Women Taking Too Long to Respond to Texts is Now a Deal Breaker for Me.

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

If you have all the qualities you claim to possess then surely the ratio of time-wasters to non time-wasters is such that most women can clearly see that you're a "top shelf dude", and don't waste your time, right?

These guys always tell on themselves because the evidence never lies. He is so insecure that he logs into the coli to make a thread to seek validation about his feelings. OP is the type of dude that is always tethered to his phone. He is the dude that is in a party full of women, looking at his phone waiting for that one woman to pay him the attention that he “deserves “.

In numbers, he receives advice to be patient and don’t overthink it. That’s too much for his insecurities to handle. Therefore, he cannot and doesn’t like the thought of being by himself or more importantly, men greater than himself. Being around women is the only way that he can feel “manly.

Don’t waste your breath. See his response to me laden with profane insults.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

I agree but if your generation had this same tech you’d be doing the same.

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying like it's some superiority thing. Hell, most of my generation IS like that even though we didn't grow up with it. It's the technology's fault and the corporation's fault, not the generation's fault. I've read these articles from the creators themselves about how they make it purposely addictive because they want to be able to control you.

“You youngins and them damn cellular devices”

The combination of what I read in the scientific research, what I see the VERY people who created this technology saying about it, and what I see in my own personal interactions gives me real reason for concern. Mental health issues, physical health issues, screwing up relationships, and basically giving over most of our time to the corporations.


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[Saysumthinfunnymike]

at 12 hours max. Y’all really on one if you think 12 hours is reasonable. 2 hours should be the max (watching a movie or taking a nap). Girls are on they phone 24/7 brehs. bytches be texting and driving brehs.

So if you text her at 9am and she don’t respond til 9pm She would of checked her phone over 100 times and still hasn’t text you back. Some of y’all really rookies to the game

i agree unless she works a job where they don't let u be on the phone, i see some places are like that now where they make people lock up their phones but still she woulda hit back on her lunch break or whatever

 

[phcitywarrior]

All I can say is, it depends.

 

[Deuterion]

If you have all the qualities you claim to possess then surely the ratio of time-wasters to non time-wasters is such that most women can clearly see that you're a "top shelf dude", and don't waste your time, right?

These guys always tell on themselves because the evidence never lies. He is so insecure that he logs into the coli to make a thread to seek validation about his feelings.

In numbers, he receives advice to be patient and don’t overthink it. That’s too much for his insecurities to handle. Therefore, he cannot and doesn’t like the thought of being by himself or more importantly, greater men. Being around women is the only way that he can feel “manly.

Don’t waste your breath. See his response to me laden with profane insults.

The entire premise is this. PUA logic tells you to keep low interest women in rotation because at the end of the day it’s an opportunity that may close sooner or later. I have naturally gotten to the point where I do not have the time or the patience to entertain low interest women, period. I was simply asking other men if they have gotten to that point too or do they still follow the PUA logic. The text message scenario the thread is based off of is an example of low interest 99% of the time which is why I brought it up. You guys would have a point if I asked “why is she not texting me?” or “do you think she has another man?” but I asked nothing of the sort. I just simply said “when she is lolly gagging do you bush the bytch or not cuz I do”.

 

[Matt504]

The entire premise is this. PUA logic tells you to keep low interest women in rotation because at the end of the day it’s an opportunity that may close sooner or later. I have naturally gotten to the point where I do not have the time or the patience to entertain low interest women, period. I was simply asking other men if they have gotten to that point too or do they still follow the PUA logic. The text message scenario the thread is based off of is an example of low interest 99% of the time which is why I brought it up. You guys would have a point if I asked “why is she not texting me?” or “do you think she has another man?” but I asked nothing of the sort. I just simply said “when she is lolly gagging do you bush the bytch or not cuz I do”.

Do yourself a favor and abandon PUA logic and distance yourself from anyone who preaches it.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying like it's some superiority thing. Hell, most of my generation IS like that even though we didn't grow up with it. It's the technology's fault and the corporation's fault, not the generation's fault.

It’s called, don’t sweat it. Do you think in our generation, people with beepers and pagers were strolling around with a Salvations Army kettle worth of coins in their pocket to return every page that came across their screen at every single time?

Did our parents have a machine that recorded messages so that they could screen calls and filter which messages they would respond to in order of importance? Technology has always played a part of our lives. OP is having a tantrum because he isn’t important enough at this moment to a woman that he really likes.

