Women Taking Too Long to Respond to Texts is Now a Deal Breaker for Me.

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Both arguments are valid if think about it. Personally, I am of the opinion of taking your time; however, I can understand the decision of those of us who choose to do otherwise.

Some men like the OP purely invests their time text messaging women with the sole intention of receiving dividends in exchange for their interest. After a short time, if he doesn’t yield results, he moves on. Fair enough, and there are many different ways to approach dating that will yield positive results.

The female who chooses to ignore his texts simply is involved with a current situation that yields more dividends for her personal interests than the OP does. Nobody owes anyone anything, even respect.

She may sort through her process and at the end of it, you may be the best option for her. Some things take time to develop. Every machine doesn’t operate at the same frequency.

My personal advice to you op is to be patient and enjoy life and it’s offerings. Don’t let a construct like time keep you from manifesting your true destiny.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

P.S. If you’re not out here dating and smashing hold your opinion because your lack of female attention FORCES you to follow up on every opportunity. I’m asking dudes who are successful with women and in a good space in life.

SAY IT LOUD FOR THE FOLKS IN THE BACK!!

I swear this is my biggest problem with people on this site. nikkas simpin cuz they have no choice

 

[Deuterion]

Both arguments are valid if think about it. Personally, I am of the opinion of taking your time; however, I can understand the decision of those of us who choose to do otherwise.

Some men like the OP purely invests their time text messaging women with the sole intention of receiving dividends in exchange for their interest. After a short time, if he doesn’t yield results, he moves on. Fair enough, and there are many different ways to approach dating that will yield positive results.

The female who chooses to ignore his texts simply is involved with a current situation that yields more dividends for her personal interests than the OP does. Nobody owes anyone anything, even respect.

She may sort through her process and at the end of it, you may be the best option for her. Some things take time to develop. Every machine doesn’t operate at the same frequency.

My personal advice to you op is to be patient and enjoy life and it’s offerings. Don’t let a construct like time keep you from manifesting your true destiny.

 

[360dagod]

This, any man who doesn't understand this is a fukking fool
That's also why it doesn't matter if you consider a late reply disrespectful or not. That's beside the point. It tells you where you find yourself in her hirarchy of Interest. You then need to decide if you are willing to deal with everything that comes with that position. Me personally, I'm not jumping through hoops and fighting for attention If our level of Interest isn't mutual, I'm gone But other people might have a different attitude, which is perfectly ok. The only thing you shouldn't do is have a wrong assessment of what position you are in when it comes to a womans interest.

Unless you have a model face or offer immediate value, your starting out with tepid interest..

Women and men value gauge interest differently..if she got a big ass, she gonna get the code red treament from a male...

Where as if a nikka makes a female cry of laughter, he gets chauffeured above certain prospects...

Which means depending on how you initially got her, your standard philosophy might deserve more fluidity depending if you feel she worth it

 

[Blackrogue]

I stopped paying attention to what women do on their phones including texting me. In fact I'm the one who doesn't like small talk texting and like the second poster I only us it to set up meets.

If a woman doesn't respond maybe that's not the time to follow through on that relationship. Maybe down the line. I don't Bush them. I go with their pace but I treat them with the same urgency they treat me.

 

[Sccit]

I ain't buying no chic I'm casually dating a phone and I damn sure ain't paying the bill just to get a timely mannered response. Either block all those numbers that are clutter or I'll step aside and allow one of the lames to play the game.

AND THATS WHY YOU PULLIN 3S N 4S INSTEAD OF 8S AND 9S

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Okay. You can’t cry out for attention and then turn around and shun rational advice.

You are literally crying on the internet because a woman isn’t showing you attention. Worse off, you are openly rejecting logic because you are too busy being married to your emotions to realize the dimensions of the world we live in.

Be concerned with why a woman won’t text you back brehs...

Be concerned about female attention and cry about it instead of looking within.

The universe is sending you a simple sign that you need to change something about your approach. My senses and logic prompted me to come to the realization that it’s probably the level of your thirst.

 

[Sccit]

Y’all know you can still bag woman that take awhile to reply right? Just put her on the back burner and pursue other woman. I’m surprised nikkas in this thread all in they feeling talkin bout block her. Just don’t make her your priority but don’t ghost the hoe u can still fukk.

CATS IS MORE SENSITIVE THAN FEMALES ON THIS WEBSITE

 

[Blackrogue]

And let’s keep it real. And let’s all be mature.

Do you think any woman would take hours to respond to someone like Trey Songz? Most women are hitting him back ASAP. (Except for women on Rihanna or Beyoncé’s level)

Now of course a small percentage of men are in his position. However, I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum. I used to be a heavy simp until I got to college. Once I learned how most of these women are, my game went up 90%.

You want the best advice on women? Watch a woman’s actions more than her words. They’ll lie to you about what they want in a man but their actions tend to be the complete antithesis. A man who has played the field will give you that realness on women.

I was messing with one dime whose phone would literally get a ping every minute. She had 100 unread messages from 100 different thirsty guys. She CHOSE who would get an immediate response. Some guys she wouldn’t respond to in weeks. And when she would respond it would be a “hey” or “cool.”

They have hierarchy of who they’ll respond to. Trust me. There’s no such thing as “busy” unless you’re low on her priorities.

All I can tell you men is that remember, YOU are the prize. She is replaceable. Do the initial hunting but make sure you remember you’re the king and she wants to stay in your castle.

