I don't get why she got upset yall

Why she get jealous yall

We're friends cause she's an optimist :troll:

are you upset, beloved? brehs that really get bytches tend not to brag about it. im just venting to some strangers on the internet cause you'll all forget this in an hour or two and maybe give some interesting perspectives before you do :ehh:

How did y’all initially meet ? Did you try to smash/any past attraction?

One of my best friends is a female . We never had any sexual attraction being pursued so relationship has always been solid. She done hooked me up with a few of her cousins & home girls :manny:
we met through my a mutual friend's ex a few years ago. met her at a halloween party. i did try to smash when i first saw her; thought she was bad as hell. she was dating someone at the time so i backed off

Prolly cause she’s not really your friend. You’re most likely akin to a time hoe.

Friendzoned. She wants you to be her platonic “boyfriend” - very toxic. I’d stop messing with her, she showed her true colors.

But you most likely won’t, so deal with it:manny:

i have no problem with being in the friendzone. but let's keep me in there and not catch feelings cause im tryna smash a co-worker man:picard:
 

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probably 3 or 4 times? all those times, she's been in a relationship so she didn't give a fukk



are you upset, beloved? brehs that really get bytches tend not to brag about it. im just venting to some strangers on the internet cause you'll all forget this in an hour or two and maybe give some interesting perspectives before you do :ehh:


we met through my a mutual friend's ex a few years ago. met her at a halloween party. i did try to smash when i first saw her; thought she was bad as hell. she was dating someone at the time so i backed off



i have no problem with being in the friendzone. but let's keep me in there and not catch feelings cause im tryna smash a co-worker man:picard:

You just answered my question she definitely caught feelings nothing burns a woman more to see you getting play. It's classic romantic comedy plot.
 
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male friends are like that too, i have about half and half.
if you really friends (like friend friend, not phony acquaintance type) it wont be an issue though, you just laugh at em lol
but that's if you really friends. op sounds like a borderline mindfukk :francis:
 
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we met through my a mutual friend's ex a few years ago. met her at a halloween party. i did try to smash when i first saw her; thought she was bad as hell. she was dating someone at the time so i backed off
There you go . How you meet will always dictate a relationship. This will always be an elephant in the room type issue . She prob does have some sexual feelings for you but also values your friendship. Tough spot but that’s what happens when your initial interaction is sexual .

Me & my homegirl met through an old job & hit it off immediately. No tryna smash etc ..solely just friends & it’s been like that ever since. So we can always talk to each other about the other sex or hook the other up :manny:
 

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I had a similar situation where me and home girl were friends since elementary. Saw her more like a sister than anything.

And this bytch would randomly cock block anytime we was at the same party etc. :gucci: So weird. She would be be perfectly nice to me otherwise.

There was one time where this girl I was feelin went to her and asked about me and she told her that I was a headache and to stay away and all this other shyt. Only found out about this sometime later after me and that girl hit it off anyway.

Not only did I bush her but I went out of my way to make sure mutual friends didn't invite her places. Nobody got time for that two faced shyt
 
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probably 3 or 4 times? all those times, she's been in a relationship so she didn't give a fukk



are you upset, beloved? brehs that really get bytches tend not to brag about it. im just venting to some strangers on the internet cause you'll all forget this in an hour or two and maybe give some interesting perspectives before you do :ehh:


i have no problem with being in the friendzone. but let's keep me in there and not catch feelings cause im tryna smash a co-worker man:picard:
Yep, you gotta let her know how things really are bc she obviously doesn’t see you as just a friend, breh.

She shouldn’t think of crossing your boundaries like that as a true friend.
 

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male friends are like that too, i have about half and half.
if you really friends it wont be an issue though, you just laugh at em lol
facts. ngl :hubie:

when i was younger i was definitely on some simp shyt. was friends with girls i had feelings for and didnt do shyt about it. :mjcry:

There you go . How you meet will always dictate a relationship. This will always be an elephant in the room type issue . She prob does have some sexual feelings for you but also values your friendship. Tough spot but that’s what happens when your initial interaction is sexual .

Me & my homegirl met through an old job & hit it off immediately. No tryna smash etc ..solely just friends & it’s been like that ever since. So we can always talk to each other about the other sex or hook the other up :manny:
i dont think i'll make a big deal out of this. but if it happens again, we have to talk about it or stop talking to each other
 
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facts. ngl :hubie:when i was younger i was definitely on some simp shyt. was friends with girls i had feelings for and didnt do shyt about it. :mjcry:

not trying to smash everything in sight doesn't make you a simp bro :heh:
some you win, some you lose but you should still generally treat people like your parent raised you right. even if it means being nice to girls :tongue:
 

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I had a similar situation where me and home girl were friends since elementary. Saw her more like a sister than anything.

And this bytch would randomly cock block anytime we was at the same party etc. :gucci: So weird. She would be be perfectly nice to me otherwise.

There was one time where this girl I was feelin went to her and asked about me and she told her that I was a headache and to stay away and all this other shyt. Only found out about this sometime later after me and that girl hit it off anyway.

Not only did I bush her but I went out of my way to make sure mutual friends didn't invite her places. Nobody got time for that two faced shyt
She was never a real friend
 

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probably 3 or 4 times? all those times, she's been in a relationship so she didn't give a fukk



are you upset, beloved? brehs that really get bytches tend not to brag about it. im just venting to some strangers on the internet cause you'll all forget this in an hour or two and maybe give some interesting perspectives before you do :ehh:


we met through my a mutual friend's ex a few years ago. met her at a halloween party. i did try to smash when i first saw her; thought she was bad as hell. she was dating someone at the time so i backed off



i have no problem with being in the friendzone. but let's keep me in there and not catch feelings cause im tryna smash a co-worker man:picard:

That's the answer. She isn't in a relationship so seeing you get some play while she is burning her up. If she had a man or some guy was in your face she wouldn't be sweating you at all. Its female logic and it doesn't make sense but it does to them
 

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breh she wants it from you that’s why she being territorial

:russ:brehs in here telling you to drop your friendship with her. go hit that my g you got a green light
 

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You said you have zero attraction to her yet when you first met her you thought she was bad as hell? Please explain this :jbhmm:

Honestly she was never a friend. She wants all your time and attention. Don't feel flattered because this is the type of woman that will try to ruin any relationships you have with other women and can eventually ruin your life. You've been warned.
 
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