Would You Seriously Date and/or Marry A "Pick Me?"

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DaPresident said:
You actually bring up an interesting topic. The "Pick Me" or "Get Wits" as we used to call them in the DMV area


They say or do anything to stay in good graces/gain favor with whomever they are speaking with. Dudes do this too, and not just in romantic relationships...People do this to get/gain friends or acceptance


Back to what you wrote, I think these types are easy to spot. They agree with stuff that they should honestly be looking at with a side eye. It's like they pander to you for favor and that usually isn't hard to tell.

Your assessment of them ("just cute" "usually overweight" etc) to me, was spot on
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nikka none of that corny twotter shyt is used out here. Kill yaself
 
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thewarrior05 said:
Wait all chicks go through hoe phases nooooooooooooo.........................................................................
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It's got less to do with sex and more to do with disillusionment, namely addressing the idea that if u follow all the rules you'll always get what you want.

Which is bullshyt. And it's a phase EVERYBODY goes through. Some people still in it but don't even know it b/c they in denial. Life has a way of confounding every sensibility. And I think it's by design to make sure we never stop growing. Which is a crazy kind of beautiful if u think about it...
I love the playfulness of it. Just when u think u got it all figured out, transcendent life claps back with some:troll::lolbron:

You can either fight it and get mad as hell or deny it and keep doing the same shyt.

Or u can love it and laugh with it while growing.:lolbron:
 
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Booksnrain said:
It's got less to do with sex and more to do with disillusionment, namely addressing the idea that if u follow all the rules you'll always get what you want.

Which is bullshyt. And it's a phase EVERYBODY goes through. Some people still in it but don't even know it b/c they in denial. Life has a way of confounding every sensibility. And I think it's by design to make sure we never stop growing. Which is a crazy kind of beautiful if u think about it...
I love the playfulness of it. Just when u think u got it all figured out, transcendent life claps back with some:troll::lolbron:

You can either fight it and get mad as hell or deny it and keep doing the same shyt.

Or u can love it and laugh with it while growing.:lolbron:
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Im sorry I was alittle sorry on the first paragraph explain it again my bad
 
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pick me's are the female equivalent to simps. the same way a simp says "every man should wait months or even years, however long it is until a woman decides to give you some. And you should shower her with expensive gifts to show her you are worthy of her affection" and the entire coli universe bushes him. its like a pick me saying "every woman should give p*ssy on command, whenever wherever and do any freaky shyt and threesomes to satisfy him. And you should cook everything he asks you too cook" and black women bush her ass. See in both cases the opposite sex may applaud them and say how perfect they are and all men/women should be just like them, but for some reason these simps/pickmes are chronically single or cant hold onto a relationship for more than a few weeks or months. So everyone is telling them how perfect they are but they never get the results they are looking for. That usually turns into anger and resentment
 
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Fandroid said:
That's a lot of generalizations, ma'am.
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LMAO! I know babe but it's true. Men and women in idealistic youth think they can save the world!

You don't think women do this shyt too?! Lmao! Ever seen a chick who got her life together with a complete and utter bum?

On some :usure: shyt! She legit thinks her Jesus p*ssy can save him while he sitting up there thinking...you don't change the devil. The devil change you:pachaha:

It's the folly of youth and that's a good thing b/c sometimes we do save people. Sometimes young male and female idealism transforms people, places, the world.

But most of the time it doesn't and you learn some real life lessons so that u don't keep being an idiot in the next 3rd of ur life.:pachaha:

But these pick mes and panderers never learn those lessons. Firstly b/c they hiding behind their niceness and agreeability. They hiding a gut, laziness, social awkwardness, weirdness, daddy issues, mommy issues...they hiding a lot of pain and getting acceptance b/c some of these selfish fukks enable these types JUST b/c they wanna hear what they wanna hear.

But once blk male egos have been stroked and blk female worship has been temporary sated, people are going after what they pussies and dikks want. And the pick mes and simps that were enabled are standing around on the sidelines left with nothing but the same problems they had before.

Stop using these people and tell them the truth. Work on you so you don't have to kiss people's asses. That's all.:manny:
 
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RoyalQ said:
pick me's are the female equivalent to simps. the same way a simp says "every man should wait months or even years, however long it is until a woman decides to give you some. And you should shower her with expensive gifts to show her you are worthy of her affection" and the entire coli universe bushes him. its like a pick me saying "every woman should give p*ssy on command, whenever wherever and do any freaky shyt and threesomes to satisfy him. And you should cook everything he asks you too cook" and black women bush her ass. See in both cases the opposite sex may applaud them and say how perfect they are and all men/women should be just like them, but for some reason these simps/pickmes are chronically single or cant hold onto a relationship for more than a few weeks or months. So everyone is telling them how perfect they are but they never get the results they are looking for. That usually turns into anger and resentment
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Right! Seems obvious to me but people on code here and this is dangerous close to exposing finesse so I get why people acting slow.

On some yo keep ur voices down type shyt. Ya'll so wrong!:lolbron::russ:
 
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