Women Taking Too Long to Respond to Texts is Now a Deal Breaker for Me.

[360dagod]

Well a woman receiving messages from random cats on the internet who like her pics, is different from a woman receiving messages from men that shes actually met out in the world and taken the step of voluntarily exchanging numbers with. For whatever reason the internet makes black men unashamedly thirsty. You see it here on this site and its kinda disturbing. Chics who wouldnt make ppl look twice in real life can post touched up pics on the internet and gain a following.

The avg woman isnt talking to 5-10 men that shes actually met out in the world tho.

If the man messaging her thru social media was filtered thru her immediate social circle, that nikka wont be random for long

Social media is the internet barbeque..

 

[Gravity]

This is V E R Y



Why don’t you explain this before I neg you?

Let’s be real I’m very likely negging you for that racist ‘black men are hyper sexual’ BS that’s been used by the media and Hollywood forever to paint black men as aggressive and only operating on a basic instinctive primal level.

So wtf were you trying to say?

Motherfukk you and that corny shyt youre trying to run. I didnt say anything about black men beinf hypersexual. I said that black men are overly thirsty on the internet. Youre telling on yourself with that spin and you deserved to be slapped in that dikksucker you call a mouth.

If

If if was a fifth........


You're not saying shyt you just want to argue like a bytch.

 

[ATownD19]

I assume they're working or busy. As long as its within 24hrs its cool with me.



I use the phone/txt as a transition into more face to face meet ups. Light texting is cool, but I need to see her to build a good dialog when we first start dating.

I forgot to factor in age. Women my age (late 20's early 30s) are going to tend to have more going on than the demographic of women OP is referring to.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Nobody said its okay for them to do that....but the sooner you understand that women don't operate on logic, the better you will be able to accept these things. Its just how it is, not cause I like it...but i've accepted it because as a man there's no way I can try to prevent that without putting my dignity on the line.

You obviously want things one way, but they're obviously the other. So goodluck

Breh if you’re thinking “I better accept that the woman I’m in a monogamous relationship with is giving out her number to dudes on the street, that’s just how it is”

I have news for you:

A lot of women (and men) are trash and can’t be trusted and even in monogamous relationships behave like single people.

But NORMALLY in a healthy, happy relationship with good communication there is trust and this is not happening normally.

So if your ‘standard’ is that this will happen anyway in a relationship, it will because you won’t have nor show trust or she will just get sick of not being trusted.

You sound like a person screwed you over on some sneaky shyt and your trust is broken - which is understandable. But by being very aware of the principles of who you CHOOSE to date, you can relax and build trust with someone who would not behave like that.

 

[360dagod]

Motherfukk you and that corny shyt youre trying to run. I didnt say anything about black men beinf hypersexual. I said that black men are overly thirsty on the internet. Youre telling on yourself with that spin and you deserved to be slapped in that dikksucker you call a mouth.
If if was a fifth........


You're not saying shyt you just want to argue like a bytch.

You better get your girl password..

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Breh if you’re thinking “I better accept that the woman I’m in a monogamous relationship with is giving out her number to dudes on the street, that’s just how it is”

I have news for you:

A lot of women (and men) are trash and can’t be trusted and even in monogamous relationships behave like single people.

But NORMALLY in a healthy, happy relationship with good communication there is trust and this is not happening normally.

So if your ‘standard’ is that this will happen anyway in a relationship, it will because you won’t have nor show trust or she will just get sick of not being trusted.

You sound like a person screwed you over on some sneaky shyt and your trust is broken - which is understandable. But by being very aware of the principles of who you CHOOSE to date, you can relax and build trust with someone who would not behave like that.

By accepting I dont mean be her doormat. If you cant rock with a woman's actions......bush her and find somebody who will respect your wishes.

What that other breh was saying is that her giving out her number means she aint shyt. He failed to realise that some guys are not straight forward about their intentions and will try get her number by being friendly or acting as if he's trying to do business....until he finally texts and says what he REALLY wants. Expecting your woman to not give out her number AT ALL is being unrealistic and delusional. In fact it says more about you and you insecurities than about her loyalty.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Motherfukk you and that corny shyt youre trying to run. I didnt say anything about black men beinf hypersexual. I said that black men are overly thirsty on the internet. Youre telling on yourself with that spin and you deserved to be slapped in that dikksucker you call a mouth.

YOU said

For whatever reason the internet makes black men unashamedly thirsty.

And YOU said

It’s disturbing.

YOU.

UNASAMEDLY THIRSTY = being hypersexual. Please think and then write..


Now you low level dog piece of shyt, don’t you ever dare turning around your bullshyt on the people who point out YOUR bullshyt.

YOU of all people here made a post about BLACK MEN being UNASHAMEDLY THIRSTY.

YOU. You wrote that on a black website. Without being asked to do so.