He doesn’t like that thought so he needs validation from other people who engage in irrational behavior.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

The entire premise is this. PUA logic tells you to keep low interest women in rotation because at the end of the day it’s an opportunity that may close sooner or later. I have naturally gotten to the point where I do not have the time or the patience to entertain low interest women, period. I was simply asking other men if they have gotten to that point too or do they still follow the PUA logic. The text message scenario the thread is based off of is an example of low interest 99% of the time which is why I brought it up. You guys would have a point if I asked “why is she not texting me?” or “do you think she has another man?” but I asked nothing of the sort. I just simply said “when she is lolly gagging do you bush the bytch or not cuz I do”.

Learn how to eat the fish, and toss the bones my man.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Oops

 

[Suge Knight]

I text multiple women a day, and keep my day moving...

I'm a older cat, so I'm never on my phone.. I prefer phone calls over texts...

Word to the wise, all these females play games and wanna see how far they can push you. Show em no emotions.

 

[Deuterion]

Wonderful Don't let these bytches control you. Even if you're working on a big case, you telling me you've never looked at your phone once during the day? How are your colleagues or you boss in contact with you? You telling me that you don't check your phone during lunch? Bush her.

So the shorty I was talkin’ bout responded back to me this morning (about a half a day later) to confirm plans for today. I told her I made other plans which is true cuz I’m about to scrub my place from head to toe and make a big ass pot of Posole. Now if we proceed she knows what kinda dude I am and that she needs to be punctual and responsive or she will get bushed. I don’t know in what alternate reality this is considered being insecure but that ain’t a reality I want to exist in.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

I text multiple women a day, and keep my day moving...

I'm a older cat, so I'm never on my phone.. I prefer phone calls over texts...

Word to the wise, all these females play games and wanna see how far they can push you. Show em no emotions.

It's probably good that you're not too addicted to your phone, considering your situation and all.

 

[Gravity]

You better get your girl password..

You need to get a girl period......but that’s even if you’re into girls because you sound 1 of these male “girlfriends”.

UNASAMEDLY THIRSTY = bein

YOU said

If I wanted to say “hyper sexual” I would’ve said it. You’re the only one using that term. “Thirsty” is exactly what I meant and yes it’s disturbing how black men fawn/simp over women on the internet. If you don’t like me saying that then it’s too bad you punk motherfukker. You can’t do shyt about it but troll. So keep trolling fakkit.

 

[Astroslik]

So the shorty I was talkin’ bout responded back to me this morning (about a half a day later) to confirm plans for today. I told her I made other plans which is true cuz I’m about to scrub my place from head to toe and make a big ass pot of Posole. Now if we proceed she knows what kinda dude I am and that she needs to be punctual and responsive or she will get bushed. I don’t know in what alternate reality this is considered being insecure but that ain’t a reality I want to exist in.

Af this point, fall back and don’t text her until she sets something up

 

[SheWantTheD]

And let’s keep it real. And let’s all be mature.

Do you think any woman would take hours to respond to someone like Trey Songz? Most women are hitting him back ASAP. (Except for women on Rihanna or Beyoncé’s level)

Now of course a small percentage of men are in his position. However, I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum. I used to be a heavy simp until I got to college. Once I learned how most of these women are, my game went up 90%.

You want the best advice on women? Watch a woman’s actions more than her words. They’ll lie to you about what they want in a man but their actions tend to be the complete antithesis. A man who has played the field will give you that realness on women.

I was messing with one dime whose phone would literally get a ping every minute. She had 100 unread messages from 100 different thirsty guys. She CHOSE who would get an immediate response. Some guys she wouldn’t respond to in weeks. And when she would respond it would be a “hey” or “cool.”

They have hierarchy of who they’ll respond to. Trust me. There’s no such thing as “busy” unless you’re low on her priorities.

All I can tell you men is that remember, YOU are the prize. She is replaceable. Do the initial hunting but make sure you remember you’re the king and she wants to stay in your castle.

Some women on here will dismiss what I’m saying for obvious reasons but you know I’m keeping it real with you.

Breh... I had this one bad shorty that ain't open or respond to my message on snapchat for like a whole week

I saw that shyt, i ain't even open her message for 3 weeks. And then one day I accidentally opened it. Now she stay chasing my validation, but I keep it trill.