Would You Seriously Date and/or Marry A "Pick Me?"

[Neuromancer]

Get this LSA fukkshyt the fukk up outta here you problematic ass guttersnipe

 

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But the definition of a "Pick Me" isn't even that of a woman who agrees with EVERYTHING a man says. The term comes from Twitter feminists who would sooner label a woman who thinks "Not all Black Men are trash" as a "Pick Me" than a Coli dude would label a dude who thinks "Not all women aren't good for nothing golddiggers" a simp or Male Feminists. You'd be labeled a "Pick Me" by some of the women who use the term on Twitter everyday.

Ironically I have been labeled a pick me by women while being called a flaming bytch by men.

LMAO! Bless em all but I just don't care. I made a promise to me when I had to start paying all these damn bills in life that I work too hard to lie to myself or anybody else. That means women are gonna be full of shyt sometimes. It also means men are worthless sometimes. There are people I will agree with in one thread and then think is totally off the mark on a different topic. Such is life. That's not "pick me"ism. That's people not being able to handle me playing devils advocate.

True gender pandering, simping, pick meism is a sign of insecurity that manifests itself as a need to earn approval from the opposite sex by agreeing and fighting harder for others than they do for themselves. And yeah looks factor into it b/c if they feel undesirable they are hoping to agree their way into somebody's pants.

Laughably they are using niceness and agreeability as an aggressive verb hoping it'll be a cheat code.
But it almost NEVER works like that. You'll literally be the most agreeable person ever and get ignored. People are attracted to dynamic individuals who are true to themselves. Panderers don't get that and become frustrated and bitter when it don't work out, or they learn later in life when they say fukk it Im just gon be me.

You ever met anybody who went thru that process?

 

[Critical Distance]

shyt on other bw, brehettes.

 

[Fandroid]

Men love bad chicks, crazy p*ssy, all of that. They like trying to tame these chicks. Dudes will give lip service to pick mes but the majority of dudes who married or cuffed literally got drug through an emotional gauntlet by some chick either in that relationship or in a previous one. It's just a part of life. U live and u learn. I also think that's why divorce rates are so high these days. People mistaking the "excitement" factor for what makes a good stable relationship.

Trying to cuff "free-spirit" p*ssy. Turning hoes into housewives. Lmao! You can praise and agree with pick mes all day long but ur dikk say something completely different.

Or maybe u one of those unicorn reasonable dudes who seeks simplicity and peace in the tumultuous early years of his life, instead of appreciating good chicks when he 80, got worms, and got reamed by several chicks economically after divorces and baby traps.

Stay safe bro. bytches be crazy outchea these days and crazy nikkas love em.

That's a lot of generalizations, ma'am.

 

[keon]

Has the op ever been in a relationship longer than 2-3 years?

 

[Biscayne]

Ironically I have been labeled a pick me by women while being called a flaming bytch by men.

LMAO! Bless em all but I just don't care. I made a promise to me when I had to start paying all these damn bills in life that I work too hard to lie to myself or anybody else. That means women are gonna be full of shyt sometimes. It also means men are worthless sometimes. There are people I will agree with in one thread and then think is totally off the mark on a different topic. Such is life. That's not "pick me"ism. That's people not being able to handle me playing devils advocate.

True gender pandering, simping, pick meism is a sign of insecurity that manifests itself as a need to earn approval from the opposite sex by agreeing and fighting harder for others than they do for themselves. And yeah looks factor into it b/c if they feel undesirable they are hoping to agree their way into somebody's pants.

Laughably they are using niceness and agreeability as an aggressive verb hoping it'll be a cheat code.
But it almost NEVER works like that. You'll literally be the most agreeable person ever and get ignored. People are attracted to dynamic individuals who are true to themselves. Panderers don't get that and become frustrated and bitter when it don't work out, or they learn later in life when they say fukk it Im just gon be me.

You ever met anybody who went thru that process?

I went through that process.....to a degree.

 

[xoxodede]

What about her?

I say yeah...



