Right. Exactly. and it's easy for me to "stand out". because that kind of vulnerability doesn't bother me. I told someone once, a little dramatically, that there was some of my heart in every text I send. lol -and that's why I hate getting ghoted- But in a sense, it's true, because you can always tell I like someone. I never say "hey" or "what's up" or WYD or hows your day going.
I'm always trying to shortcut to where we are telling each other how much we want each other. Not that formal shyt.
and that is the performance of not appearing vulnerable, even though we all "catch feelings" and are attracted to people. it's very defensive and people come off very guarded for no real reason, like what do they accomplish with all that?
might be the goat text message if it garnered this response
