women that hyphen their name are disrespectful

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There is nothing wrong with this. I grew up in a family of strong women and I owe any capacity I have to understand women to my mother and big sister. They taught me to respect women in a way where I've always felt a strong emotional connection to women.
 

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My mom kept her last name, but that was more of an african tradition, i never thought twice about it
 

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Me too. That's why any man who allows it is a p*ssy in my opinion. I don't care if your father didn't have any sons, oh well, you're taking my last name.

It's chick out here dying to get wifed up and some women have the nerve to say they won't take their husbands last name. Once again, I blame the men tho

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been saying it for years
 

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There is nothing wrong with this. I grew up in a family of strong women and I owe any capacity I have to understand women to my mother and big sister. They taught me to respect women in a way where I've always felt a strong emotional connection to women.

Still dont feel like she 100% sold
 

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There is nothing wrong with this. I grew up in a family of strong women and I owe any capacity I have to understand women to my mother and big sister. They taught me to respect women in a way where I've always felt a strong emotional connection to women.

And what did you father teach you about being a man :nonikkas:?

Both my mom and pops would DDT me if I ever did some shyt like that.
 

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Exactly. I have a friend who is an attorney and she didn't change her name period. If she did she'd have to change every single legal document with her name listed on it, every single court/district she is registered to practice in and a lot of other ish. That is time consuming and expensive as hell.

Don't get married then. A lot of things are time consuming and expensive as hell when it comes to marriage. I can understand why some women want to keep their last names but you're starting the marriage off with a whole bunch of criticism on the way.

I can see it now. Mom dukes of the groom sayin "Baby, why that heffer aint take the family name?" :usure: Plus it just leads to general confusion when you're introducing yourself to people, etc.

But dudes gotta take that stance. I remember my ex in college talking about it would be a hassle with all the research she her name on during her Ph.D to take my last name and the confusion it would lead to. Then I asked my last gf the same question and she was like "That shyt aint a big deal. People can still trace me back to the research papers I wrote"

That means somebody lyin. :mjpls:
 

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ultimately i agree with Coco Loco. Why are we so worried about what other people choose to do? no one is being forced into anything.

IF i get married, you better believe my wife AND my kids will take my name. this is non-negotiable and i will leave a chick over this. She is always free to leave and choose someone who will accept the fact that she will keep her name, and if she finds a guy like this, more power to her. Either way, when she's gone, it doesn't concern me anymore what the next man will put up with.

If it's really important to you (like it is to me) but you still accept to marry her/compromise because keeping her is more important, then you're a bytch and a lame. Don't blame her for your bytchassness. If you know how you'll deal with your future wife, why do you even care if the next woman does something that goes against your values? Let them be, either they'll find some guy who has the same values, or they'll find a bytch nikka who will let her win that one OR they'll end up alone and unhappy. But either way, why care?
 

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This is the problem: most women don't want to admit to themselves that they're just a regular woman. They're an average citizen. Every woman wants to feel like she's a star...an exception.

God forbid someone just exist as they were made.

But women today have to feel like they're a bigger deal than their reality. And that's a shame.

So true. That what happens when women were raised on these gassed up R & B females as well as no good father around. When I ever get married, my wife is taking my last name and ESPECIALLY my kids will take my last name alone. End of Story :birdman:
 
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