Shanice Blackmon
July 29 at 8:49am ·
Women, aint no excuses when it comes to cooking and cleaning for your man. If you sleeping with him you need to be cooking and cleaning for him.

And keep the comment "ain't no ring on my finger" to yourself because there wasn't a ring on your finger to get in them panties.

 

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I went through that process.....to a degree.

(Whispers real loudly) we all have.

That's the TRUE hoe phase. The people trying to deny it have stayed there the longest. They come out crazier in the end b/c of the denial.

Everybody learns at their own pace to be true to themselves and get somebody who loves them for that in their own time. But on the way to coming into themselves there's all KINDS of fukkery. It's just a beautiful part of life.

 

[xoxodede]

Has the op ever been in a relationship longer than 2-3 years?

Yes I have no issues in that department or relationships. I'm happy

 

[Canon]

Just like men will tell other men that simping won't get u p*ssy. It's the same dynamic here.

no its really not

a breh will have zero problems with an agreeable chick

 

[315]

wrong thread

 

[thewarrior05]

(Whispers real loudly) we all have.

That's the TRUE hoe phase. The people trying to deny it have stayed there the longest. They come out crazier in the end b/c of the denial.

Everybody learns at their own pace to be true to themselves and get somebody who loves them for that in their own time. But on the way to coming into themselves there's all KINDS of fukkery. It's just a beautiful part of life.

Wait all chicks go through hoe phases nooooooooooooo.........................................................................

 

[Neuromancer]

How does this effect you OP? And I mean to say, what dog have you in this fight?

 

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no its really not

a breh will have zero problems with an agreeable chick

A woman won't have a problem with a panderer either.

And still not want them physically or even be turned on by them.

It isn't that men hate pick mes. It's that they don't deal with them honestly. They use them as mouthpieces while fukking/cuffing/pursuing and ironically pandering to chicks polar opposite of them.

It's a mean game ya'll playing. And that's why when these types snap they SNAP. It's because they actually believe ya'll and by the time they finish molding themselves into a perfect version of what you said u wanted, ur dikk got u on something else.

Such is life and these types unfortunately learn later than others.

Men and women I will tell u again: YOU CANT NICE AND AGREE YOUR WAY INTO SOMEBODY's HEART OR BETWEEN THEIR LEGS!

Ya'll trolling folks out here but I ain't trying to have people plotting mall shootings b/c he/she believed that they was entitled to love b/c they agree. Ya'll so mean. And I know why people insist on paying lip service b/c it a form of gender protection. But these people being used outchea and that's just cruel.

 

[RoyalQ]

Ironically I have been labeled a pick me by women while being called a flaming bytch by men.

LMAO! Bless em all but I just don't care. I made a promise to me when I had to start paying all these damn bills in life that I work too hard to lie to myself or anybody else. That means women are gonna be full of shyt sometimes. It also means men are worthless sometimes. There are people I will agree with in one thread and then think is totally off the mark on a different topic. Such is life. That's not "pick me"ism. That's people not being able to handle me playing devils advocate.

True gender pandering, simping, pick meism is a sign of insecurity that manifests itself as a need to earn approval from the opposite sex by agreeing and fighting harder for others than they do for themselves. And yeah looks factor into it b/c if they feel undesirable they are hoping to agree their way into somebody's pants.

Laughably they are using niceness and agreeability as an aggressive verb hoping it'll be a cheat code.
But it almost NEVER works like that. You'll literally be the most agreeable person ever and get ignored. People are attracted to dynamic individuals who are true to themselves. Panderers don't get that and become frustrated and bitter when it don't work out, or they learn later in life when they say fukk it Im just gon be me.

You ever met anybody who went thru that process?

this. pick me people are insecure both the men and woman that do it. They say these things hoping to earn brownie points and land some p*ssy or get a ring. 9.9/10 they never get either. They waste their lives away trying to be perfect to the opposite sex. By the time they realize that shyt dont work they are up there in age and their dating pool is much smaller. Your better off being yourself