women that hyphen their name are disrespectful

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i personally couldnt care less about a spouse taking my name, my kids will take my name, but she can keep hers. i would probably prefer it. keep your fukking religion and your name and shyt, i prefer to keep that level of independence and distance, i wouldnt trust someone i don't raise or am blood relative with, with my last name
 

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As long as they dont try that shyt with the kids' names. That is the shyt I cant go for:birdman:

They get my last name and my last name ONLY or im not signing that fukkin birth certificate:ufdup:

I don't mind her keeping/hyphenating her name.......

But BEST BELIEVE any kids we have; they're gonna be getting my last name. That shyt is NON-NEGOTIABLE.

honestly i really could care less if they wanna keep there own name... as long as the kids have my name thats all that realy matters

i personally couldnt care less about a spouse taking my name, my kids will take my name, but she can keep hers. i would probably prefer it. keep your fukking religion and your name and shyt, i prefer to keep that level of independence and distance, i wouldnt trust someone i don't raise or am blood relative with, with my last name

Basically all this...and please believe, when introducing the family, I'll make it a point to introduce myself and my child by OUR last names and my wife by HER last name since they're different after all. :skip:

Beautiful Younger Childless Female Co-worker: "Is there a Mrs. (My Last Name)? :shaq:
Me: "Well...technically, no...:mjpls: ...but I am legally married."
 

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Melissa Harris Perry and Hillary Rodham Clinton are the perfect examples of this.

So disgusting.

:scusthov:
 

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This is the problem: most women don't want to admit to themselves that they're just a regular woman. They're an average citizen. Every woman wants to feel like she's a star...an exception.

God forbid someone just exist as they were made.

But women today have to feel like they're a bigger deal than their reality. And that's a shame.

But nikkas still demand prenups, even though they weren't shyt before they got married. :stopitslime:
 

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So is an an engagement ring. Women kill me with this crap

Man, shut up.

Here you hypocrite ass nikkas go again. You talk all day and all night about how a woman MUST take your last name or else that says she's not invested in the marriage, yet you turn around and demand a prenup, as if that's not a sign that YOU'RE not invested in the marriage.

So tell me why it's ok for you to have one foot out the door, but not her? :stopitslime:
 

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Man, shut up.

Here you hypocrite ass nikkas go again. You talk all day and all night about how a woman MUST take your last name or else that says she's not invested in the marriage, yet you turn around and demand a prenup, as if that's not a sign that YOU'RE not invested in the marriage.

So tell me why it's ok for you to have one foot out the door, but not her? :stopitslime:
all marriages have prenuptial agreements. when you get married and sign the legal documents, you're basically signing the default prenup provided by the state. you can either make a custom prenup or sign the default.
 

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Are you people seriously comparing changing a name to prenups and DNA tests? :what:

How do you not get the clear difference between the two?

Yes, all of them can be interpreted as a sign of lack of trust/dedication to the marriage, but if the woman trusts a man and takes his name, and things don't work out, she can just change her name back. Big deal.

If the man [especially if he earns more money] trusts a woman, marries her without a prenup, accepts what comes out of her vagina as his kid without a DNA test.........and then things don't work out and they split, that's a huge risk. Not only is he risking losing half of his money and his future earnings to a woman who has probably already moved on to the next guy [and she probably didn't even stay married to him for that long], but if one of those kids she spewed out turns out to not be his after all, he most likely will still have to pay for that kid, which of course she'll most likely have custody of.

The nerve of some of you women, to be trying to keep your name during a marriage. If you're one of those women, then you'd better not have one damn thing to say when the guy pushes that prenup in your face, or when he asks for that DNA test.
 

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Who really gives a shyt? If you're marrying the girl, you should know who the hell she is and what the hell she wants. If it bothers you that much, you aren't forced to marry her. But this is from someone who doesn't really care about this subject or marriage as a whole.
 

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women that hyphen their name are disrespectful


nah, her name is her name :yeshrug:


hyphenated baby names, though, not happening :usure:
 

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women that hyphen their name are disrespectful


nah, her name is her name :yeshrug:


hyphenated baby names, though, not happening :usure:
i still didn't get a clear answer if you have any legal rights on what name your children will have...conflicting answers from different people.
 

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Exactly. I have a friend who is an attorney and she didn't change her name period. If she did she'd have to change every single legal document with her name listed on it, every single court/district she is registered to practice in and a lot of other ish. That is time consuming and expensive as hell.


Exactly. It's too much damn work:ld:
 
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