Yeah, she may have not been a side chick, but he definitely wasn’t serious about her if all they did was chill at the house, and have sex. Even broke brehs take a woman around to run errands, and introduce to friends and family. He probably declined to go to her events with her friends and family.
With that said, I think it’s interesting that Coli brehs are calling her a side chick, while telling other brehs not to take women on nice dates, or spend too much money. You see how a woman thinks of you when you don’t spend money. Now granted, he’s already smashing, but if she waited until he spent money, y’all would still be calling her a user, and gold digger.