Some women on here will dismiss what I’m saying for obvious reasons but you know I’m keeping it real with you.

Women can be intentionally deceptive with their actions too bro. Anyone can. I've seen women hugged up cuddled on some dude and their some under current stuff going on he's not even clued in on cause this girl snuggled up on him.
Dudes can as well if the motive is right. You gotta understand and ask yourself who is this person and possible motives they may have and how deception with you can get them their goals.

 

[Rawtid]

Yeah, I'm so busy that I can't spare 10 seconds to reply back I'm so busy that I can't reply back even though I'm on lunch break scrolling through social media. I'm so busy that I can't reply back eventhough i'm on the train home and I got my earphones in scroll down my music list.

Wow, this thread full of awful excuses. I ain't never seen a chick without her phone all in her face.

Sometimes you start to respond and something comes up and you forget to send it. I often have my phone on airplane mode to play games. I feel what you’re saying, but it’s just not a big deal to me.

 

[Deuterion]

Okay. You can’t cry out for attention and then turn around and shun rational advice.

You are literally crying on the internet because a woman isn’t showing you attention. Worse off, you are openly rejecting logic because you are too busy being married to your emotions to realize the dimensions of the world we live in.

Be concerned with why a woman won’t text you back brehs...

Be concerned about female attention and cry about it instead of looking within.

The universe is sending you a simple sign that you need to change something about your approach. My senses and logic prompted me to come to the realization that it’s probably the level of your thirst.

Dumb ass shakespeare looking ass nikka in no post in this thread was I crying because a woman wasn’t showing me attention. I simply stated that I’m at the point where I bush females with low interest instead of following the PUA strategies and that’s it. You are creating a straw man so that you can respond in a way that is relevent to your understanding of dating BUT IT DOES NOT APPLY HERE. I’m not thirsty, I’m not lonely, I’m handsome, in shape, and I’m successful with women but I’m at a point where I have no time for females that DO NOT understand that I’m a top shelf dude...they need to get on or off the bus...no lolly gagging. You coming in here with your dumb ass psuedo philosophy talking bout “dont let the artificial construct of time stop you from reaching your destiny” that smart dumb nikka advice. nikka I’m a finite creature...my entire existence is bound by time you dumb dumb. I got 90 +/- years even if I manage to avoid high blood pressure, diabetes, and White supremacy.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Dumb ass shakespeare looking ass nikka in no post in this thread was I crying because a woman wasn’t showing me attention. I simply stated that I’m at the point where I bush females with low interest instead of following yhe PUA strategies and that’s it. You are creatinga straw man so that you can respond in a way that is relevent to your understanding of dating BUT IT DOES NOT APPLY HERE. I’m not thirsty, I’m not lonely, I’m handsome, in shape, and I’m successful with women but I’m at a point where I have no time for females that understand that I’m a top shelf so they need to get on or off the bus...no lolly gagging. You coming in here with your dumb ass psuedo philosophy talking bout “dont let the artificial construct of time stop you from reaching your destiny” that smart dumb nikka advice. nikka I’m a finite creature...my entire existence is bound by time you dumb dumb.

Impressive response. Sounds as if your mind is already made up. Why start the thread then? Validation? Insecurity?

 

[RTF]

Yeah it's fine.

There's girls that will hit me up in minutes every single time.

There's those that take a few hours.

And there's some, who will take days.... days.

I don't sweat it at all. I've moved girls up from barely texting back and answering my calls to calling me every day.

When a girl hits me up frequently i'm nearly always smashing or she really wants. She'll drop things to make time - that can be cool for awhile.

The few hours girls. Often working with big careers. When they have time they'll get to me. These are highly interested in me or i've smashed before.

The days and days girls. Probably either barely interested or have other mens dikk in their mouths - taking their time. Could be busy with real life or a combination of the aforementioned.
That's fine. There's a decent percentage of these that can join the interested ranks - the others will filter themselves up over time.

But for me, I need girls at all these stages. I need those take days to respond girls to see what really works or circumstances that work well.

 

[Matt504]

Dumb ass shakespeare looking ass nikka in no post in this thread was I crying because a woman wasn’t showing me attention. I simply stated that I’m at the point where I bush females with low interest instead of following the PUA strategies and that’s it. You are creating a straw man so that you can respond in a way that is relevent to your understanding of dating BUT IT DOES NOT APPLY HERE. I’m not thirsty, I’m not lonely, I’m handsome, in shape, and I’m successful with women but I’m at a point where I have no time for females that DO NOT understand that I’m a top shelf dude...they need to get on or off the bus...no lolly gagging. You coming in here with your dumb ass psuedo philosophy talking bout “dont let the artificial construct of time stop you from reaching your destiny” that smart dumb nikka advice. nikka I’m a finite creature...my entire existence is bound by time you dumb dumb. I got 90 +/- years even if I manage to avoid high blood pressure, diabetes, and White supremacy.

If you have all the qualities you claim to possess then surely the ratio of time-wasters to non time-wasters is such that most women can clearly see that you're a "top shelf dude", and don't waste your time, right?

 

[Larry Lambo]

I wouldn't make it a dealbreaker. She just isn't going to be pursued anymore.

If she wanna f**k and hits me with a "wyd", I ain't gonna be like "3 weeks ago I hit you up and you didn't respond quick enough"