You can yell and growl all you want, you paint black men with that brush all by yourself.

Getting angry doesn’t change that what you wrote was retarded and basically racist.

Oh and also:

Fukk you

 

[Flywin Lannister]

By accepting I dont mean be her doormat. If you cant rock with a woman's actions......bush her and find somebody who will respect your wishes.

What that other breh was saying is that her giving out her number means she aint shyt. He failed to realise that some guys are not straight forward about their intentions and will try get her number by being friendly or acting as if he's trying to do business....until he finally texts and says what he REALLY wants. Expecting your woman to not give out her number AT ALL is being unrealistic and delusional. In fact it says more about you and you insecurities than about her loyalty.

It’s 2018.

If someone approaches a woman to connect with her for ‘business’ a woman can say ‘ok hit me on Instagram’.

We all know what exchanging numbers means. A woman in a committed relationship would not quickly give her number to a man who aproaches her because we all know that men want to smash chicks and they know it which why culturally ‘getting the digits’ has a significance.

Nah, homie can write on IG and the second she feels it’s off she can block him.

Now are attention starved girlfriends with cheating or messed up boyfriends walking around more open to doing this?

Yes, of course.

 

[Silver Surfer]

I feel you

 

[TheNig]

You're getting older and just don't have the patience for that part of dating anymore. That's really all it is bruh.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Develop an abundance mentality. Having options takes away the scarce mentality -- oneitis

Regardless of social media, women aren't really get holla in RL. Dudes be stop and staring like this

Be more selfish. The game is about YOU, not her.

Save texting for initating meetups. Don't be a platonic texting buddy.

Attention is like fukking CRACK to a woman. Give her little of your non-sexual attention.

FLIRT with her and create sexual TENSION

Personally, I'm lazy asf and take time to respond to people. Small talk is more about evaluating a person's vibe and aura. That's what bishes want.

 

[paperbag]

With some people i will apologize for not picking up by the second ring, other people may not get a response for 36 hours.
In the example op gave about setting up plans to meet, I'd take it she wasn't really interested, don't have to totally bush her but he should not put in a lot of effort.
Yes people are busy, I wouldn't respond to text or call when at work or out with familyyfriends but I might dm since I'm usually constantly online

 

[karim]

You want the best advice on women? Watch a woman’s actions more than her words. They’ll lie to you about what they want in a man but their actions tend to be the complete antithesis. A man who has played the field will give you that realness on women.

I was messing with one dime whose phone would literally get a ping every minute. She had 100 unread messages from 100 different thirsty guys. She CHOSE who would get an immediate response. Some guys she wouldn’t respond to in weeks. And when she would respond it would be a “hey” or “cool.”

They have hierarchy of who they’ll respond to. Trust me. There’s no such thing as “busy” unless you’re low on her priorities.

This, any man who doesn't understand this is a fukking fool
That's also why it doesn't matter if you consider a late reply disrespectful or not. That's beside the point. It tells you where you find yourself in her hirarchy of Interest. You then need to decide if you are willing to deal with everything that comes with that position. Me personally, I'm not jumping through hoops and fighting for attention If our level of Interest isn't mutual, I'm gone But other people might have a different attitude, which is perfectly ok. The only thing you shouldn't do is have a wrong assessment of what position you are in when it comes to a womans interest.

 

[Dushane Hill]

I’ve been dating a lot recently and I have found myself having less and less time for women who take 5 and 6 hours at a time to respond. I know common “mack” and “pua” wisdom is to disregard this and let her text when she gets around to it but I’m like “fukk that”. I get the logic behind it and it works but I feel like if a woman has not recognized my value enough to respond to me within a reasonable amount of time, she is not worth my time. I got a homie in prison that texts back faster than some of these broads...to me it’s unacceptable. So the question I have is does anyone else feel the same way? I personally don’t have the time or energy to be trying to conquer low interest bytches...if she ain’t with it and won’t put forth any effort she can keep it pushin’.

P.S. If you’re not out here dating and smashing hold your opinion because your lack of female attention FORCES you to follow up on every opportunity. I’m asking dudes who are successful with women and in a good space in life.

Just means you're at the back of the line tbh same bytch will text her priority nikkas back within minutes or seconds, but yeah ultimately not worth the effort, just keep it moving.

 

[reserved_one]

Man I'm the worst at texting back...sometimes it will take me 2-4 hours or longer to reply back.

I had issues with women that hated how slow I would text them but I would either be working, talking to someone else, doing tasks or watching TV.

I honestly don't even get bothered with women taking forever to text back anymore. If they reply back cool, if not? Oh well...she's not interested.

I don't have time to worry about those kinds of things. You just gotta move on to the next one but make sure when you are texting a woman your interested in make it known early on that you want have a meet up.

Small talk are one of the common pet peeves for women I've noticed